You're annoying.

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  • Weh, weh, weh,,,complaining about people not "supporting" you is mildly annoying. Although encouragement is nice, you should not depend on it to accomplish your goals. Plus, if you say kind words to someone do it because you want to, not for the return "support". Sorry, I had to....

    It's ok, shouldn't apologize. I mean, yeah...you seem like a c*nt to me now especially just assuming that I depend on others support for accomplishing goals. That's pretty ignorant, "encouragement is nice" and I am just looking for those who understand my struggles. That's all. Thanks for the comment though ;) glad your ego felt it would be helpful!
  • You are so annoying! ;) Geez with all your hard work and weight loss...that's not what we're here for!! J/K Love having you on my list!!

    :heart: I love having you MORE! Hahaha!:laugh:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I'm not actually reading this and don't care who I annoy...

    But OP, I LOVE your profile pic. Way cute.
  • yeah I get that and I do delete people for things like that. I have had friends that I felt like just "collected" me but never interacted with me.
    I HATE feeling like I was collected!!
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    ^^ This is my point exactly! Thank you...don't add someone if you don't plan on haveing some sort of dialog!
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    keep looking at that cupcake in your hand is annoying...TAKE A BITE for cryin out loud!!!!
  • candicejn
    candicejn Posts: 458 Member
    I tend to reply to most of the posts on my wall. I often wonder if I'm that "annoying" friend, myself :D But I guess if they get that annoyed they can just push the little delete button. I want people to know that I'm there and supporting them. I have a bunch of people on my list that never reply, and that irritates me WAY more than the people who may just post "WTG!" or "Nice job!" on every post. At least those people are making an effort to return the support :)
  • I'm not actually reading this and don't care who I annoy...

    But OP, I LOVE your profile pic. Way cute.

    And now I love you! (The annoy thing was just to get peoples attention to read though--back fired!)
  • keep looking at that cupcake in your hand is annoying...TAKE A BITE for cryin out loud!!!!

    I've taken too many bites unfortunatly :/ (Damn wonderful baking skills!)
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    keep looking at that cupcake in your hand is annoying...TAKE A BITE for cryin out loud!!!!

    I've taken too many bites unfortunatly :/ (Damn wonderful baking skills!)

    well give it here...Ill eat the dang thang...I'll be annoyed at myself later but someone very annoyed once said" all life is annoying" ...uh...wait...I read that here!
  • I delete people who never log in, who have too much to say like they have to make a status about every bite,every moment, if they never comment on my stuff oh and I don't add men, for some reason, men are total creepers on here! its like some come on here just to get their spank box filled for the chubby chaser fetishes!


    BAHAHAHAHA! Gross! The image in my brain right now..... *shutter*
  • sizzlinoverthefat
    sizzlinoverthefat Posts: 136 Member
    LOL, "eat the damn thing" now that was funny! :laugh: Seroiusly lighten up people, it's not about others, it;s about you and how you can improve yourself!
  • bekkaL85
    bekkaL85 Posts: 133 Member
    So, if you're looking for heart felt comments on your updates and have a small friends list, then I'm all for you defriending folks (I've done that) and friend me. :) But if you just want to see how many comments you can get on an update, it might be a good opportunity to reevaluate your motives. Good luck! :)

    I agree totally. I need, more often than I'd like, support. I need ideas to help me eat better. I need someone to yell at me everyonce in awhile. What I DON'T need though is a pat on the head everytime I meet my calorie goal. This isn't facebook to me. This is a place to talk about food and nutrition and exercise. A place to vent when you're starving or having a craving and you know that no one else will understand. If you're here for the sole purpose of making irrevelant relationships and *****...then this isn't the place for you in my opinion.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    This is why I have chosen to be unsuccessful. I prefer to annoy people with my personality, rather than with success.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    This is why I have chosen to be unsuccessful. I prefer to annoy people with my personality, rather than with success.

    Amen. :drinker:
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,809 Member
    This is why I have chosen to be unsuccessful. I prefer to annoy people with my personality, rather than with success.

    Me too. Also with the odd noises my body makes.
  • This is why I have chosen to be unsuccessful. I prefer to annoy people with my personality, rather than with success.

