MFP Mythbusters! Losing weight fast, exercise calories, girl

SueGremlin

Lorina, you know you are the reason I am here. You have this knack for rounding up and motivating people. How do you DO that!?

I am married because of you (you guys, it's a long story) and now I am much fitter again because you motivate me.

Amazongirl

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! I have been struggling to lose weight for a while now - and feel like a total idiot now - because I had no idea that I should be eating my exercise burn...I thought that I had to stay at the 1200 limit to lose the weight - while burning major calories at the gym. On top of it all - I would feel totally guilty when I ate beyond my 1200 even though I had burned 800 calories at the gym that day. This has made my day, inspired me, and completely made me feel better because I know that I can now do this and not starve myself! You have truly given me the best advice - and INSPIRING PHOTOS to boot - to keep me motivated and going this time around. Thank God someone told me to join this a week ago - or I would still be in the weightloss dark!

jadedone

Great Post! I wish other people who are dropping their target weights into the ridiculously too small territory would see this an learn! The scale is pointless, it is all about how you look.

Jonicha26

Thank you so much for posting this. Putting it in simple words and fully supporting it with picture proof! This is what people need to see to be inspired and really look at what they are doing on this journey. I am so glad I read this. AND.... You look awesome!!

NegativeX

From personal experience this is definitely true... EAT to lose weight.

Too many under eat and they really are hurting themselves in the long wrong.

I prefer to burn my calories through my workouts, eat above my BMR and lose far more wight then under eating, plus I feel great and have tons of energy daily.

EAT people!

MaryDreamer

You look FAB! Terrific information!!!! So TRUE!!!!!

runbyme

Absolutely inspiring! Way to go!

JennC831

Such an inspiration!!!!

Lyric82

I really appreciate your post. I have been not losing much weight at all - and I've been closely watching my calorie intake and exercising about 6x a week (500 cal. average burn). I realized after looking more closely, I am only netting about 7-800 calories a day..

It sounds weird to me that I should be eating MORE to lose weight - but your post proved it! I'm gonna try and see what happens.

you look PHENOMENAL!

witrixie2011

I love it!! I'm still trying to wrap my head around not looking at the scale everyday... and posts like these definitely help!!

harleenarang

You are great !! Very good post - You almost put everything i keep wondering about. Now I am also gonna focus more on getting healthy than just that stupid scale which refuses to move.

Plus eating less will not help - now i am certain abt it coz earlier I had doubts - It seemed so logical that less calories = more weight loss but no it isn't.

Thanks for sharing !!

nnapieralski

MFP was only giving me 1210 calories, which is INSANELY low and unhealthy. I did a lot of research (I'm a libarian, research is fun for me) and I decided that 1730 calories is actually what I need to be taking in. I should still loose a pound a week at 1730 calories! I'm try shooting for this goal instead.

LuciaLongIsland

MFP Mythbusters! Losing weight fast, exercise calories, girls getting bulky, etc. (In case the title gets truncated.)

I've seen a couple people say stuff like they lose weight faster if they don't eat their exercise calories, or alternately that the scale isn't moving like they want it to. Everyone wants to lose weight fast, and they think the way to do that is to cut calories big time and/or not eat calories burned from exercise.

Last time I lost weight, I did it all wrong and just cut calories way too much. I thought I'd lose weight faster that way... actually, I just thought that was how you lost weight. I never thought I'd have progress aiming to lose just a half pound a week. That sounded ridiculously slow... who the hell would want to wait two and a half months to lose just 10 pounds!?

Well, I did lose weight by cutting calories a lot. Eventually. Ironically, even though I was trying to lose 1-2# a week, I usually lost less than a half pound a week. But instead of thinking, "Maybe I'm doing this wrong?" I'd think, "I just have a slow metabolism," and thought that eating even LESS would be the only way to lose more. Like I said, I did it all wrong.

So eventually, I reached 130# and wasn't happy with the results. I was happy to buy a pair of size 8 jeans, but not happy that I still had a muffin top and back fat rolls. Believing my options were "eat very little to try to lose or to stay at this size" or "eat what I want and weight 15-20# more," eating what I wanted won. Which, as luck would have it, was the better choice of the two, since I would have ended up malnourished, destroying my metabolism, losing even MORE lean muscle mass, and/or with an eating disorder if I'd kept it up much longer.

