Is a divorced woman/single mother less attractive?
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and you know they put out
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Of course they are. It's like throwing a hotdog down a hallway.
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(I am a divorced, formerly single mother so simmer down)0 -
Any guy who wont date a single mom is not really much of a man! The man that will be attracted to you is the man that is worth your time. I had 2 children aged 9 and 12 when I divorced. The man that came into my life has totally stepped up to the plate and has been a real godsend! Plus, he's really hot and there were a line up of girls who wanted/want to be with him!I feel less attractive...
I work with a guy who refuses to date single mom's and I've talked to several men (not in a dating situation) that won't as well.
I know I'm to a point where I instantly have my guard up...I just assume most men have an issue and really I'm sure they don't but its made things difficult
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After being primarily single for the past 3.5 years, I'm fine with staying a single mom at this point. I've been doing just fine on my own so far. If its not broke why "fix it"0 -
look lets keep it real....................
this is just an opinion.
I myself am a fan of Milfs!............................ but for a short period..hehehehehehhehe not long term.:devil:
MILFS feel free to Message me...............0 -
Honestly I think its more attractive
1...They have been through a rough experience and they know what they want
2...Dont want to play games like some
3...I have kids so it works out perfectly
4...Plus you are a MILF (jk)
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Oh, screw it. I tried to post a link to my "I (heart) Hot Moms" t-shirt, but it didn't work.
Anyway, to answer the question, absolutely NOT. Divorce happens. Sometimes, through no fault of either party. There are times when both parties realize they're just not a match and are better off not being a couple. That's how it was with me when I was married (and divorced). It was probably the friendliest divorce ever, and we remained friends.
And kids? The only issue there is that they can be an inconvenience in getting together, but true adults can deal with that and understand that the kids always come first. So no...kids aren't an issue either.
The only thing that matters is, do the two people wanna be together? If so, previous relationships and children aren't the least bit important.
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Just wanted to say that I admire your attitude and you are absolutely right...if two people want to be together, that's all that matters! Thanks!0 -
Of course they are. It's like throwing a hotdog down a hallway.
:flowerforyou:
(I am a divorced, formerly single mother so simmer down)
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Not just no but hell no! Coming from a dad who loves kids, the more the merrier! I dont care if shes divorced, never been married, or whatever. There is something beautiful about a single mom. I totally respect them and I think it makes them more attractive. The long hours working, taking care of and putting the kids ahead of her own needs. For all of the single moms out there, I heart you!!0
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Divorced woman would be fine if it's one divorce, more than that I'd have to think about it.
Single mom would be fine if I wanted kids, but since I don't, I would not date her.
OK, but what about this? I'm a single mom, but my one and only child (and I don't want more) is 17 and a senior in high school. She still lives with me, but she's pretty much an adult at this point. A lot less responsibility on my part, she's pretty much raised.
So, would you write off a woman like me if you liked everything else about her? There are degrees of "single mom," so saying you wouldn't date one because you don't want kids doesn't really cover it all.
Having a guy judge you before he even knows you is bad news.
i disagree. finding a guy that knows exactly what he wants and is willing to walk away from boobs and a tight little bum in order to find it is a great thing.
just saying.0 -
Not just no but hell no! Coming from a dad who loves kids, the more the merrier! I dont care if shes divorced, never been married, or whatever. There is something beautiful about a single mom. I totally respect them and I think it makes them more attractive. The long hours working, taking care of and putting the kids ahead of her own needs. For all of the single moms out there, I heart you!!
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Not just no but hell no! Coming from a dad who loves kids, the more the merrier! I dont care if shes divorced, never been married, or whatever. There is something beautiful about a single mom. I totally respect them and I think it makes them more attractive. The long hours working, taking care of and putting the kids ahead of her own needs. For all of the single moms out there, I heart you!!
Single moms
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Divorced woman would be fine if it's one divorce, more than that I'd have to think about it.
Single mom would be fine if I wanted kids, but since I don't, I would not date her.
OK, but what about this? I'm a single mom, but my one and only child (and I don't want more) is 17 and a senior in high school. She still lives with me, but she's pretty much an adult at this point. A lot less responsibility on my part, she's pretty much raised.
So, would you write off a woman like me if you liked everything else about her? There are degrees of "single mom," so saying you wouldn't date one because you don't want kids doesn't really cover it all.
Having a guy judge you before he even knows you is bad news.
i disagree. finding a guy that knows exactly what he wants and is willing to walk away from boobs and a tight little bum in order to find it is a great thing.
just saying.
People like what they like. Why judge that? Sure it sucks to be judged right away as a single mom, but really who can complain about the honesty. You aren't a bad guy because you know what you likke.0 -
Divorced woman would be fine if it's one divorce, more than that I'd have to think about it.
Single mom would be fine if I wanted kids, but since I don't, I would not date her.
OK, but what about this? I'm a single mom, but my one and only child (and I don't want more) is 17 and a senior in high school. She still lives with me, but she's pretty much an adult at this point. A lot less responsibility on my part, she's pretty much raised.
So, would you write off a woman like me if you liked everything else about her? There are degrees of "single mom," so saying you wouldn't date one because you don't want kids doesn't really cover it all.
