What women want

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  • Christina1007
    Christina1007 Posts: 179 Member
    A cross between Jude Law and Ewan McGregor AKA my profile picture! If I can have them both, that would be great, thanks!
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    According to the Sweet Potato Queen, these are the five essential men a women needs in in her life are:
    1. A man to dance with
    2. A man to talk to
    3. A man who can fix things
    4. A man who will buy you things (flowers)
    5. A man to have sex with

    For the record, I dance badly, hate home repairs and don't like buying presents. :tongue:
  • brattyworm
    brattyworm Posts: 2,137 Member
    According to the Sweet Potato Queen, these are the five essential men a women needs in in her life are:
    1. A man to dance with
    2. A man to talk to
    3. A man who can fix things
    4. A man who will buy you things (flowers)
    5. A man to have sex with

    For the record, I dance badly, hate home repairs and don't like buying presents. :tongue:

    who said they all have to be the same man? :devil:
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member

    who said they all have to be the same man? :devil:

    according the the Sweet Potato Queen, there is no way in hell that they are one man. that is why she called them the 5 essential men. :laugh: :laugh:

    if you have not read her books, I highly recommend them. by Jill Conner Browne, "Sweet Potato Queens' Book of Love" and "God Save the Sweet Potato Queens". she has several others that i have not read.
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    the lawl-level of this thread is quite high.
  • serena221
    serena221 Posts: 25 Member
    So everbody wants a sugar daddy....got it thanks.

    FAIL.
    you did not do the most important thing of all. LISTEN :)
    My fault a house trained Sugar daddy.....now I got it

    Very few of us mentioned material things. :)
    So we just give you the money and you decide if you want a material thing or not!?! If you don't want something do we get the money back or do you save it for something bigger to get later?

    I'm beginning to think this was a rhetorical question :devil: lol
  • Its4CJ
    Its4CJ Posts: 14
    Someone who will listen to me, let me cry, cry on me when they need to, support me, let me support them, and CAN ACCEPT ME FOR ME! I am a tomboy, big time, but I still would like to get flowers for the first time. I don't like chocolate, so you have to eat that part of the candy bar for me.
  • AdrienneKaren
    AdrienneKaren Posts: 168 Member
    If a guy has any interest at all (even if it's just physical), I'd like him to man up and tell me instead of the old guys I work with. They should also not get mad if they take the latter route and the old guys tell me. Basically, don't be a sally.
  • maritenour
    maritenour Posts: 107 Member
    A man to show ambition!
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    The big essentials are that he should be financially stable and responsible, emotionally stable and responsible, and most of all, someone you can enjoy being around who brings something positive to your life with a willingness to grow with you. The rest is just superficial stuff that can be worked out later (i.e. fixing stuff, cleaning, cooking, etc.).

    My husband, thankfully, is all of those things and more. However, it took us years to learn to communicate well with each other and to talk about our needs from each person. We both made efforts to satisfy those needs because we wanted the relationship to work. This is where I think a lot of people fail: lack of solid communication and the humiility to realize that you might need to make a few changes. It took me years to realize the stupid little stuff I was worried about with my ex's really didn't matter that much. It was the big stuff that matters.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    I dont think any of us know. Apparently we are supposed to hold, listen, remember things, and talk to them or something. lol
  • havingitall
    havingitall Posts: 3,728 Member
    To be cherished.

    Luckily my husband does.
  • jeninabilan
    jeninabilan Posts: 369 Member
    So everbody wants a sugar daddy....got it thanks.

    yep ;) lol.. I'm currently taking applications.. seriously :-p
  • mego07
    mego07 Posts: 234 Member
    Respect, humor, intelligence, honesty, Hints of romance. (at least this is what i would like.) Women, in my opinion, don't need the fancy items or to be lavished with over priced gifts. We just want to feel appreciated mostly. Girls are the ones who want to be spoiled and fawned over. Again, this is all my opinion as a woman who enjoys class.
  • Hola723
    Hola723 Posts: 159 Member
    1. Sparkly things

    2. No piss on the floor by the toilet

    This! Exactly!
  • JamieDD
    JamieDD Posts: 175 Member
    So everbody wants a sugar daddy....got it thanks.

    No...but I do want the DAMN lid shut on the toliet...is that too much to ask??
  • risefromruin
    risefromruin Posts: 483 Member
    Someone who will make me laugh
    Someone who will make me feel comfortable enough to be myself completely
    Someone who doesn't need a tv, and is willing to take off for a day of gorgeous views in the mountains to forget about reality
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Got jokes
    Get chocolate
    Last for 30+ mins.

    And I'm golden. ;)


    this! lol

    This and no urine on or around the toilet and for Gawd's sake put the lid down. I'm tired of fighting the toilet wars! *sigh*
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
    Alright then. After the whole flower thing, I kind of want to answer this:

    I want someone who I like, who likes me, but who is happy enough outside of a relationship that we enhance, rather than form the basis of, each other's lives. Someone intelligent and independent, who I respect and who thinks highly of me. Also, he's got to at least accept without question the fact that animals will *always* be a part of my life.

    In terms of how I want a guy to act around me (apart from obvious respect things), just appreciate me for who I am. I am not a big flower person. 99% of the time, they are generic, and they come across as thoughtlessly extravagant. Sorry. I'd much, much rather a very small but personalized thing. If a guy came up to me with just a picture on his phone of, just for an example, a poster referencing my favorite band, or an inside joke between us, and went, "Oh, I saw this and just had to take a picture and show it to you," that'd be it for me. That would be so, so cute and I'd know he really liked me for me and the time we spent together. On the flower theme, if a guy came up with a small bouquet of my favorite flowers, that'd be cute, but my favorite flowers are a type of wildflower that grows in the mountains and can't be bought in stores, so again, it falls in the line of sweet, personalized and non extravagant gesture, rather than something like roses. I know guys think girls are hard to buy for, but this is a simple and perfect method. No one looks at something personalized to them/your relationship with them and goes "wtf is this?!" Same goes for jewelry. Don't get it for me, I probably won't wear it. Get me something half as expensive that shows that you know me, and watch me melt. Edited to add: Ironic my profile picture given my statements here, it's a pic from my favorite artist, who is from my favorite city. If a guy were to print off this picture instead of giving me real flowers, I would keep it forever, even if something happened to the relationship.

    In one sentence, what do girls want? They want to know you like *them*, not just a girl, of which you happen to be one. Personalization rather than extravagance accomplishes this goal.

    :)
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    I just want to go here.....I'll love you forever. That is all. :smile:

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  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    • Tough guy - not a fan of these wimpy, púss type guys - must be able to handle themselves with words (and physically if necessary)
    • Must dress like a man - no wearing women's skinny jeans.
    • Intelligent !!! I love a great conversation with knowledgeable people
    • FUNNY - big fan of sore-sides belly laughs - required frequently
    • HOT! Nice teeth, wide back, big hands.
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