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mylilyflower
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Im just curious to know what the men out there think. What comes into mind when you see a woman with stretch marks. Esp on the tummy area? I have a child and Im working on losing my weight. I know my stretch marks wont ever go away. They do and dont bother me mostly because I see them as my stripes of honor for having my daughter.
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I haven't met a woman that would let me see hers. LOL My ex-wife didn't get any from our little guy, and been single since.0
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it's kinda nasty0
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Nice...lol.0
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Men who are somewhat mature realize this is life & we understand. Maybe BOYS would give a *kitten*, but men don't.0
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I dunno, I once rolled some smarties down an ex's stretch marks before... she thought it was funny... but the again I have some as well so I guess I'm used to them?0
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If you don't make a huge deal out of them, I won't. I will judge you poorly if you keep bringing them up and fretting about them, as I can't be with someone who isn't secure in their own skin. If you have them and accept them or say something like, "eh, I'm working to make them less noticeable but the damage is done," I'll respect you and admire you for being confident.0
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Most guys are just happy to see you with your clothes off when the time comes.0
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If casual then it is just another part of life,if when being intimate then about the last thing I care about.0
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Men who are somewhat mature realize this is life & we understand. Maybe BOYS would give a *kitten*, but men don't.
yep pretty much.. do what you can to fix them but dont stress over them, if a guy cant accept you because of them you dont need to be with him anyhow0 -
Men who are somewhat mature realize this is life & we understand. Maybe BOYS would give a *kitten*, but men don't.
I LOVE YOUR RESPONSE !!!!!!!! WINNER :flowerforyou: :drinker:0 -
Men who are somewhat mature realize this is life & we understand. Maybe BOYS would give a *kitten*, but men don't.
THIS!!!!!
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The paraphrased Katt Williams response is truth.0
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Can't remember the last time i actually noticed them on my wife...
Yeah, seriously. I have yet to meet a guy that is preoccupied with stretch marks or other minor imperfections. When they're looking at all the HOT stuff you've got to show off, it makes all the not-so-hot stuff not as noticeable.0 -
Men who are somewhat mature realize this is life & we understand. Maybe BOYS would give a *kitten*, but men don't.
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Most guys are just happy to see you with your clothes off when the time comes.
LOL.
Seriously, it doesn't bother me. It happens. If it's a deal breaker the guy isn't worth it anyway.0 -
I can't imagine caring what a man thought about mine! I have two incrdibly beautiful children who constantly bring joy and have allowed me to be the Greatest, ost wonderful thing in the world; a mommy!! I would think anyone who loves you would love EVERY single part of you, including those minor little stretch marks... I'm not sure if my husband even notoces mine LOL...He is even more attrated to me than he ever was...even before I had stretch marks! I LOVE my body!!! And that is why I am here working on improving it and making it healthier, but I'm doing it for ME - not a MAN. Just my 2 cents
***have to love all the missing letters in my post LOL - posting from my phone - blame Blackberry0 -
Doesn't bother me. I mean, i have my own faults and insecurities, so why should i judge?0
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Thanks for the input yall.
If my husband tells the truth, they dont bother him either...lol.0 -
Doesn't bother me. I have plenty myself anyway, how could I complain?0
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i recently met a guy who LOVES stretch marks. specifically from a woman having a child. He thinks they're the sexiest thing ever, because it shows the sacrifices you've made to become a mother. he loves his kids more than anything, so that probably has something to do with it, but really, on any woman, he finds them a huge turn-on.
and i think that's sexy!0
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