Having a guy judge you before he even knows you is bad news.
i disagree. finding a guy that knows exactly what he wants and is willing to walk away from boobs and a tight little bum in order to find it is a great thing.
just saying.
So a woman is only the sum of her body parts?
(And I'm not down on guys who don't want to date single mothers. It's this specific comment that rubbed me wrong and could be applied to any man OR woman, parent or not.)0 -
God I hope not.
I've found alot of guys tell me they don't know how I do it.0 -
I've only dated one guy that was uncomfortable with me being a mom. And he was almost 30 years old and working and living on campus. :laugh:
Every other guy I've dated has said it makes me more attractive. They see that I'm mature, stable and responsible because I am a single young mother but also find that I like to be fun and a little wild. Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
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Not just no but hell no! Coming from a dad who loves kids, the more the merrier! I dont care if shes divorced, never been married, or whatever. There is something beautiful about a single mom. I totally respect them and I think it makes them more attractive. The long hours working, taking care of and putting the kids ahead of her own needs. For all of the single moms out there, I heart you!!
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ROFL... just thought this was a dumb question :laugh: jmo....0
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ROFL... just thought this was a dumb question :laugh: jmo....
Nobody seemed to think the divorced man thread was a dumb question.0 -
Ok I get this threads theme......................................... raah rahhh cheers to all SIngle moms!!! you are all awesome!!!
Ok feel free to Message this awesomely tanned man! you Single moms all need a little latino heat in ya! :devil:
Shake and bake!:bigsmile:0 -
Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
This is going to sound awful, but God, I could only hope mine would do the same! :laugh:
There's not a lot of drama between him & I any longer but only because I ignore him at any and all costs except when it explicitly concerns the children and their wellfare. Anything that even hits to crossing over into my personal life, he gets shut down immediately. That may sound harsh, but I honestly can't deal with my ex without those kinds of boundaries set.0 -
I honestly prefer a woman with kids
I think I might go to dallas and try to hit on one next weekend.....just sayin0 -
Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
This is going to sound awful, but God, I could only hope mine would do the same! :laugh:
There's not a lot of drama between him & I any longer but only because I ignore him at any and all costs except when it explicitly concerns the children and their wellfare. Anything that even hits to crossing over into my personal life, he gets shut down immediately. That may sound harsh, but I honestly can't deal with my ex without those kinds of boundaries set.
As the mother of a child whose father bailed, no you don't. As long as he's a good dad to his kids, don't wish him away. They need him.
Sorry to get all serious in here, and I understand that you don't get along with him and it would be nice not to have to deal with him, but kids need their dads if it's possible to have them.0 -
My ex is not allowed to drive down our street! My current boyfriend enforces that! He has to pick up and drop off the kids at the corner! Sounds harsh, but it was necessary, he is a real idiot!Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
This is going to sound awful, but God, I could only hope mine would do the same! :laugh:
There's not a lot of drama between him & I any longer but only because I ignore him at any and all costs except when it explicitly concerns the children and their wellfare. Anything that even hits to crossing over into my personal life, he gets shut down immediately. That may sound harsh, but I honestly can't deal with my ex without those kinds of boundaries set.0 -
Ok I get this threads theme......................................... raah rahhh cheers to all SIngle moms!!! you are all awesome!!!
Ok feel free to Message this awesomely tanned man! you Single moms all need a little latino heat in ya! :devil:
Shake and bake!:bigsmile:
AWESOME!0 -
As the mother of a child whose father bailed, no you don't. As long as he's a good dad to his kids, don't wish him away. They need him.
I completely understand where you're coming from so it's all good. "Good dad" is always a debatable opinion, though. 0 -
My ex is not allowed to drive down our street! My current boyfriend enforces that! He has to pick up and drop off the kids at the corner! Sounds harsh, but it was necessary, he is a real idiot!Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
This is going to sound awful, but God, I could only hope mine would do the same! :laugh:
There's not a lot of drama between him & I any longer but only because I ignore him at any and all costs except when it explicitly concerns the children and their wellfare. Anything that even hits to crossing over into my personal life, he gets shut down immediately. That may sound harsh, but I honestly can't deal with my ex without those kinds of boundaries set.
MAYBE.............this is a reason some men dont choose to be with single moms....the drama.....just sayin!
Happy MILF fridays everyone!!!0 -
Oh, I would have thought that was dumb too.. just didn't see it :laugh: Why the hell would a "relationship" status make someone more or less attractive?!!! :huh:
Not trying to be a *****... I'm just blunt... soooowwwwy :flowerforyou: I still love you... we can still be friends :drinker: *hee hee*ROFL... just thought this was a dumb question :laugh: jmo....
Nobody seemed to think the divorced man thread was a dumb question.0 -
Plus my son's dad has bailed, which means no drama for my suitor.
This is going to sound awful, but God, I could only hope mine would do the same! :laugh:
There's not a lot of drama between him & I any longer but only because I ignore him at any and all costs except when it explicitly concerns the children and their wellfare. Anything that even hits to crossing over into my personal life, he gets shut down immediately. That may sound harsh, but I honestly can't deal with my ex without those kinds of boundaries set.
I was always civil before with him but it is actually for the best. He is completely worthless and it's easier for everyone for him to jsut stay gone.
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