Dating no nos!
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Handcuffs on a first date...
Hey now, handcuffs could be a great first date for the adventurer...LOL JK, people, I wait until the third date to bring out props!
Don't wait too long - props are good!
So true! People can be so uptight!
Sorry, should have specified. Pink, fuzzy handcuffs. I can't take those things seriously.0 -
he didn't TELL her anything... texted it! He may have been drunk, Netchik may be right (a "friend" got a hold of his phone), or the guy is cuckoo for cocoa puffs! I say: all of the above.0
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Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
I'm with you on the sex issue. I think you could be in an exclusive relationship in less than 2 months, but regardless, sex is a personal choice. It'll happen when we're both on the same page about it and not a moment before then. It could be 2 months, it could be 2 years. If a guy doesn't want to wait, I understand that. People have different views about it, and he's better off finding someone who shares his.0 -
I went to dinner the other night with a guy that I've been talking to for about a month now and I offered to drive my car. I was driving down my street and he looked at my speedometer then looked at me and told me to slow down. Now, to me that is a big deal...I am an adult and I know how to drive, please don't tell me what to do!!!! smh...0
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Depends on how fast you were going. In a residential area, I'm sure it was not too fast.
But I was on a date with a guy once who was driving entirely too fast on a rainy night down a curvy highway. I asked him to drive more carefully. He told me to shut up. I made him pull over so I could get out. I called my dad to come get me, and you can guess how that ended.0 -
I agree Klingons suck. A couple dates does not mean I want:
You to move in
Call me every hour
Ask where I'm going
Ask where I've been
suggest I change anything
tell me what I do wrong
Call my mom0 -
Call my mom
This one amazes me, but I know girls (yes, more than one) who have done this because they have this crazy idea that if they can charm a guy's mom, he'll go "Oh, my mom likes her, so maybe she's the one." Usually, the reaction is more like "You're a psycho stalker, and I'm done with you."0 -
Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
THIS!! 2 months? Fish or cut bait already. i feel sorry for the guy. good for him for trying to push it forward. now he knows where he stands.
but by your own math, that's 4 dates. ... i usually know someone biblically by then.0 -
no shockers.
on the first date.
Second one OK? LOL0 -
I'm so happy I haven't had to date in 20 years! (As of today actually.)
You don't look old enough to have been married that long!0 -
I hate dating. I tried to sign back up for POF -- I had a really bad experience last year with a guy who kept harrassing me at work with really crude emails. I had to contact the guys boss to ask him to please have the emails stop (he wouldn't stop even asking politely). I don't know what happened, but a day later, my profile was deleted. I tried to go re-join and again, they deleted my profile after a day. What gives?! I'm not a spammer, I'm a good person. Don't I deserve love, too? Or... maybe it's a sign that this site is.. well, not for me?!0
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Handcuffs on a first date...
Frankly, that's how I roll
You know, in your pic you look like Mia Sara!0 -
I once invited a woman I had recently met to see a friend of mine's band play. The place they played was family oriented. Not a bar. She shows up with her bratty teenage over bearing daughter. At the end of the night, I told her goodnight and she went in for a kiss. Just then her teenage daughter sees what is going on and immediately c*ck blocks the whole thing.0
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I went to dinner the other night with a guy that I've been talking to for about a month now and I offered to drive my car. I was driving down my street and he looked at my speedometer then looked at me and told me to slow down. Now, to me that is a big deal...I am an adult and I know how to drive, please don't tell me what to do!!!! smh...
Just as long as you weren't trying to drive like they do in the cartoons...
