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What makes a friend a lover?

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  • sylvuz323
    sylvuz323 Posts: 468 Member
    A lover doesn't necessarily have to be a close friend, for me a lover is that person you have hot amazing sex with you know the kind orgasmic...where you can't wait to go at it again. However, being friends can make it a bit more intimate. I think attraction plays a part to bring you together, but its the good sex you both keep coming back for that makes you lovers.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Definitely being able to confide in them, getting that flutter in your stomach when you see them ... and good, hot, steamy, no-holding-back secks.
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    Total intimacy,physical and emotional.
    A friend you lean on,a lover you bond with.

    And if you can find someone that you can lean on AND bond with, you're lucky.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    The fact that they have the opposite sex organ than I Do.
  • kimoRUN
    kimoRUN Posts: 325 Member
    Insertion
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    Since a lover is supposed to be your best friend also, what takes it that extra way?

    Attraction?
    Security?
    Bedroom Performance? LOL!
    The millions of other things?

    Sex.
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    his penis.
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    that's hilarious. i usually dont add on a smart *kitten* comment until i've kinda surveryed the thread and i had the same answer as SO many others.
  • LOL -yep, that'll do it.
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    sparks ;]

    im with my best friend of 3 years. i didnt have that spark with him at first,,,, untill after ;] then i knew
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    when the nipple makes its first appearence... -Sienfeld-

    Hahaha!! Awesome :)
  • Angela_2_Oh
    Angela_2_Oh Posts: 579 Member
    The feelings don't stop after several years of marriage, they just shift into something more steady, kind of like a consistent warm glow instead of the flash and bang. Of course, if the two of you work at it the flash and bang still happens too:devil:
    P.S. I've been happily married for almost 15 years:love:

    I prefer to be flashed, then banged. :smile:
    (Also happily married....10 years)
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Usually intercourse.
    This. Is this a real question?
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