What's your biggest fear ?!

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  • NordenJenn
    NordenJenn Posts: 82
    snakes that swim...i could honestly throw up thinking about that. It literally makes me sick to my stomach
  • scribe313
    scribe313 Posts: 103 Member
    My uncle crawling into my bed at night, with his whiskey breath and scratchy beard

    wow... dark
  • scribe313
    scribe313 Posts: 103 Member
    Last year my father called me to his best friend's house. My father's best friend was very sick, but didn't call 911 for help because he was embarassed due to his weight(400 ibs). My dad's friend was only wearing underwear and a shirt. We had to dress him. His feet had sores from sugar, so he couldn't stand. My dad found a rolling computer chair and together we wrestled his buddy into the chair. My father pulled the man's mini van onto the grass and together, with the man's girlfriend,got him into the van. This is my greatest fear. I will overeat so much that I can't help myself, that I will no longer have any real control over my life. :cry:
  • chauser1022
    chauser1022 Posts: 33
    Last year my father called me to his best friend's house. My father's best friend was very sick, but didn't call 911 for help because he was embarassed due to his weight(400 ibs). My dad's friend was only wearing underwear and a shirt. We had to dress him. His feet had sores from sugar, so he couldn't stand. My dad found a rolling computer chair and together we wrestled his buddy into the chair. My father pulled the man's mini van onto the grass and together, with the man's girlfriend,got him into the van. This is my greatest fear. I will overeat so much that I can't help myself, that I will no longer have any real control over my life. :cry:

    Wow, now that is really what a lot of us do really fear deep down. Thanks for sharing that!
  • pixiexxgirl
    pixiexxgirl Posts: 141
    I almost drowned quite a few times as a kid, so water that I can't touch the bottom on.
    Clowns
    And I'm not a mother, but i may as well be one to my nephew. I have a horrible fear of anything bad ever happening to him. I'm even iffy when he goes out with his own mother! ( not that she doesnt love and care for him) I'm just way to protective over that boy.
  • sruffin9834
    sruffin9834 Posts: 80
    1 Rejection and failure!

    2 I was sexually molested as a boy and one of my biggest fears is that happening to me again (yes, men get rapped and sexually assaulted EVERYDAY, "we" tend to not say anything because it emasculates us somehow or so "we" think!)

    3 Even worse, having something like that happen to my child. I don't have a child right now, but one day I hope to have one.

    4 Anything bad happening to my son (I am hoping that God gives me a boy one day)

    5 staying fat all my life

    6 being tortured alive

    7 tight enclosed spaces and running out of oxygen in their (part of the torture thing)
  • bpurc22
    bpurc22 Posts: 180 Member
    Being rejected by a girl I really like...leads to a month of pain. Currently in that month
  • KariePerez
    KariePerez Posts: 172
    That I will Plato right now the way I am and not reach my goal of 190 because I get discouraged :sad:
  • branflake5
    branflake5 Posts: 332
    I am in constant fear that something will happen to my kids, which has caused me to be pretty vigilant and over protective which they just love btw.

    I am also afraid of bugs and spiders. If I see one I can not rest/relax until I know it is dead.
  • maryjay51
    maryjay51 Posts: 742
    gaining all this weight back
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    growing old alone because I've never gotten married or had children...who will be there when I'm old? :(
  • Clew
    Clew Posts: 910 Member
    Our government.

    NO FREAKING KIDDING!!!!!!!!!
  • triciaj66
    triciaj66 Posts: 253 Member
    Something happening to my kids is number one ... As far as my journey with my weight loss it's my skin on my lower tummy not going back to here it was ...:(((
  • lowliar
    lowliar Posts: 26
    Honestly? Heights.
  • MomsTooBig
    MomsTooBig Posts: 201 Member
    I have a few, unfortunately some have happened (have almost drowned, been on verge of postpartum psychosis & have had a few major anxiety attacks, have now failed at 2 attempts to get ahead by going to college and owe student loans)

    1. my death (neither being buried nor burned appeals to me)
    2. my kids being hurt or dying
    3. heights
    4. VERY closterphobic
    5. drowning
    6. losing my mind
    7. being alone forever
    8. not finding out my purpose/meaning in life (failure)

    oh, and one more big one for me is

    9.an accident...If I hurt myself too badly (back or arms specifically), I'm screwed. I have congenital scoliosis with rod fixation, and an arm that is already messed up so to speak (shorter, missing a thumb etc etc) If I hurt it or my back, I won't ever heal right and would be a burden to my kids and/or stuck in a home
  • Misti76
    Misti76 Posts: 37
    Spiders

    Like spiders on the field?

