BREAKUPS, how do YOU deal with them?

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  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    I still miss my ex.

    But my aim is improving.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    cry, work out, shop, work out, move on

    ah yes, i do work out and shop a lot. i don't cry though.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Get under another guy!
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    Go to a bar, have 3 drinks, take the cutest guy you can find home.

    :flowerforyou:
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    I still miss my ex.

    But my aim is improving.

    god i hate bumpersticker wisdom.
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    A pocket full of money, someone in your friend circle who is unemployed
    And go to town for a couple days

    going to town with an unemployed someone in your friend circle?

    what exactly are ya sayin' here? =/
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I get over it, and go out with somebody else.



    But seriously, I clean my house, do some meditating, get out in public and interact with people... and of course, the best way to get over one guy is to get under another... But just for the getting unders.... not for like, anything meaningful. Best you don't even catch his name.
  • TheCats_Meow
    TheCats_Meow Posts: 438 Member
    Freak his best friend.

    I kid, I kid.









    Sorta.
  • Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused
    Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused Posts: 935 Member
    Post their picture and phone number in the Craigslist Casual Encounters section.
  • datguy2011
    datguy2011 Posts: 477 Member
    get under another guy?
  • Gigi_licious
    Gigi_licious Posts: 1,185 Member
    Drink the whole bottle of wine then pass out.
  • Gigi_licious
    Gigi_licious Posts: 1,185 Member
    get under another guy?

    This is true too. The best way to get over one is to get under one I always say.
  • kaits108
    kaits108 Posts: 305 Member
    I'm just actually focusing on myself. Working out as much as I can, getting to bed early (nerd alert!), cleaning my house like crazyyyy (and redecorating/rearranging things exactly how iiii want them), and I'm actually enjoying the meditative side of Pilates at night. I've been trying to do things with my friends in my free time and focusing on my son & really enjoying being silly and goofy and laughing with him. Basically I try to wear myself out all day so I go to sleep easier at night. And every day is easier and easier :)
  • Deathwithab
    Deathwithab Posts: 462 Member
    I'd love to just do stuff for myself and move on but I still live in the same house as him for a while.. So I have no money or room to move on lol
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    I recently went through a breakup. I'm better off without her. She wasn't the girl for me. I can do better. Continue to workout and feel better about myself. There are plenty others out there who will appreciate what I have to offer.
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    I still miss my ex.

    But my aim is improving.

    god i hate bumpersticker wisdom.

    Is this better?

    “Everything happens for a reason.”
    “If you were meant to be together, you’d be together.”
    You are so young, you have time to find the right one.”
    “You are too nice for him.” or “It’s for the best.”
    “No man or woman is worth your tears and the one who is won’t make you cry.”
    “There’s a cover for every pot.”
    “Time heals all wounds.”
    “It obviously wasn’t meant to be.”
    “It couldn’t have been ‘right.”
    “There are other fish in the sea.”
    “Whatever is for ye won’t go by ye.” (a great Scottish phrase)
    “Men (women) are like buses – another one will be along in 15 minutes.”
    “Things always work out for the best.”
    “You’ll get over it.”
    “Someone better is just around the corner.”
    “What comes around goes around.”
    “You get back what you give.”
    “They’ll get theirs.”
    “He (she) will regret it.”
    “When one door closes another one opens.”
  • kaits108
    kaits108 Posts: 305 Member
    I'd love to just do stuff for myself and move on but I still live in the same house as him for a while.. So I have no money or room to move on lol

    THAT has got to be hard! *hugs*
  • deepbluesea
    deepbluesea Posts: 29
    Plot revenge while running on a treadmill.

    love it!

    i gained 20 pounds bc of an *kitten*.. thats why im here on this site, trying to lose it. in retrospect, IT WASNT WORTH IT!!!
  • kimletton11
    kimletton11 Posts: 72 Member
    I try to surround myself with family and close friends.

    Or eat a container of Mayfield Birthday Cake ice cream.... :laugh:
  • SaishaLea
    SaishaLea Posts: 333 Member
    Plot revenge while running on a treadmill.

    Yes!!!! No really, forget him...
  • Typhanee83
    Typhanee83 Posts: 309 Member
    He normally just keeps calling to beg me back. Then I change my phone number. ;)
  • ShannanLaNae
    ShannanLaNae Posts: 434 Member
    Bump
  • LexieSweetheart
    LexieSweetheart Posts: 793 Member
    Take a weekend to cry about it, Have a ladies weekend with the girls and then forget him.
  • pinkgigi
    pinkgigi Posts: 693 Member
    When I had a breakup (just before my birthday, sheesh), I ate a huge block of chocolate he had brought to soften the blow, and then I launched a project for myself called "Hot for my 50th", it had goals, actions and timelines just like a real work-time project.

    Since then (late July), I've lost 8 kgs and gotten really fit, and I'm making plans for the future. I would like a partner, but I can live with being alone. Any guy who comes along now would have to enhance and enrich my life.

    GG
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