This time around, eating between 1800-2000 calories during most of my weight loss (1500 + exercise calories. I'm currently maintaining around 1700 net), I wasn't so much focused on losing weight because I didn't think I could, based on past experience. I was looking more at my fitness level and being able to run, then lifting to reshape my body and improve my running performance.

I'm currently around 130# again. And these are those size 8 jeans I was so happy to be able to wear LAST time I weighed 130#? They're a bit big. Actually... a lot big. They come off without unzipping them.



These are those size 8 jeans, with the size 5 juniors jeans I'm wearing now. (Curvy cut because I'm not a straight up and down teenager.)



So... yeah. Giving the choice between weighing less or wearing smaller clothes? I don't give a DAMN what the scale says anymore.

And as far as lifting weights goes... A year and a half ago, I was embarrassed that my arms were kind of chunky. Shirts that fit in the torso were too tight on my sleeves. If someone told me then that I should lift heavy weights, I'd have laughed because I thought my arms would burst through my seams like the Hulk.


(August 2010, around 150#)

Now, they fit in sleeves perfectly... but I love them so much I just hate covering them now. And I'm getting really close to being able to do a pullup with those "massive" pythons. I can do them (well, maybe one or two) with just 10# of assistance, but usually do 25#, having started with 70# of assistance in July.


(This morning, around 130#)

No, you don't HAVE to lift heavy. But if you want nice shape to your arms, and/or you want arms that can help you climb a rope or rappel down a cliff (can't WAIT until this year's Warrior Dash!!!) you're going to need more than 3# dumbbells.

You have not taken into account the aging process. I looked awesome at your age also. However, it is much more difficult as you get older. Muscle mass is lost every year. I have been to over 3 doctors who told me that to lose weight I can only eat 1000 calories daily. My issue is that I dont think it is right to generalize. We are all different. I am so much more health impaired now then when I was 40. My mother looked awesome at 80. Everyone is different and unique. What works for you may not work for the next person. Thanks for sharing.

smflagmeier

Wow! Thank you for posting. This makes a lot of sense and helped motivate me to keep going!

peachprl

Awesome post- thanks for sharing. Gives so much guidance to a lot of misguided folks on here! I hate all of the calorie obsessed people on here who think deficit = success!

vegamy

You're awesome! You're obviously a strong, healthy, beautiful woman! And I love your "I Make Boys Cry" t-shirt! :-)

DanMason007

Great job!

StaceyL76

Great post!
You look Fabulous! Thank you for posting!

jlowensby

MFP Mythbusters! Losing weight fast, exercise calories, girls getting bulky, etc. (In case the title gets truncated.)

I've seen a couple people say stuff like they lose weight faster if they don't eat their exercise calories, or alternately that the scale isn't moving like they want it to. Everyone wants to lose weight fast, and they think the way to do that is to cut calories big time and/or not eat calories burned from exercise.

Last time I lost weight, I did it all wrong and just cut calories way too much. I thought I'd lose weight faster that way... actually, I just thought that was how you lost weight. I never thought I'd have progress aiming to lose just a half pound a week. That sounded ridiculously slow... who the hell would want to wait two and a half months to lose just 10 pounds!?

Well, I did lose weight by cutting calories a lot. Eventually. Ironically, even though I was trying to lose 1-2# a week, I usually lost less than a half pound a week. But instead of thinking, "Maybe I'm doing this wrong?" I'd think, "I just have a slow metabolism," and thought that eating even LESS would be the only way to lose more. Like I said, I did it all wrong.

So eventually, I reached 130# and wasn't happy with the results. I was happy to buy a pair of size 8 jeans, but not happy that I still had a muffin top and back fat rolls. Believing my options were "eat very little to try to lose or to stay at this size" or "eat what I want and weight 15-20# more," eating what I wanted won. Which, as luck would have it, was the better choice of the two, since I would have ended up malnourished, destroying my metabolism, losing even MORE lean muscle mass, and/or with an eating disorder if I'd kept it up much longer.

