Conversations with Him :)

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  • LolasEpicJourney
    LolasEpicJourney Posts: 1,010 Member
    I initiated conversations with my husband-I asked him out and I picked him up(he didn't have a car and I did)
  • SPheonix22
    SPheonix22 Posts: 90 Member
    I guess the easiest thing to do would be to talk about his hobbies and dislikes. Find f you have something in ccommon and work from there. As far as initiating FIRST contact. Depends on the guy. I always scope my guys out from adistance first ( lightly stalk). Ask questions of mutual friends, classmates. Look at the way he dresses and how he talks ( states a lot about upbringing and social interests ).
    At that point I would lead with what he likes and then after conversation is going state that I thought he was interesting and would like to get to know him better. I've even used the damsel in distress for a guy that I knew was ultra sweet but shy. I confessed later and he thought it was adorable.

    I think the biggest thing is to make them think that they are leading. Don't worry about initiating as long as you let them know you don't want to lead all the time theyre good.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    On a date.... What's a good conversation starter?
    How many of you women like to initiate convos with a guy?
    Men, do you perfer women to initiate the conversation?

    Just collecting data..... Lol

    You should probably initiate the conversation. Most guys would be tongue tied around such a beautiful woman.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    On a date.... What's a good conversation starter?
    How many of you women like to initiate convos with a guy?
    Men, do you perfer women to initiate the conversation?

    Just collecting data..... Lol

    You should probably initiate the conversation. Most guys would be tongue tied around such a beautiful woman.

    Well thanks! I guess we would be both tounge tied because I cant even speak if it is a nice looking guy in front of me...Unless he smiles..then I will compliment that and then probably walk away do to nerves lol....
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    I would much prefer women initiate conversation. Another shy guy here.
  • OfficialPR
    OfficialPR Posts: 1,578 Member

    You should probably initiate the conversation. Most guys would be tongue tied around such a beautiful woman.

    Well thanks! I guess we would be both tounge tied because I cant even speak if it is a nice looking guy in front of me...Unless he smiles..then I will compliment that and then probably walk away do to nerves lol....

    Agree, you would make me nervous with your beauty but again at the end of the day, a true man will get you talking so you become relaxed...
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member

    You should probably initiate the conversation. Most guys would be tongue tied around such a beautiful woman.

    Well thanks! I guess we would be both tounge tied because I cant even speak if it is a nice looking guy in front of me...Unless he smiles..then I will compliment that and then probably walk away do to nerves lol....

    Agree, you would make me nervous with your beauty but again at the end of the day, a true man will get you talking so you become relaxed...


    Well...I'll be waiting for that true man....It would make it so much easier... since I am a shy lady.
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