Calories Eaten vs. Calories Earned Through Exercise

bcattoes

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

That may be true, but so could civil replies.

I don't necessarily disagree. Would you care to provide a rhetorical analysis of the civility of the replies received in the first few pages?

No, not really.

MikeSEA

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

That may be true, but so could civil replies.

I don't necessarily disagree. Would you care to provide a rhetorical analysis of the civility of the replies received in the first few pages?

No, not really.

I thought not.

MikeSEA

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

Sorry I don't believe in crosses. But people being kind in the first place could of helped all of this be avoided. You are just one of them apparently

Or I'm just annoyed that you throw around words like "hateful" with such liberal abandon without actually having a good idea of what they really mean. I could give an idea of "hateful" would really look like, but it would just give you yet more ammunition to play the victim, but you seem more than capable of manufacturing that as you go.

leahbea22

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

Sorry I don't believe in crosses. But people being kind in the first place could of helped all of this be avoided. You are just one of them apparently

Or I'm just annoyed that you throw around words like "hateful" with such liberal abandon without actually having a good idea of what they really mean. I could give an idea of "hateful" would really look like, but it would just give you yet more ammunition to play the victim, but you seem more than capable of manufacturing that as you go.

I'm not the one that used the word hateful. Read the posts it was someone else. So get your facts straight kind sir

bcattoes

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

That may be true, but so could civil replies.

I don't necessarily disagree. Would you care to provide a rhetorical analysis of the civility of the replies received in the first few pages?

No, not really.

I thought not.

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

MikeSEA

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

Sorry I don't believe in crosses. But people being kind in the first place could of helped all of this be avoided. You are just one of them apparently

Or I'm just annoyed that you throw around words like "hateful" with such liberal abandon without actually having a good idea of what they really mean. I could give an idea of "hateful" would really look like, but it would just give you yet more ammunition to play the victim, but you seem more than capable of manufacturing that as you go.

I'm not the one that used the word hateful. Read the posts it was someone else. So get your facts straight kind sir

You said:

Thats not what I'm saying either. If i'm wrong please tell me i'm wrong, but you don't have to do it in such a hateful way especially when this site is to help motivate people. And yes the way people were saying it is negativity, bashing and hate and all that crap. I'm not getting an attitude I'm simply asking for guidance in a support positive way. What you just said is discouraging and negative.

So you're wrong or a liar, which is it?

leahbea22

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

Sorry I don't believe in crosses. But people being kind in the first place could of helped all of this be avoided. You are just one of them apparently

Or I'm just annoyed that you throw around words like "hateful" with such liberal abandon without actually having a good idea of what they really mean. I could give an idea of "hateful" would really look like, but it would just give you yet more ammunition to play the victim, but you seem more than capable of manufacturing that as you go.

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

MikeSEA

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

leahbea22

Getting tired of explaining?? Then don't try to help. First time commenting and i get ripped apart?? I'm done talking about it won't reply no more. But i'm not going to sit here and let people bring me down because they are perfect and know all and are tired of explaining. How rude was that. Sorry i asked for help Please enjoy your day

Ditch the drama and get off the cross. This topic is discussed in so many ways per week that a simple use of the search function could have helped you avoid any of this.

Sorry I don't believe in crosses. But people being kind in the first place could of helped all of this be avoided. You are just one of them apparently

Or I'm just annoyed that you throw around words like "hateful" with such liberal abandon without actually having a good idea of what they really mean. I could give an idea of "hateful" would really look like, but it would just give you yet more ammunition to play the victim, but you seem more than capable of manufacturing that as you go.

I'm not the one that used the word hateful. Read the posts it was someone else. So get your facts straight kind sir

You said:

Thats not what I'm saying either. If i'm wrong please tell me i'm wrong, but you don't have to do it in such a hateful way especially when this site is to help motivate people. And yes the way people were saying it is negativity, bashing and hate and all that crap. I'm not getting an attitude I'm simply asking for guidance in a support positive way. What you just said is discouraging and negative.

So you're wrong or a liar, which is it?

People disagreeing with you is not negativity, or bashing or hate or any of that crap. You were wrong and people told you that you were. This is the internet. If you don't want anyone to disagree with you ever, then you're not going to like it here.


No I'm not.

leahbea22

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

MikeSEA

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

MikeSEA

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

I replied in kind. I assume you must have been using the second person plural there.

UsedToBeHusky

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

I replied in kind. I assume you must have been using the second person plural there.

How can you say that you replied in kind? You ended your statement with a "Goodie" which is obviously an attempt at sarcasm!

MikeSEA

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

I replied in kind. I assume you must have been using the second person plural there.

How can you say that you replied in kind? You ended your statement with a "Goodie" which is obviously an attempt at sarcasm!