This time around, eating between 1800-2000 calories during most of my weight loss (1500 + exercise calories. I'm currently maintaining around 1700 net), I wasn't so much focused on losing weight because I didn't think I could, based on past experience. I was looking more at my fitness level and being able to run, then lifting to reshape my body and improve my running performance.

I'm currently around 130# again. And these are those size 8 jeans I was so happy to be able to wear LAST time I weighed 130#? They're a bit big. Actually... a lot big. They come off without unzipping them.



These are those size 8 jeans, with the size 5 juniors jeans I'm wearing now. (Curvy cut because I'm not a straight up and down teenager.)



So... yeah. Giving the choice between weighing less or wearing smaller clothes? I don't give a DAMN what the scale says anymore.

And as far as lifting weights goes... A year and a half ago, I was embarrassed that my arms were kind of chunky. Shirts that fit in the torso were too tight on my sleeves. If someone told me then that I should lift heavy weights, I'd have laughed because I thought my arms would burst through my seams like the Hulk.


(August 2010, around 150#)

Now, they fit in sleeves perfectly... but I love them so much I just hate covering them now. And I'm getting really close to being able to do a pullup with those "massive" pythons. I can do them (well, maybe one or two) with just 10# of assistance, but usually do 25#, having started with 70# of assistance in July.


(This morning, around 130#)

No, you don't HAVE to lift heavy. But if you want nice shape to your arms, and/or you want arms that can help you climb a rope or rappel down a cliff (can't WAIT until this year's Warrior Dash!!!) you're going to need more than 3# dumbbells.

I just today upped my required 1200 calories a day to 1500 calories a day..have been on a plateau for forever...this post motivated me that I am taking the right direction..we shall see

AggieCass09

this is EXACTLY how you lose weight!!!

i did the same thing only eating minimal and the weight loss completely stopped. I've been spending the last YEAR fixing my metabolism and doing things right...eating more and lifting heavy. And it works...i'm smaller

great post!

thank you

_Tristan_

Thanks for sharing. Great story!

nighthawk327

You look marvelous!!! Thank you for the inspiration! I also have discovered I could care less about what I weigh, as long as I can tone down my body fat (my own muffin top/back fat, haha. I'd much rather be heavier than "normal" (which is so much BS anyway) and actually be physically self-sufficient. Although looking good wouldn't hurt either.

CallMeCupcakeDammit

And sometimes measurements are hard, too. I mean... what's it going to change... a fraction of an inch? Then you're going to be second guessing if you pulled the tape tighter last time or this time, or not measuring in the exact same place, or any number of other variables. Besides, most people measure waist and hips, and, for instance, those can stay the pretty much same while the lower belly region shrinks. Plus, I think it's easier to be objective in photos.

That's me with the measuring tape! I just gave up because my clothes have been a better measure for me. Thanks for the post! You ARE awesome, and I loooove your shirt!

tangal88

You have not taken into account the aging process. I looked awesome at your age also. However, it is much more difficult as you get older. Muscle mass is lost every year. I have been to over 3 doctors who told me that to lose weight I can only eat 1000 calories daily. My issue is that I dont think it is right to generalize. We are all different. I am so much more health impaired now then when I was 40. My mother looked awesome at 80. Everyone is different and unique. What works for you may not work for the next person. Thanks for sharing.

Difficult but still do-able, with some adjustments for YOUR needs. That is true for ANY age, all persons.

I am 47, short at 5'2" - also went through the eating 900-1000 cal a day to lose weight, and still not losing, and knowing I just had a slow metabolism because of my age.

But I kept trying, kept researching, kept adjusting.

For me, I also had to :

A) Start lifting heavy weights. Heavy for me, and heavy for you are different, but you can still lift heavy for you at any age. Lifting lighter weights many reps, i still was flabby, and fat kept inching on. It did not get me there.

Increase my protein intake, to 1 gram per pound of lean body weight. When mine is to low, I stop losing fat, also cannot lift weights heavily.

C) Increase my calories. I am currently up to about 1600 a day, and am slowing moving up from there, just finding what works for my body, and my needs. (started out at 1100, lost some weight and stalled)

I was working out burning about 400-500 cals a day. But in the last few weeks, I have upped it to 800 cals burned a day, as I am close to my goal weight, and trying to drop my body fat down a bit lower, before going into maintenance mode. Also working specifically on my trouble areas, that take extra work, beyond what I normally do.

