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HWT2003
HWT2003 Posts: 45 Member
edited October 4 in Chit-Chat
Who do you think has a harder time moving on from a relationship? Male or Female Why?
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  • AmberMagdalena
    AmberMagdalena Posts: 461 Member
    Hermaphrodites.

    I joke of course.


    I think both sexes hurt equally, unless the relationship has been over in one party's eyes for a while.


    EDITED TO REMIND PEOPLE OF WHAT A JOKE IS.....
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    Hermaphrodites.

    DUMB!

    EDITED To ADD: A joke at another person's expense is NOT FUNNY! Hermaphrodites ONLY have both genitalia...Do YOU think anyone wants that for themself? How do you think they feel, are they HUMAN? How would YOU feel if YOU were a Hermaphrodite and someone made a stupid joke about you? That's why being PC is soooo important, some STUPID people do not KNOW what is really FUNNY! Also, we are finding NOW that about 1/3 babies are born with mixed genitalia and decisions are made at birth for the child as to their sex; and that OFTEN, the WRONG genitalia is removed causing MUCH Gender problems.

    Thanks to who ever invented PC, it keeps inconsiderate people in check!
  • flea2449
    flea2449 Posts: 499 Member
    Hermaphrodites.

    LMFAO!!!!!

    Female of course!
  • skinnylizzard
    skinnylizzard Posts: 460 Member
    Females, because we become too emotionally attached too soon....although if the relationship was long term, males have a harder time because they have a harder time with change.
  • darlalu00
    darlalu00 Posts: 187 Member
    Females...
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    Who do you think has a harder time moving on from a relationship? Male or Female Why?

    I think it has more to do with Personalities, coping skills and how deep EACH person felt the relationship was.. I've seen it BOTH ways.
  • AmberMagdalena
    AmberMagdalena Posts: 461 Member
    Females, because we become too emotionally attached too soon....although if the relationship was long term, males have a harder time because they have a harder time with change.


    totally.
  • TheCats_Meow
    TheCats_Meow Posts: 438 Member
    In a general sense, females.

    BUT, it totally depends on the relationship.

    In the one that I walked out of 2 years ago, it is definitely him that still has a hard time moving on. We were together for 7 years, have two kids together.

    Like I said, we've been apart for 2 years and he STILL grills my kids for info on mommy's dating life when they're with him.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Whichever one it was that got dumped.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Everyone is different. To try and say who has more difficult time with it is futile.

    Emotions are wicked if you allow them to rule who you are.
  • ljd0693
    ljd0693 Posts: 289 Member
    It depends on who ended the relationship. Usually the person that got dumped has the hardest time letting go.
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    In all of my last relationships, casual / serious or otherwise, it's been the guy that couldn't let it go. Those random emails "just checking on me"...... asking friends about me.... stalking me online.... I guess I'm good at cutting away. I cry for a week and then workout even harder so the next time the ex sees me, I'll be even hotter than he remembered and he can carry that image with him until he finds a nice dark place to release that mental image!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I despise sweeping generalisations based solely on gender. It depends on the people involved.
  • ceebs9
    ceebs9 Posts: 511 Member
    I despise sweeping generalisations based solely on gender. It depends on the people involved.

    This!
  • LoveleeB
    LoveleeB Posts: 560 Member
    I despise sweeping generalisations based solely on gender. It depends on the people involved.

    What Contrarian said because only women can see things this way.
  • sexyhottness28
    sexyhottness28 Posts: 13
    famales. most definately
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    Whichever person is skinnier
  • Ephena
    Ephena Posts: 610 Member
    In a general sense, females.

    BUT, it totally depends on the relationship.

    In the one that I walked out of 2 years ago, it is definitely him that still has a hard time moving on. We were together for 7 years, have two kids together.

    Like I said, we've been apart for 2 years and he STILL grills my kids for info on mommy's dating life when they're with him.

    This is my ex too!

    When one person feels the relationship is over and ends it and the other person didn't see it coming they tend to have a hard time letting it go. I've been on both ends of it and neither is easy but for different reasons. When you do the leaving the other person makes it hard by pushing for reasons and explanations. When you're the one that gets left you want the reasons and explanations.
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    I don't like to generalize.
  • Legalchica
    Legalchica Posts: 462
    I think who ever didnt want the relationship to end would have the harder time.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    Whichever person is skinnier

    This.
  • Eagles320
    Eagles320 Posts: 51
    Who ever has there heart broken. When a breakup happens most of the time one party has checked out before the actual breakup.
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    Whichever one it was that got dumped.

    Yeah. I'm going with this.
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    I would think it would be the "fatter" one that would have a harder time. You know cuz nobody loves fat people.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    I would think it would be the "fatter" one that would have a harder time. You know cuz nobody loves fat people.

    dang you must have just read the CAN YOU HANDLE THE TRUTH thread ! lOL
  • Rogiefreida
    Rogiefreida Posts: 567 Member
    I typically see a lot of guys hang on longer, just in very different ways from a female. Unless it's a short term fling, in which case I'd say women hang on longer.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    Who ever has there heart broken. When a breakup happens most of the time one party has checked out before the actual breakup.
    This is true. It always depends on the situation. I've seen both men and women go through hell, pining over their ex. And I've been on both sides.
  • lysa4
    lysa4 Posts: 31 Member
    Females, because we become too emotionally attached too soon....although if the relationship was long term, males have a harder time because they have a harder time with change.

    I too have to agree!
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I would think it would be the "fatter" one that would have a harder time. You know cuz nobody loves fat people.
    There's a whole genre of porn that defies your logic.
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    i'm a chick - i have NEVER had a single problem walking.
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