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astarte09
astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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So lately, I have been feeling soo sexy and amazing. Last night my boyfriend finally said he could really see a difference. He has ALWAYS said I was sexy, and was turned on by me. Lately though, I am not interested. I have absolutely no desire for anything sexual.. Is this normal??? :ohwell:
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  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    So lately, I have been feeling soo sexy and amazing. Last night my boyfriend finally said he could really see a difference. He has ALWAYS said I was sexy, and was turned on by me. Lately though, I am not interested. I have absolutely no desire for anything sexual.. Is this normal??? :ohwell:
  • hmo4
    hmo4 Posts: 1,673 Member
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    Here here. How old are you? My poor hubby....need i say more. There's only so many headaches, TOM, and stomach aches you can have. He's on to me , I know it!:wink:
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    Im only 23!!! Ill be 24 next month! My boyfriend keeps thinking it is HIM, but it isnt. He is the sexiest thing I have ever seen! I just dont know what I can do to want it again:blushing:
  • hmo4
    hmo4 Posts: 1,673 Member
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    Are you stressed? You're too young for that!! I'm 41 so I've had a long run already at ...you know. Maybe it's just a little phase?:huh:
  • Mangoaddict
    Mangoaddict Posts: 1,236 Member
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    There can be phases like that in a relationship. It's normal. However, keep an eye out for it. You don't want to go too prolonged. Try watch a sexy flick/romantic movie. That always works! ;)
  • little_wolfie
    little_wolfie Posts: 91
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    I'm going through the same thing and I'm 22. no advice, just wanted to tell you you're not alone! :)
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    I am sure hoping so. I am ALWAYS stressed..ahahha.. I work 40 hours, and take 18 credits this semester;...plus still work out.. Before, I didnt always want it, but once it happened, I liked it. Lately, nothing...
  • Poison5119
    Poison5119 Posts: 1,460 Member
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    What kind of bc are you using? Certain forms of bc sometimes lower the libido, especially if its a sudden onset.

    Me, I give up. Menopause, I'm convinced, destroys sex drive.
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    I'm going through the same thing and I'm 22. no advice, just wanted to tell you you're not alone! :)

    :laugh: Thats good to hear.,, I have still been giving it to him, for him.

    And im on the Nuvaring..I have been on it for 2 or 3 years, and have never had this problem.. Isnt there a tea or something? hahaha
  • PunkinHeadsMOMMA
    PunkinHeadsMOMMA Posts: 306
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    So define "lately". I know I go through spurts of "don't even think about it buddy". And also times of can't get enough. I think that's natural (your bodies hormone production). If it's not a coming and going kind of thing, then maybe you should think about going to see your gyno. They are there for more than just the yearly pap. They know a bunch more about hormone levels and the inner workings of the female body than sometimes we as women do. :wink:
  • hmo4
    hmo4 Posts: 1,673 Member
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    My husband has this fallacy that we are supposed to be at our peak sex drive at this age. God knows where these rumors start. EVERYONE I know feels the same at this age. Get a porn movie, that might do it...:wink:
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    Thats what I told him last night. Its only been like for a week. Not too long...but he gets so upset when I tell him no! I am hoping this passes within the next week...Its just odd that I am not enjoying it when we are doing it! That has never happened before.
  • hmo4
    hmo4 Posts: 1,673 Member
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    That's nothing. Probably hormonal.
  • armywife
    armywife Posts: 11
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    I'm going through the same thing. My husband came home from overseas in October and I've put on 15 pounds, so I blame that, and my girlie parts were in hybernation for 15 months and haven't quite come out of it. Poor guy, he tries, but I'm just not into sex. I love me some snuggle time though.
  • magichatter06
    magichatter06 Posts: 3,593 Member
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    I think, personally for me it has been the BC...ortho tri cyclen lo (sp?) I mean before that, I was pretty excitable & now it's like...pft :yawn:

    lol
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    Maybe Ill hit one of those "stores" and get some stuff...Maybe I will feel into it if I can find some lingerie that looks great on me!!

    Porn does nothing for me... This is Vegas, I grew up seeing that stuff.. Stupid Vegas! tainted me! :laugh:
  • msarro
    msarro Posts: 2,748 Member
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    Agreed. My girl isn't always the friskiest... but thats what porn and strip clubs are for :)
    lol
  • havingitall
    havingitall Posts: 3,728 Member
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    Me, I give up. Menopause, I'm convinced, destroys sex drive.

    Glad it hasn't for me!
  • hmo4
    hmo4 Posts: 1,673 Member
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    Guys don't really like to snuggle without getting it first-that's why I love my dog so much-no expectations. This is really the only thing we fight about. Unfortunately, he has a very high sex drive and mine has faded away. I'm on meds that take it away though. He still doesn't get it though, that I can't help it. Guys think that if you don't put out, you don't love them. How much more reassurring do they need? I wash his underwear and watch his various sport's highlights for God sake!:laugh:
  • astarte09
    astarte09 Posts: 531 Member
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    I think, personally for me it has been the BC...ortho tri cyclen lo (sp?) I mean before that, I was pretty excitable & now it's like...pft :yawn:

    lol


    I was on that when I was younger.. It didnt change anything..But ive been on this forever and at first I was crazy, but now, I love it. I cant see that being it all of a sudden

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