ok guess im invisible on here like in life

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  • tanniew78
    tanniew78 Posts: 602 Member
    Ive been shocked to at the level of rudeness this site allows to go on. Some people can really put the emphasis on BRUTAL truth..... :noway: :laugh:

    Welcome to the internet. :wink:

    Yep, as I said it takes ALL kinds to make the world go round... lol.
  • PBJunky
    PBJunky Posts: 737 Member
    Look at all the responses you are getting!! ;)
  • sexysize12
    sexysize12 Posts: 105 Member
    welcome, welcome, welcome we're here for you :o)
  • jeninabilan
    jeninabilan Posts: 369 Member
    Feel free to add me :) I love encouraging and loving all of my friends! xoxo
  • aippolito1
    aippolito1 Posts: 4,894 Member
    The last few topics I've created have only gotten a few responses and they were only from people on my friends list. Don't feel bad. There are sooo many topics on here... I honestly only reply to ones that pop up on the side of my homepage. I only go into the message boards and scroll through if I have a lot of time. If it doesn't pop up, most won't click on it. You got lucky this time :happy:
  • kellyisloved
    kellyisloved Posts: 434 Member
    The answer to your problem is cats.

    No. The answer is always 42.

    Did you remember your towel?

    Whoa. Hoopy froods popping up on this post? Who would've thought?
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    why don't you add new friends and not look for sympathy... i was invisible too and i took time and added a bunch of friends and guess what im not invisible anymore.
    of course its easier to post a topic and see people commenting and adding you but thats not how it works.
  • Loudmom01
    Loudmom01 Posts: 131 Member
    Thank you so much for that!!
  • Loudmom01
    Loudmom01 Posts: 131 Member
    For those of you who were supportive...thank you. For those of you who chose to be rude...ya, I get enough of that, didnt need more. And for the person who posted Call The WAAAbulance...walk a mile in my shoes and then see if I am whining or reaching out because Im literaly at the end of my rope......
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    I was going to reply but it seems there's no original post, just a bunch of people making replies...
    doctor-who-silence.jpg
    Wait, what? How did I get to this thread?
  • kir911
    kir911 Posts: 228 Member
    For those of you who were supportive...thank you. For those of you who chose to be rude...ya, I get enough of that, didnt need more. And for the person who posted Call The WAAAbulance...walk a mile in my shoes and then see if I am whining or reaching out because Im literaly at the end of my rope......

    Sorry about the responses you are getting on this thread...it has become ridiculous lately with negativity. I hope you find the supporitve people that are on here to become friends with and that can assist you with your journey. I am a little concerned about your post though and I would suggest speaking with your doctor...you sound a little more than down...but depressed. That is concerning to me. We all have our down moments...but don't ignore your feelings if it is more than that.
  • yesiamaduck
    yesiamaduck Posts: 531 Member
    Hi this website is great for support and the like but the one thing you should never do is force yourself on people, this thread has clearly irked people the wrong way & I don't blame them. When I posted my introduction thread I got 1 reply and 1 reply only but I didn't start a thread about it demanding people be my friends... it's counter-productive!

    From experience those who get the higher reply counts are those with a story to tell in their introduction thread, in reality the isn't much you can reply to in these sort of threads.... I started off replying to intro threads often but eventually realised I was just posting the same generic messages over and over.

    Join a group, find like minded people and become friends! Good luck with your weight loss, but this thread was a tad unnecessary... no this isn't me having a go at you but just trying to explain why you got the reaction you did.
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    no, i'm not being rude, it's actually for your own good! there's a bunch of people here who are being "supportive" by telling you you are a wonderful person without even KNOWING you. (I mean, please)
    What i hate to see is when a person is talking bad about themselves (like, nobody cares about me in real life).
    How can you be so rude to yourself? Treasure yourself, you don't need anyone's sympathy to feel special...when you can just add people and that way you'll get a bunch of comments and real weight loss support!
    nobody can help you if you can't help yourself.
    Stop with that "nobody loves me, i'm so worthless" attitude in forum as well as in the real life!
    And now call me rude if you wish!
  • marianne_s
    marianne_s Posts: 983 Member
    To the OP...

    I'm going to be honest.... I read the title of this post and I was INSTANTLY put off....

    Why? Because I can't relate to the "woe is me attitude"....

    I'm not sure what you were you wanted to achieve with the post.... but you put this out there, so you really should take the negative comments as well as the positives.


    You've been given a lot of good advice.... I suggest you take it... be more proactive...
  • GaiaGirl1992
    GaiaGirl1992 Posts: 459 Member
    same with me--keep tryin, search what you are looking for, and try some more.
  • WhyeatKachra
    WhyeatKachra Posts: 404 Member
    I posted and noone answered. but answered all the other newbies. guess i am invisible on this site as I am to everyone in my daily life. sorry to waste everyones time

    Hola!
  • DanaLow
    DanaLow Posts: 14 Member
    Same here. Don't sweat the small stuff. Stay focused..
  • Ilovedrinkingtea
    Ilovedrinkingtea Posts: 597 Member
    To the OP...

    I'm going to be honest.... I read the title of this post and I was INSTANTLY put off....

    Why? Because I can't relate to the "woe is me attitude"....

    I'm not sure what you were you wanted to achieve with the post.... but you put this out there, so you really should take the negative comments as well as the positives.


    You've been given a lot of good advice.... I suggest you take it... be more proactive...

    Ditto

    xx
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    ...and this thread resulted in 4 friend requests for me. :noway:
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    Dear posters,
    While this thread has offered some positive and uplifting posts, it also has some 'unsupportive posts as well'. I am locking this thread because this post is to easily able to transfer into 'nonsupportive posts', so I am deciding to lock it where it is. To the original poster, look at the positive posts, take in what knowledge and advice was shared, and try to move forward. MyFitnessPal is a community, and the best way to get noticed is to become active. With the various sections, groups, sub forums, status updates, message and friend system, Im sure there is a way for you to find that sense of community that works best for you.

    Enjoy your stay on MyFitnessPal,
    _Ben
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