Am I alone again?

collyllama

Make her believe you don't really care anymore. Don't be mean, just not as attentive and 'available'. She'll come around. We can be pretty nasty to our men when we don't feel threatened however if she thinks you have lost interest in her, she may want to talk about it. If that doesn't work, be just as mean to her as she is to you. Grow a pair and stand up to her. As long as you act like her whipping boy, she will treat you like one. One way or another, you have to do something since what you are currently doing isn't working. Again, just my suggestion... but I know that when my hubbs did it, it worked for us... for now anyway Good luck to you!

I really have to say, I don't believe playing games and "be as mean to her as she is to you" is a great policy when there is a child in your home, watching both of you. I don't pretend to have a magical fix, but two people being cruel sure doesn't seem like it will resolve anything. If talking to her, trying to see a counselor together, and respectfully trying to mend the relationship is not something she responds to, then maybe it is time to consider moving on. Just protect yourself and especially your son and your time with him first.

Agreed! Games are never good. Here's a suggestion, for what it's worth. Ask her for 30 days, find the book The Love Dare and work through it. She doesn't have to or need to know you're working through it... just check it out. Just my $.02... and good luck, If you need to chat, I'm here. I've been there and we were able to work things out...