    Hahaha, I like you.
  • ya know whats annoying? When people try to one up your success by telling you what they have accomplished right after you just got done telling them your success. Can I please enjoy my F#cking moment please??? Outside of MFP

    Also, people who smoke.. they dont want to hear about how I'm coming up on a year of being smoke free. It took me 22 frikken years to quit! But they just dont want to hear it. I understand, it annoyed me when people would tell me they quit while i was sucking em down myself
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    ya know whats annoying? When people try to one up your success by telling you what they have accomplished right after you just got done telling them your success. Can I please enjoy my F#cking moment please??? Outside of MFP

    Urg my cousin is like this. She will call me and ask me how I'm doing and if I lost 2lbs she's lost 12, If I've lost 6lbs she's lost 40. Yeah it's annoying. She actually told me she's lost 40lbs in one week. I must have stupid written on my forehead.
  • rhaya96
    rhaya96 Posts: 66 Member
    I guess I'm not paying enough attention to the "friends" on this site...lol. There are core people that I communicate with because we 'click'. I'm sure there are people who haven't posted in a while but I hardly notice them. It would take more time for me to comb through my list and delete people than to just keep up with the people who keep up with me.

    If no one ever made a comment I'd still keep pushing on...just my take on the topic.
  • knovello82
    knovello82 Posts: 110 Member
    I deleted everyone on mfp because none of them would respond to anything anymore. I need supportive people!
  • I haven't had trouble on mfp with people being annoyed by my successes, but I have in real life. When people get annoyed, it has everything to do with them...and nothing to do with you. It's their problem...just be happy for yourself, stay close to the people who are truly happy for you, and always...keep moving forward!!
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    I use this site for tracking my calories, exercise and weight.
    I do not use it as a social networking site and have limited my 'friends" because all the 'support' does get annoying.
    Seriously -does "AWESOME" as a response to your workout or completed diary really support and motivate?
    Maybe its me. I have social network sites for social networking and fitness sites to track my fitness.


    AWESOME
  • Andylee63
    Andylee63 Posts: 154 Member
    Just want to add...
    Why shouldn't you be excited at losing weight...
    We have had to fight to get to where we are now, so why not shout about it...

    If I annoy people with my achievements, then stuff them...
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    You can shut them up by telling them "Being fat is hard just like exercising, you either pay it forward now and work out, or pay the hospital bill later and be lazy." hehe.
  • RAFValentina
    RAFValentina Posts: 1,231 Member
    You ever feel like you "annoy" others with your successes (annoy is probably the wrong word.) How long do you give people to return support on here before you remove them?

    Totally... but even if I had no friends i'd still post! I'm doing it for me and I praise their successes and try to cheer them on too!
  • mydoc3
    mydoc3 Posts: 232 Member
    I am never annoyed by someone who posts that they are losing. The only ones that annoy me is the chronic complainers. And yes, I will delete them. We all have bad days and may post about it but it is the people that ONLY complain. But be proud of your success, if there are some that are annoyed by that then get rid of them. Just my opinion. :wink:
  • ya know whats annoying? When people try to one up your success by telling you what they have accomplished right after you just got done telling them your success. Can I please enjoy my F#cking moment please??? Outside of MFP

    Urg my cousin is like this. She will call me and ask me how I'm doing and if I lost 2lbs she's lost 12, If I've lost 6lbs she's lost 40. Yeah it's annoying. She actually told me she's lost 40lbs in one week. I must have stupid written on my forehead.

    That is my biggest pet peeve...people lying to you like you're an idiot!
  • Kany
    Kany Posts: 336
    It's your friend list. Do what you want with it.

    I generally don't care if they interact or not. It doesn't affect me.

    ^^ this
  • I haven't had trouble on mfp with people being annoyed by my successes, but I have in real life. When people get annoyed, it has everything to do with them...and nothing to do with you. It's their problem...just be happy for yourself, stay close to the people who are truly happy for you, and always...keep moving forward!!

    Great way to think! I love it!
  • I use this site for tracking my calories, exercise and weight.
    I do not use it as a social networking site and have limited my 'friends" because all the 'support' does get annoying.
    Seriously -does "AWESOME" as a response to your workout or completed diary really support and motivate?
    Maybe its me. I have social network sites for social networking and fitness sites to track my fitness.


    AWESOME

    Hahahahahaha!
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