Gotta Hate.... and Love ex boyfriends!

smkcx♥

good job I've had ex's that dumped me because of my weight (or dated me and wouldnt admit to it) and boys back in school who wouldnt of took a second look at me.

after i lost 70lbs (four years ago) it was refreshing to see the guys who once treated me like crap, tryna get back with me. (but like you, i realized they were buttheads and didnt deserve me!)

gotta love that feeling!! -- however, i gained 40 of those lbs back when I met my fiance LOL!

keep up the good work!

jsteinberg87

good job I've had ex's that dumped me because of my weight (or dated me and wouldnt admit to it) and boys back in school who wouldnt of took a second look at me.

after i lost 70lbs (four years ago) it was refreshing to see the guys who once treated me like crap, tryna get back with me. (but like you, i realized they were buttheads and didnt deserve me!)

gotta love that feeling!! -- however, i gained 40 of those lbs back when I met my fiance LOL!

keep up the good work!

Hey, its kind of a comfort thing. Knowing you're with someone who loves you unconditionally makes it kind of hard to have the self control of dieting and weight loss. In my experiences anyways. But as long as you are doing it for yourself, and no other reasons, That is what counts in my opinion.

smkcx♥

good job I've had ex's that dumped me because of my weight (or dated me and wouldnt admit to it) and boys back in school who wouldnt of took a second look at me.

after i lost 70lbs (four years ago) it was refreshing to see the guys who once treated me like crap, tryna get back with me. (but like you, i realized they were buttheads and didnt deserve me!)

gotta love that feeling!! -- however, i gained 40 of those lbs back when I met my fiance LOL!

keep up the good work!

Hey, its kind of a comfort thing. Knowing you're with someone who loves you unconditionally makes it kind of hard to have the self control of dieting and weight loss. In my experiences anyways. But as long as you are doing it for yourself, and no other reasons, That is what counts in my opinion.

oh yes, i agree!. my fiance loves me no matter how i look. he loved me at 174lbs and he loved me the same at 213! and he'll love me when im down to 160lbs! ) i love him with all my heart for that!

msbri90

LMBO!!!!

jsteinberg87

LMBO!!!!

*wink* I thought you'd like it

luvmycandies

gotta admit, I totally came in here thinking, ugh, not another one of "those" threads... But, KUDOS to you for dropping the weight and the dead weight, too! And, congrats on finding someone who loves you for you! Rock on!

^^ This!! Agreed!

Mallory0418

You are awesome! So glad you have found that respect for yourself! I want to meet him now though. And punch him in the face. What a douche.

McKayMachina

Good for you. All my exes except one were chubby-chasers so they couldn't care less about my weight loss. lol They keep mourning my boobs. XD But the one ex is also my best friend and the person who encouraged me to lose weight so it's a totally different story.

But, yeah, ex boyfriends in general, outside of the rare exception, are jerks. That's why they're your ex. XD

Sarabeth5

I love this thread!!

CalderaGal

Love what you wrote. I wish it were not true, but the fact is, when I feel loved, I do not have a weight problem.

mightymom2

*highfives* to you...:drinker: Love the poem, it really hit home with me, good luck on your weight loss journey

JustEllieK

I found someone who loved me when I was invisible.

I need to find one of these:(

LexieSweetheart

I love that poem. Congrats on your weight loss and finding someone who loved you at your lowest that is true love

Ocarina

I'm glad you see right through him. I'll bet $100 he is sending that bs to more then one chick. :laugh:

MîîśÊmÿłõü

love this!!

i know exactly how you feel though!
my ex is the same even though im married with 2 kids..go figure? lol