NSV - guy smacked my behind in the grocery store

CMmrsfloyd

I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

Actually I was extremely offended, but you know, whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and cuts your grocery trip short and preoccupies you with looking over your shoulder in the checkout line which is great for not picking up extra snacks in the impulse aisle. Score one for the chip resistance.

AZTrailRunner

I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

Actually I was extremely offended, ....

Then don't call it a "victory"!

CMmrsfloyd

Glad I could help with your NSV.

Nice try, you are much more Caucasian than this guy was. Maybe next time. LOL

tiptoeketo

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

I would have done the same!

:noway:

CMmrsfloyd

I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

Actually I was extremely offended, ....

Then don't call it a "victory"!

It's a joke. I didn't enjoy it at the time, but a couple hours later it's funny and creates a nice dialogue on MFP. :-). Kind of like how I cried when my mom backed into my car on the way to shop for my wedding dress, but now it's kind of funny.

zee_baybee

Newbie question: I see everyone posting the 'NSV' what does that stand for?

NSV - Non Scale Victory

Oh very cool. Thanks!

psmd

That is really funny! I probably would have gotten mad, but secretly take it as a compliment! lol

And agree with a previous poster--does that even still happen nowadays?!

scott1024

Glad I could help with your NSV.

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Jeff, did you log the running under cardio as you made your escape?

CMmrsfloyd

Glad I could help with your NSV.

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Jeff, did you log the running under cardio as you made your escape?

LOL

aqua_zumba_fan

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Abso-freaking-lutely. Horrid git!

KristaWeiss

that totally counts!!! Good for you!

Laces_0ut

out of curiosity would any guy object to getting slapped on the butt by an attractive female? i know i wouldnt.

and i know its different for men and women.

cajunlady56

I wouldn't consider an assult a victory - just saying

bliss78

Love this it totally counts, kudos to you! loll

jakejacobsen

out of curiosity would any guy object to getting slapped on the butt by an attractive female? i know i wouldnt.

and i know its different for men and women.

no but I would make sure my wallet was still in my pocket

CMmrsfloyd

I wouldn't consider an assult a victory - just saying

With there being absolutely nothing I could do about it after the fact (guy already gone, didn't see his face, can't exactly chase him down yelling 'security!' with my 4 yo in tow - if the store even *has* security), all that's left to do is laugh about it and go on with life. :-)

Not to mention there is the complete possibility that it could have been an accident and my brain wants to think it's on purpose, b/c even though it's demeaning at least it means he had a good reason to do it. Twisted, right? But he ran away too fast for me to ask if he really meant to do it or not. The quick getaway could have been a quick getaway, or an embarrassed slinking away after a mistake. There was no accompanying narration or even SVU style suspenseful background music, so I can't be sure.

Either way, it makes for a fun thread. :-)

Nanadena

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Me three!

thirtyandthriving

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Agreed and in front of my kid?? No way! I probably would had him arrested!! Lol

Beckym1205

I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

This

CMmrsfloyd

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Agreed and in front of my kid?? No way! I probably would had him arrested!! Lol

Kiddo didn't see it. I was facing my kid at the time and my butt was behind me. I may have lost 23 lbs but there is still enough of me that my little guy didn't have a clear view of my butt. LOL

thankyou4thevenom

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

OMG this.

charlotte3176

I think it is funny. I would have been shell shocked too!!! Congrats to you and your hot looking self.

unsuspectingfish

I'm one of those people who reacts before thinking, so the guy probably would've been on the ground, with me standing over him yelling something like, "Thanks, but USE YOUR WORDS."

timeforachange2011

I this!!! Too funny! and more importantly, I want to know where this grocery store is...I may need to go. HA! jk

wish21

Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Agree! I would have been like Excus me?:noway: That's kinda rude!

PegasusDeb

I this!!! Too funny! and more importantly, I want to know where this grocery store is...I may need to go. HA! jk

LOL I was just going to post this!! ha ha ha I wanna shop where my Charmin gets squeezed! :smokin:

JMehl135

great NSV. got to laugh at this stuff and take it as a compliment!

catherine4211

It may have been inappropriate of him but c'mon.......I'm sure he meant it as a compliment so why not just enjoy it?!? Now if he had waited outside the grocery store for you that's a whole other story. No harm no foul.

poisongirl6485

Geez, some of you people really need to lighten up. Calling it an assault is an insulting slap in the face to women who actually have be assaulted and harmed/injured by someone. Gimme a break.

OP---glad you're finding the positive in the situation! Yeah, the guy's a douche, but might as well enjoy the fact that your fanny is something to lust over again! Congrats on your weight loss!

babygurl48

I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

Agreed!!!!