Seriously though... most people don't realize how they drive and it freaks some people out. I've asked my wife on occasion to slow down in response to road conditions etc... There is never any offense intended. Only concern for safety.0 -
Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
THIS!! 2 months? Fish or cut bait already. i feel sorry for the guy. good for him for trying to push it forward. now he knows where he stands.
but by your own math, that's 4 dates. ... i usually know someone biblically by then.0 -
So no to coupons or yes to them? How many bases can be stolen before you get an out. Do doubles, triples, and Homeruns happen or not. What if its a walk? Can you walk all bases or should you sprint? Can you steal home plate? Does it matter if the bat is corked? What does bunting get you? Is a sacrafice fly just a good wingman or a crappy hitter? What happens if you get hit by a pitch?0
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So no to coupons or yes to them? How many bases can be stolen before you get an out. Do doubles, triples, and Homeruns happen or not. What if its a walk? Can you walk all bases or should you sprint? Can you steal home plate? Does it matter if the bat is corked? What does bunting get you? Is a sacrafice fly just a good wingman or a crappy hitter? What happens if you get hit by a pitch?0
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So no to coupons or yes to them?
Absolutely not.How many bases can be stolen before you get an out.
Two, max.Do doubles, triples, and Homeruns happen or not.
If you have a good slugging percentage, one can only assume they happen frequently. As they say, chicks dig the long ball.What if its a walk? Can you walk all bases or should you sprint?
If it's an intentional walk, she really likes you, and you should sprint.Can you steal home plate?
I think that's a felony.Does it matter if the bat is corked?
A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.What does bunting get you? Is a sacrafice fly just a good wingman or a crappy hitter?
I was thinking both were good wingmen, but if you're bunting for a base hit, that's just weak. And it usually fails.What happens if you get hit by a pitch?
You charge the mound.0 -
Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
THIS!! 2 months? Fish or cut bait already. i feel sorry for the guy. good for him for trying to push it forward. now he knows where he stands.
but by your own math, that's 4 dates. ... i usually know someone biblically by then.
dang and I thought I did well when I didn't put out on the first date
I made him wait until the next date0 -
Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
THIS!! 2 months? Fish or cut bait already. i feel sorry for the guy. good for him for trying to push it forward. now he knows where he stands.0 -
Im sorry but coupons on a first date is tacky.
Really? For me blatant waste of money is a turn-off. Have a good hard think about why you find this disturbing. Do you ever use coupons yourself? Or are you one of the lucky ones that never worries about their finances?0 -
Most of us know the dating nightmare stories or have experienced them ourselves, what is the worst offense you've encountered of heard about?
My best friend has been casually dating this guy for about two months, they just get together once every couple of weeks and they text. She hasn't made out wit him has only given him goodbye/goodnight kisses. He decided to skip ALL the bases and text her saying " I want to make sweet love to you this weekend" now she wants nothing to do with him so... NO BASE SKIPPING !!
Dating a guy for 2 months without giving it up is a dating 'no no' .....
THIS!! 2 months? Fish or cut bait already. i feel sorry for the guy. good for him for trying to push it forward. now he knows where he stands.0 -
Handcuffs on a first date...
Frankly, that's how I roll
You know, in your pic you look like Mia Sara!
Haha I've never "gotten" her before! :flowerforyou:0 -
If you arent attentive and sweet, don't bother. Yes, I like clingy.0
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I've had a few hairy first dates, personally I like being paid for in the UK we aren't big on coupons but I would say on a first date no that makes the man look like he doesn't want to waste money on me, which would make me think he wasn't serious about dating me. As for the telling to slow down that would hack me right off on a first date who is a man to tell me what to do (though I do have major control issues r.e an abusive ex).
I think the main 2 I have learnt is: don't insult your date I had one man who was clearly an expletive who complained about having to queue to get a drink for me, then comment that I had rather a lot on my plate, and then end the date by saying he likes me but he feels embarrassed to be with me because of my weight... WTG!
Secondly, I know its the 21st Century, but be a man a little bit, sitting down for coffee and then waiting while the girl not only queues, orders and pays but then not offering her ANYTHING is a great way to make sure you don't get a 2nd date.
Oh and the final one, I dated a nice enough lad and on the first date I did give him a kiss no tongues or anything but we really clicked and had talked for hours, after the date I drove home and the following day he decided he didn't want to see me again because he has 'hoped I would go back to his place for more than a kiss'
Thankfully my current bf is not a total douche0
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