photo i saw on facebook

soccerella
soccerella Posts: 619 Member
edited October 5 in Chit-Chat
someone I know just put this picture up on facebook, with the title "happy friday guys"

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Harmless for the most part, but now that i'm trying to get more healthy all i can think is stop posting pictures of girls that are too thin!
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  • I'm sorry, I was stuck looking at the picture. Can you re-type everything you just said? I missed it.
  • soccerella
    soccerella Posts: 619 Member
    I'm sorry, I was stuck looking at the picture. Can you re-type everything you just said? I missed it.

    hahaha im torn...part of me wants to say its attractive, part of me thinks hip bones should not jut out like that
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    She's not too thin. I really wish people would stop posting on MFP about how they think fit women are too skinny.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    Her legs are far too thin in my humble opinion...
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Her hipbones stick out like that because she is laying down. Gravity!
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    I'm sorry, I was stuck looking at the picture. Can you re-type everything you just said? I missed it.

    LOL
  • Some people are just more petite with smaller frames than others. She doesn't look unhealthy.
  • soccerella
    soccerella Posts: 619 Member
    I guess i should clarify that this was also posted by a guy who once bragged that he "got a girl skinny by telling her she was fat" yea, that girl developed an eating disorder after he cheated on her......so yea, probably the reason the photo hits a nerve with me is the person who posted it
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    IMHO....she is very thin. Too thin for my liking...

    But she doesn't need to impress me...
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    She's not too thin. I really wish people would stop posting on MFP about how they think fit women are too skinny.

    *applauds*
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    she looks fine. Hip bones will do that, stick out. You know?

    I too am tired of fit women being "too skinny".
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    Being an American living in my third country so far, I can say with pretty firm certainty:

    A lot (not all) of Americans seem to have a skewed perspective:
    -Skinny in America is normal most elsewhere
    -Normal is overweight
    -Overweight is morbidly obese

    Anyways, I dont understand the photo o-O can someone explain what it has to do with Friday...and what the meaning is behind it?
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I guess i should clarify that this was also posted by a guy who once bragged that he "got a girl skinny by telling her she was fat" yea, that girl developed an eating disorder after he cheated on her......so yea, probably the reason the photo hits a nerve with me is the person who posted it

    The guy's a jerk.

    From what I can see of that picture, that particular woman looks pretty healthy.

    Why is it OK to tear a woman down for being "too thin"? I'm not talking anorexic, unhealthy, worried-for-your-life thin. Just thinner than the woman who's doing the tearing down.
  • KimmieBrie
    KimmieBrie Posts: 825 Member
    I think she looks fine - I don't think she looks too thin. Laying down does make your hip bones stick out.
  • NeuroticVirgo
    NeuroticVirgo Posts: 3,671 Member
    I think she's fine....I mean she doesn't look sickly. I personally don't like the whole hip bones sticking out thing...but I have big hips, and my hip bones are already starting to show and I'm still 60lbs over weight, so I can imagine what they will look like if I get down to 150.... Just throwing that out there.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I guess i should clarify that this was also posted by a guy who once bragged that he "got a girl skinny by telling her she was fat" yea, that girl developed an eating disorder after he cheated on her......so yea, probably the reason the photo hits a nerve with me is the person who posted it

    The guy's a jerk.

    From what I can see of that picture, that particular woman looks pretty healthy.

    Why is it OK to tear a woman down for being "too thin"? I'm not talking anorexic, unhealthy, worried-for-your-life thin. Just thinner than the woman who's doing the tearing down.

    I agree. There is no winning or losing.
  • 12skipafew99100
    12skipafew99100 Posts: 1,669 Member
    I use to look like that.
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    Heck, I'm ginormous and when I lay down in a similar position (3/4 sort of deal), my hipbones are pretty visible... of course, we're all built differently and my thighs,calves are more musclular. I shall never have straight looking calves like that. Hate to hear a backstory though about some poor woman being emotionally blackmailed into getting thinner. It's a shame that she may have done it in a way that wasn't healthy and in the end lead to her own internal sickness just for outer beauty. It's the whole book/book cover thing. My favorite books have the ugliest covers from real life experiences. That's just me :)
  • woou
    woou Posts: 668 Member
    Being an American living in my third country so far, I can say with pretty firm certainty:

    A lot (not all) of Americans seem to have a skewed perspective:
    -Skinny in America is normal most elsewhere
    -Normal is overweight
    -Overweight is morbidly obese

    Anyways, I dont understand the photo o-O can someone explain what it has to do with Friday...and what the meaning is behind it?

    Pretty much. Maybe eye candy before the start of the weekend?
  • eddie8131
    eddie8131 Posts: 600 Member
    Not too thin imho. Could you hand me a flashlight? :)
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Some people are just more petite with smaller frames than others. She doesn't look unhealthy.

    exactly.
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member

    Harmless for the most part, but now that i'm trying to get more healthy all i can think is stop posting pictures of girls that are too thin!

    The problem (often) isn't the size of the girl, it's the mentality of the one looking at the picture. In my days of disordered eating I def found and idolized pictures of women who were TOO thin, they were anorexic, they were not fit, they were dying. There is a difference.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    Hard to judge from this photo. Can you post some without any clothes, so we can do a more accurate assessment?
  • OH MY GOD HER BELLY BUTTON IS NOT AN INNY OR AN OUTTIE!!! WTF????
  • yummy♥
    yummy♥ Posts: 612 Member
    happy friday, indeed.
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I don't think she is too thin, it is just her build. She has a very beautiful body.
    I have a very large build, it would be like someone telling me I am fat for having a large build that would be very nice.
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  • Tonnina
    Tonnina Posts: 979 Member
    IMHO....she is very thin. Too thin for my liking...

    But she doesn't need to impress me...
    yes.... This!
  • Gamergl
    Gamergl Posts: 58 Member
    Are you sure it's a 'her'? Looks like a bit of a hairy tummy .......
  • Savemyshannon
    Savemyshannon Posts: 334 Member
    Are you sure it's a 'her'? Looks like a bit of a hairy tummy .......

    A lot of women, especially ethic women, have a lot more body hair than a pale white woman. I know I am constantly plucking various body parts :laugh:

    That said, I don't think she's 'too' skinny; she's skinnier than I would ever like to be, but I don't think she looks unhealthy or scary in any way.
  • eddie8131
    eddie8131 Posts: 600 Member
    I don't think she is too thin, it is just her build. She has a very beautiful body.
    I have a very large build, it would be like someone telling me I am fat for having a large build that would be very nice.
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    Well if they told you that they would be blind, in my humbest of opinions. You are beautiful!!!!!
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