Bcat accused me of giving my response a lack of thought. It was flippant and rude. I reiterate that I replied in kind. More questions?

leahbea22

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

Well when being like the rest of them no you wouldn't see it. And yeah I do have insecurities, forgive me. But yes the way people did react and me being new to all of this it was like i was slapped in the face. So excuse me for feeling that way when I thought I was trying so hard to find out I'm just wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. Forgive me. But i'm done with this conversation. I will no longer put in my two cents of my journey. You all win go about your business. But i'm glad others learned from my huge mistake of ever saying anything. never again will I do it. I will keep to myself and stick to what my body tells me. Thank you all for making me see the world really is still just a mean mean place even when you are trying to do something good for yourself.

MikeSEA

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

Well when being like the rest of them no you wouldn't see it. And yeah I do have insecurities, forgive me. But yes the way people did react and me being new to all of this it was like i was slapped in the face. So excuse me for feeling that way when I thought I was trying so hard to find out I'm just wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. Forgive me. But i'm done with this conversation. I will no longer put in my two cents of my journey. You all win go about your business. But i'm glad others learned from my huge mistake of ever saying anything. never again will I do it. I will keep to myself and stick to what my body tells me. Thank you all for making me see the world really is still just a mean mean place even when you are trying to do something good for yourself.

Just to verify that would be you *not* playing the victim, yes?

leahbea22

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

I replied in kind. I assume you must have been using the second person plural there.

How can you say that you replied in kind? You ended your statement with a "Goodie" which is obviously an attempt at sarcasm!

Bcat accused me of giving my response a lack of thought. It was flippant and rude. I reiterate that I replied in kind. More questions?

You called her a meaningless quip. Whatever that means but you are smarter than the rest of us.

UsedToBeHusky

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

You are just rude

I replied in kind. I assume you must have been using the second person plural there.

How can you say that you replied in kind? You ended your statement with a "Goodie" which is obviously an attempt at sarcasm!

Bcat accused me of giving my response a lack of thought. It was flippant and rude. I reiterate that I replied in kind. More questions?

I misread the previous posts. When the statement was made "It probably didn't take a lot of thought." I thought she was referring to the first few pages of rhetoric that you asked her to comment on.

UsedToBeHusky

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

Well when being like the rest of them no you wouldn't see it. And yeah I do have insecurities, forgive me. But yes the way people did react and me being new to all of this it was like i was slapped in the face. So excuse me for feeling that way when I thought I was trying so hard to find out I'm just wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. Forgive me. But i'm done with this conversation. I will no longer put in my two cents of my journey. You all win go about your business. But i'm glad others learned from my huge mistake of ever saying anything. never again will I do it. I will keep to myself and stick to what my body tells me. Thank you all for making me see the world really is still just a mean mean place even when you are trying to do something good for yourself.

Just to verify that would be you *not* playing the victim, yes?

You are just a troll pretending to be something else. She did not start this conversation with you, but you have taken it upon yourself to end it apparently. You are picking the bones of the carcass like a scavenger.

bcattoes

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

Sorry, how is "I didn't think so" a question?

The only question you asked was did I want to do something to which I replied "no". Any other response would have been a lie.

MikeSEA

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

Well when being like the rest of them no you wouldn't see it. And yeah I do have insecurities, forgive me. But yes the way people did react and me being new to all of this it was like i was slapped in the face. So excuse me for feeling that way when I thought I was trying so hard to find out I'm just wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. Forgive me. But i'm done with this conversation. I will no longer put in my two cents of my journey. You all win go about your business. But i'm glad others learned from my huge mistake of ever saying anything. never again will I do it. I will keep to myself and stick to what my body tells me. Thank you all for making me see the world really is still just a mean mean place even when you are trying to do something good for yourself.

Just to verify that would be you *not* playing the victim, yes?

You are just a troll pretending to be something else. She did not start this conversation with you, but you have taken it upon yourself to end it apparently. You are picking the bones of the carcass like a scavenger.

That may be a semi-accurate interpretation. It's probably a little troll-like. I won't call it a defense, but my motivations are most likely centered around being offended by her lack of perspective. Take that as you like.

MikeSEA

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

Sorry, how is "I didn't think so" a question?

The only question you asked was did I want to do something to which I replied "no". Any other response would have been a lie.

Given responses you've written in the past, I'm afraid I don't wholly believe you. Essentially, I asked if you wanted to go 12 rounds and bother to back up your implication (that people were being rude to that point). You declined, which is fair enough. But having read your responses in the past, I interpreted it as just a passive aggressive capitulation. So I baited you a little, which you gave back, and here we are.

leahbea22

And you calling me a victim it is noway what I am trying to do. I thought I was helping. I apparently didn't. i've repeated apologized for being wrong, but i'm also not going to sit here and be treated like i am some kind of idiot when I'm learning as I go. So before you decide to judge why don't you just back off and go back to your own little word.

You don't seem to get it. No one wants...or wanted...an apology from you. What they wanted was for you to simply not react as if someone slapped you in the face. Nor did anyone treat you like an idiot, but it does say something about your own insecurities that you assumed that they did.

