My first "NEGATIVE" feedback yes I did write negative

Miggy52

You can kill with kindness the southern way and smile, and say "well bless your heart" which really mean. F-OFF.
good luck with her; she is just a hater. Keep doing you.

Oh I love this. I'm going to try it at work tomorrow!

I like it as well....will have to remember that when someone gets under my skin or hits my last nerve...lol...

zoombie_bear

down with all haters!!!

I'm getting awful comments, rude ones for over a month and don't fell the need to socialize with them anymore, screw them all:devil:

Circa1964

I have a very large "hater" co-worker also. She won't diet, she won't exercise and she has come up with every excuse in the book as to why she can't adopt a healthy lifestyle. She insists bypass is the way to go, but she would fail because it is not a magic fix. You have to learn healthy habilts which she isn't going to do. She calls others "Skinny *****es". I nailed her about it one day. I haven't heard that again.

I mean "Bless Your Heart"

steffiejoe

Like another poster mentioned, Why is she watching what and if you eat? Thats none of her business. You offered to help her but she refused . She needs to deal with her own issues and not project them on you.

"Shake them haters off"

UsedToBeHusky

You handled yourself correctly. Just keep on doing what you are doing. Smile, be pleasant, but don't let her run over you either.

FearAnLoathing

How is it rude to ask if youve eaten anything? maybe shehasnt noticed you eating and was just asking



or shes probobly jealous

nikkimoon1382

What a jealous ho! Dont worry, you rock! Can't help those who refuse to help themselves! Keep up the good work!

PositivePower

Hey Girl you are doing AMAZING and welcome to this wonderful MFP!!! I am somewhat addicted and also write too much sometimes

It's all here everyone has said it...she is sooooooo jealous and feeling like a failure. It's a bad place to be!!! I have been there but NEVER said anything out load...I knew it was me upset with myself and just wanting to eat out of control, feeling jealous of those in control. I am sooo not a hater...I hate on myself sometimes...but I have totally started a new leaf since on MFP!!! July 2011

Now I work out 5-6 times per week, joined a running class, signed up for a 1/2 marathon...I pat myself on the back and no longer have cheat days...I enjoy and count what and eat and drink :drinker: if I go over it's fine just don't do it more than 1-2 times a week.

Keep up the GREAT work and ignore the poor lady

You Rock

bethdris

You are doing great, keep it up!

Jealous, much?? I know 2 people that had gastric bypass done, and they are well on their way to gaining it ALL back! Umm YOU decide what goes into your mouth!

You chose healthy options, she doesnt..NOT your problem!

kmcrey87

You can kill with kindness the southern way and smile, and say "well bless your heart" which really mean. F-OFF.

LOL Love this!

Let the jealous fuel you! You're kicking butt so far! CONGRATS!

Hoppymom

I like your response. I would however not admit in front of my manager that I was struggling to stay awake at work. It raises too many questions.

SarabellPlus3

I would have just laughed and said, "yes of course I've eaten today" and went on my merry way.

Yep! Why let things like this bother you? She doesn't hate you, she's disappointed in herself. So what if she asked you if you'd eaten, kwim?

Sounds like you're doing awesome, congratulations!

TNAJackson

I probably would have said something like "I didn't realize you were watching my every movement during the day. You must have missed some, however, since I've already eaten 3 times today and this popcorn makes four. Would you like to see my food diary?"

Crazy to think that she's basically stalking you in the office and admitted it in front of a manager.

Awesome comeback!

cassondraragan

She sounds so miserable! Just keep doing what you are doing, ignore the negativity. Niceness burns worse than meaness.