But that's what "I" need to do. Not saying everyone else needs that.

I will also add, I recently read about a 73 year old women the other day, who out lifts all the men in her retirement home, lifting heavy.

So lifting heavy, eating more, can be scalable to all ages, any health conditions. Of course you start small, doing what you can do safely, and with good form. But age should never be a barrier.

I do not look like I did at 20, but I look darn good. And thats okay. I am strong, healthy, I have sen improvement in many health conditions that were starting to be an issue for me. And I have stopped others that plague my family, in there tracks. My Docter is thrilled with my Blood work, and health reports. I am being the best "I" can be, starting at where I was at.

I have a number of injuries from broken and dislocated, and damaged joints, and spine. I am in so much less pain, and more flexibility then I was 10 years ago. When I stop working out for a few months, I can tell. I digress, to the point my neck and lower back hurt all the time, and I literally have to roll out of bed, many mornings, because I can not "get up" to stand.

When I start lifting heavy again, within a few weeks, I have freedom of movement again, no pain, no stiffness.

I had borderline high blood pressure, that was becoming high blood pressure, which my Mom has. She also has diabetes, and Drs were concerned that was an issue for me possibly also. None of those are now an issue.

I gained 60 lbs, after age 30, I have since lost it in the past 5 years (started at age 42), I have tried many things, and had many starts and stops along the way.

Right now I am heavier weight wise then when I got married, but am the same clothing size, and LOOK firmer, tighter and leaner. (size 8) Thats 20 plus years ago. I can wear a bikini and look pretty good, though not yet to the place "I" want to be.

Saggy areas, are tight, underarms, legs, butt, thighs - that's what losing excess fat AND lifting heavy will do

Kissybiz

Thank you for your post. I have been having trouble eating back my exercise calories... I almost feel guilty for doing it. I never eat 2000 for sure.. and I'm over 300 lbs. I've lost weight.. but I just need to make sure I'm eating the right amount. Your post confirms it!

Fit4Kateri

I have seen you post on here many times and you are my fitness hero! Very recently I've realized I want fitness more than I care about the scale moving so much. My goal in 2012 is now lifting heavy. After I finish my bootcamp in March or April I'm starting on New Rules. Last week I upped my calories to 1600. I had them at 1500, but I never would eat that much. Upping them helps me to get to the 1500 minimum. Do I still get on the scale? Every single day, but no longer to I walk away defeated because I'm liking how I look overall. Thank you for being an inspiration.

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LorinaLynn

You have not taken into account the aging process. I looked awesome at your age also. However, it is much more difficult as you get older. Muscle mass is lost every year. I have been to over 3 doctors who told me that to lose weight I can only eat 1000 calories daily. My issue is that I dont think it is right to generalize. We are all different. I am so much more health impaired now then when I was 40. My mother looked awesome at 80. Everyone is different and unique. What works for you may not work for the next person. Thanks for sharing.

I can only take into account how the aging process has affected me so far. In another 20 years, I'll have a lot more experience to draw from. I would never say, "This is the only way to go." Of course I know there's no one size fits all approach. My sister is doing phenomenal with a low carb diet. I'd end up homicidal if I gave up my carbs. I do believe that there's not one person on this site who wouldn't benefit from focusing more on health and fitness and less on the scale. That's my main point... stop stressing on the scale.

I just know that I thought I had a crappy metabolism, and I thought I lacked discipline, and I thought I needed to reduce my calories a great deal to lose weight, and then I thought losing weight was not going to happen for me. And I'm happy to report I was wrong.

dakoerber

AMEN!!! So many people think they need to stop eating. It is so opposite. Thank you for being such an ispiration!

SassyCalyGirl

Originally I wanted to lose 10 lbs but found myself very happy at losing just 6. My clothes are fitting me again the way I want them too. I was at 1062 calories and did NOT eat my exercised calories back. I lost at a rate of 1lb per week which is a healthy loss rate for someone my size. I also incorporated serious workouts to tone and help me lose inches. I have reached my goal also!