what makes a man sexy?

Foxypoo61287

Abs, not like I do 5000 sit ups & crunches a day abs, but just nice enough to say yum when he takes his shirt off. And the little "happy trail". And treats me the way I should be treated. I like the little things. Like notes on my car while I'm at work, a almost naked picture when Im at work works well too. Lets me know that your thinking about me. I like a tan too. Not the out done tan, but enough to show that you like the beach as much as I do.

kymillion

I pick women up and throw them over my shoulder every now and then. I've been told It's sexy. I just like doing it because I can;-)

I went to the "woodstock" concert * the one that was after the real one say some 30 years later and .. I was at another off kinda party walking around in virgina when some random guy tackled me at the waist took off running with me and declared very loudly in what I guess is some hillbilly virgina mountain speak.. "OoooHwe LOOK I GOTS Me ONE.".


I was terribly frightened , I wondered why he was running so fast and questioned who exactly was he yelling to. And what they planned on doing with me.

*Thankfully I had two very large friends with me ( males ) who must have heard and or saw him and took him out for me.
at which time I went flying and hit my head on a lone glass beer bottle.

Did I mention this brings back memories?

I digress , that's Hot occasionally.. however my main thing I find Sexy is proportion MUST BE PROPORTIONED !!!! total nut job about it actually. everything the fingers have to fit the body, the arms, the legs have to fit..PERFECT teeth.

amandacochran15

Tall.. at least 6'2. I think that's because i'm 5'0
Tan.. i love a natural man tan though
Blonde hair.. maybe a little brown
Blue eyes... my husbands are blue/gray so that works too
I don't really have a muscle/non muscle preference. But I do like broad shoulders and just a big guy in general.
Tattoos... everywhere...
Uniform.. Air Force specifically. good thing i joined and married an airman so i can look all the time
Please be witty, out going, and overly sexual

Foxypoo61287

Oh, I forgot, the all mighty "v"

plantgrrl

Confidence without arrogance, manly without being macho

^^^ this

funny without being nasty/vulgar,
respectful,
loyal,
faithful,
laid back,
no height complex (I know this is shallow but i don't care),
wise,
good with kids,
friendly,
open minded,
patient,
intelligent
hard worker
good provider
generally in good health

These are all great things.

All this, but the key is confidence without being cocky, and a willingness to know when to take charge and make it hot. Nobody really want to be asked before you kiss them (it's cute, we appreciate a little cute, but that's not the time). That's why some ladies are initially attracted to "bad boys"--"bad boys" don't ask and they certainly make one know when they want you or they think your hot. This doesn't mean NEVER asking us our opinion about non-sex related stuff--we still want you to consider our opinions about life related stuff. Knowing how to fix things! OMG, SO hot. Doing stuff around the house without having to be asked--HOTNESS! If you don't know how to fix stuff, making sure stuff GETS fix, still smokin' hot.

In the moment, we want a "bad boy"--for life we want the good guy.

quink77

Any man who is not a gigantic douche is attractive!!

Confidence and chivalry are very sexy.

I really like biceps too. Not big, huge ones, but somewhere in the middle.

JEDIMASTER1

YUM!

sassydebbie67

This guy



Tall, big muscles, rough around the edges, and a little bit dark.

Damn! Wish i could fine one just like him...Lol

Dauntlessness

When I think of my husband, these are the top 10 things that turn me on about him:
I don't mean to brag-so sorry if it comes out that way.

1. He is incredibly intelligent (Mensa member even) For me, it is important to be in a relationship where I am constantly challenged and have enlightening conversations. It also makes me feel super secure that whatever comes up in our life, he educates himself about that subject and is in control of the situation. He is very effective communicating with others and is very confident. He has his facts straight and never lies.

2. He is super supportive, even when I am acting like a brat. We all have ups and downs in life and I cant be "nice" all the time. He keeps his cool and ALWAYS treat me with respect and love. I believe your true character comes through during the tough times. The good times are...easy.

3.He tries. Even though he doesn't take off his own birthday from work, he always takes mine off. I am not big on material items and I would much rather have a memory of that day. He always plans a vacation or a day trip somewhere. Most times its an amusement park because that's what I ask for (I am a big kid) hehe. One of my favorite birthdays was when he rented a sightseeing plane and we flew over coastline to see animals and landmarks. We then went out to a romantic dinner right one the ocean. It was beautiful.