Well when being like the rest of them no you wouldn't see it. And yeah I do have insecurities, forgive me. But yes the way people did react and me being new to all of this it was like i was slapped in the face. So excuse me for feeling that way when I thought I was trying so hard to find out I'm just wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. Forgive me. But i'm done with this conversation. I will no longer put in my two cents of my journey. You all win go about your business. But i'm glad others learned from my huge mistake of ever saying anything. never again will I do it. I will keep to myself and stick to what my body tells me. Thank you all for making me see the world really is still just a mean mean place even when you are trying to do something good for yourself.

Just to verify that would be you *not* playing the victim, yes?

You are just a troll pretending to be something else. She did not start this conversation with you, but you have taken it upon yourself to end it apparently. You are picking the bones of the carcass like a scavenger.

That may be a semi-accurate interpretation. It's probably a little troll-like. I won't call it a defense, but my motivations are most likely centered around being offended by her lack of perspective. Take that as you like.

Lack of perspective. I was trying to gain it! And I get those responses. That is where you don't understand. Just end it. You are smarter than me I have no problem accepting that, because no matter what I say you will just come back with something more victorious. I'm not an idiot, what i've been doing has been working, but more insite to how this site worked would of just been help and i would of gladly accepted it. Not being shut down by people who do not want to explain how the site works. What have you helped with? All you have done is commented on a conversation you came late too and we are supposed to accept you are just right. Well sir, I give you. You are right. And I apologize I offended you in anyway

maidentl

You need to just ignore some people on these boards. I don't know why some people get pleasure from posting responses in a sarcastic manner meant to make others feel small, but there is no shortage of them on these boards.

Except for the part where THIS DIDN'T HAPPEN.

bcattoes

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

Sorry, how is "I didn't think so" a question?

The only question you asked was did I want to do something to which I replied "no". Any other response would have been a lie.

Given responses you've written in the past, I'm afraid I don't wholly believe you. Essentially, I asked if you wanted to go 12 rounds and bother to back up your implication (that people were being rude to that point). You declined, which is fair enough. But having read your responses in the past, I interpreted it as just a passive aggressive capitulation. So I baited you a little, which you gave back, and here we are.

The responses were rude, and it seems obvious that was their intent. If it were not, the response to being called rude would likely have been more along the lines of "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to come off rude...", not further sarcasm and rudeness.

edited to remove question as I'm headed home so no more time to play now.

UsedToBeHusky

It probably didn't take a lot of thought. Who would want to do that?

Yay another meaningless quip that doesn't actually address what I asked. Goodie.

Sorry, how is "I didn't think so" a question?

The only question you asked was did I want to do something to which I replied "no". Any other response would have been a lie.

Given responses you've written in the past, I'm afraid I don't wholly believe you. Essentially, I asked if you wanted to go 12 rounds and bother to back up your implication (that people were being rude to that point). You declined, which is fair enough. But having read your responses in the past, I interpreted it as just a passive aggressive capitulation. So I baited you a little, which you gave back, and here we are.

Are you enjoying yourself? I bet you are a psych major. Not that I have anything against the field personally, but I find those who feel the need to express their own self-importance use the practices to belittle others. Belittling others is a bully tactic to make one feel better about themselves.

maidentl

You called her a meaningless quip. Whatever that means but you are smarter than the rest of us.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

MikeSEA

Lack of perspective. I was trying to gain it! And I get those responses. That is where you don't understand. Just end it. You are smarter than me I have no problem accepting that, because no matter what I say you will just come back with something more victorious. I'm not an idiot, what i've been doing has been working, but more insite to how this site worked would of just been help and i would of gladly accepted it. Not being shut down by people who do not want to explain how the site works. What have you helped with? All you have done is commented on a conversation you came late too and we are supposed to accept you are just right. Well sir, I give you. You are right. And I apologize I offended you in anyway

I appreciate your apology, but I don't think you get it, still. I apologize if I've genuinely caused you stress. There's no way to determine whether or not I'm smarter than you. I don't think you're an idiot, but neither of those are the point. People corrected you, nothing more.

UsedToBeHusky

You called her a meaningless quip. Whatever that means but you are smarter than the rest of us.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Wow! This is exactly what she has been talking about. That is rude! Seriously, you are supposed to be using this site to affect lifestyle changes that make you feel better about yourself. You are not supposed to use the site to find people to belittle so that you can feel better about yourself. That is sooooo the opposite of support and would totally turn people off about the site whether it is helpful or not!

MikeSEA

Are you enjoying yourself? I bet you are a psych major. Not that I have anything against the field personally, but I find those who feel the need to express their own self-importance use the practices to belittle others. Belittling others is a bully tactic to make one feel better about themselves.

No, not a pysch major. And I don't know that I would call it enjoyment. The shortest response I can give, in an effort to restrain my apparently overwhelming need to express my own self-importance, is to say that I disagree with your interpretation.