what makes a man sexy?

mogletdeluxe

Lect, what a beautiful post. You are both very lucky

Superficially? I do like a man who smells nice. Not some kind of Sex Panther knockout cologne, rather something subtle and that suits his skin chemistry. The kind that you have to get quite close to smell.

I'm also a sucker for the old 'well-muscled-forearm-rolled-up-shirt' look. Umph. I have no qualms in admitting that I'm weak at the knees for an Alpha.

In less superficial news...the way a man talks to women is important - confident, without being arrogant, and focussed on them. I've watched my boyfriend do it and I get all proud!

And, even though it's on the candyfloss side of sexiness: kindness. I spent last weekend with my boyfriend, and when it came to hometime flooding had messed up the trains. So, he took my hand and drove me all the way home (circa 200 miles), turned on his heel, and drove all the way back. I said he was welcome to stay for a few hours, but he smiled and said "zumba waits for no man" (I was helping teach a class that evening).

Fell in love with him all over again.

thebigcb

Holding eye contact(not like a freaky stacker) and paying a compliment works very well

rbn_held

I find a hairy chest sexy. I dated a guy for a little while that shaved his chest but it just seemed weird to me. Guys chests are not suppose to be smooth

comet_wow

An intelligent sense of humour

Strong arms

When he has that look in his eye

Love a man who's not afraid to stand up and be counted

Someone who is considerate of other's feelings

Honesty

kindred_fawn

I like strong arms, shoulders, neck etc just not too big! Also a nice smile with nice teeth. Funny. Adventurous, smells nice

lilcmac22

Critical Thinking Skills.