4. Passion. Its there for us. I look at him and he still turns me on after 11 years of marriage:)

5. He is super funny! He looks at all the "giggle sites" (LOLcats, comics etc) every morning to keep himself in a good mood and to have jokes to tell at work or to me. Even though he is super responsible, I love the fact he can still act like a kid sometimes.

6. He loves his job. He works his butt off everyday and I can ask for more then that. You usually don't see too many people who are passionate about what they do anymore.

7. He knows when to play the part. He's a bad boy during the right times, sensitive during the others.

8. He puts me first. I put him first. He always considers how I feel before making an important decision.

9. He is a foodie like me. We love to cook. We also LOVE to check out cool restaurants and try new foods. We have interests in common but enough to be our own person

10. No matter what, he is there. He is loyal and trustworthy. I would trust him in a room full of naked women to not do anything. I'm actually serious. hehe

Sorry it was so long

plantgrrl

When I think of my husband, these are the top 10 things that turn me on about him:
I don't mean to brag-so sorry if it comes out that way.

1. He is incredibly intelligent (Mensa member even) For me, it is important to be in a relationship where I am constantly challenged and have enlightening conversations. It also makes me feel super secure that whatever comes up in our life, he educates himself about that subject and is in control of the situation. He is very effective communicating with others and is very confident. He has his facts straight and never lies.

2. He is super supportive, even when I am acting like a brat. We all have ups and downs in life and I cant be "nice" all the time. He keeps his cool and ALWAYS treat me with respect and love. I believe your true character comes through during the tough times. The good times are...easy.

3.He tries. Even though he doesn't take off his own birthday from work, he always takes mine off. I am not big on material items and I would much rather have a memory of that day. He always plans a vacation or a day trip somewhere. Most times its an amusement park because that's what I ask for (I am a big kid) hehe. One of my favorite birthdays was when he rented a sightseeing plane and we flew over coastline to see animals and landmarks. We then went out to a romantic dinner right one the ocean. It was beautiful.

4. Passion. Its there for us. I look at him and he still turns me on after 11 years of marriage:)

5. He is super funny! He looks at all the "giggle sites" (LOLcats, comics etc) every morning to keep himself in a good mood and to have jokes to tell at work or to me. Even though he is super responsible, I love the fact he can still act like a kid sometimes.

6. He loves his job. He works his butt off everyday and I can ask for more then that. You usually don't see too many people who are passionate about what they do anymore.

7. He knows when to play the part. He's a bad boy during the right times, sensitive during the others.

8. He puts me first. I put him first. He always considers how I feel before making an important decision.

9. He is a foodie like me. We love to cook. We also LOVE to check out cool restaurants and try new foods. We have interests in common but enough to be our own person

10. No matter what, he is there. He is loyal and trustworthy. I would trust him in a room full of naked women to not do anything. I'm actually serious. hehe

Sorry it was so long

Sounds perfect!

mogletdeluxe

Lect, what a beautiful post. You are both very lucky

Superficially? I do like a man who smells nice. Not some kind of Sex Panther knockout cologne, rather something subtle and that suits his skin chemistry. The kind that you have to get quite close to smell.

I'm also a sucker for the old 'well-muscled-forearm-rolled-up-shirt' look. Umph. I have no qualms in admitting that I'm weak at the knees for an Alpha.

In less superficial news...the way a man talks to women is important - confident, without being arrogant, and focussed on them. I've watched my boyfriend do it and I get all proud!

And, even though it's on the candyfloss side of sexiness: kindness. I spent last weekend with my boyfriend, and when it came to hometime flooding had messed up the trains. So, he took my hand and drove me all the way home (circa 200 miles), turned on his heel, and drove all the way back. I said he was welcome to stay for a few hours, but he smiled and said "zumba waits for no man" (I was helping teach a class that evening).

Fell in love with him all over again.

thebigcb

Holding eye contact(not like a freaky stacker) and paying a compliment works very well

rbn_held

I find a hairy chest sexy. I dated a guy for a little while that shaved his chest but it just seemed weird to me. Guys chests are not suppose to be smooth

comet_wow

An intelligent sense of humour

Strong arms

When he has that look in his eye

Love a man who's not afraid to stand up and be counted

Someone who is considerate of other's feelings

Honesty

kindred_fawn

I like strong arms, shoulders, neck etc just not too big! Also a nice smile with nice teeth. Funny. Adventurous, smells nice

lilcmac22

Critical Thinking Skills.