    Hahahaha! I love The Replacements!
  • Myhighway2
    Myhighway2 Posts: 53
    Heights, Bridges Oh......... other drivers.
  • Misti76
    Misti76 Posts: 37
    As for "serious" fears, my worst is that something will happen to me when I'm alone with my son & he'll be scared & not know what to do. {If you've seen Steel Magnolias, the scene when Shelby collapses on Halloween & Jack Jr. is alone & crying is my worst fear on tape}

    Otherwise, spiders. I get absolutely paralyzed when I see one. Now, if they're teeny tiny it's no big deal, but if it's say, bigger than a pencil eraser.... freak out city.

    Ghosts. I don't even know if I believe in ghosts, but the thought that they COULD exist is just too much.
  • gabbingfilly
    gabbingfilly Posts: 106 Member
    Spiders are by far my biggest but then I have a small list of really strange ones (Don't laugh... Ok well maybe you should. LOL) I have weird fears of fish hooks, superglue, and exacto-knives.
  • Misti76
    Misti76 Posts: 37
    Spiders are by far my biggest but then I have a small list of really strange ones (Don't laugh... Ok well maybe you should. LOL) I have weird fears of fish hooks, superglue, and exacto-knives.

    I have to admit I laughed a little. ;)
  • Myhighway2
    Myhighway2 Posts: 53
    I get ya, was in an accident, never ever want to be in a home.
  • triciaj66
    triciaj66 Posts: 253 Member
    Farm animals, drowning, losing the ones I love. I also don't care for tunnels :0/
    here comes the chickens !!! Lol!! I love yea girl!!
  • Myhighway2
    Myhighway2 Posts: 53
    Funny I feel the same way , I do not trust our justis system.
  • callherbeautyxo
    callherbeautyxo Posts: 124 Member
    my biggest fear is losing my parents. I love my mom and dad more than anything in the world. they've been there for me through thick and thin i'd be NOTHING without them. My other biggest fear is not losing weight, i really wanna lose 100lbs but im never really motivated to workout or eat healthy sometimes.im afraid that i'll never be able to wear a bikini on the beach and look great =(
  • misslilylou
    misslilylou Posts: 71 Member
    SPIDERS! Big or small, they freak me out and I scream, run away, and sometimes even cry when I see one. Another fear is being alone. One of my biggest dreams is to get married and have a family.
  • misslilylou
    misslilylou Posts: 71 Member
    my biggest fear is losing my parents. I love my mom and dad more than anything in the world. they've been there for me through thick and thin i'd be NOTHING without them. My other biggest fear is not losing weight, i really wanna lose 100lbs but im never really motivated to workout or eat healthy sometimes.im afraid that i'll never be able to wear a bikini on the beach and look great =(


    Your first one is another one of mine! My parents are so dear to me, and I can't imagine losing them.
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    my biggest fear is losing my parents. I love my mom and dad more than anything in the world. they've been there for me through thick and thin i'd be NOTHING without them. My other biggest fear is not losing weight, i really wanna lose 100lbs but im never really motivated to workout or eat healthy sometimes.im afraid that i'll never be able to wear a bikini on the beach and look great =(


    Your first one is another one of mine! My parents are so dear to me, and I can't imagine losing them.

    Aweeee I agree! I cant imagine losing any of my brothers or sisters, as well as my parents for sure! It just wouldnt be the same! =(
  • ajball90
    ajball90 Posts: 211 Member

    Another fear is just thinking maybe I wont get married one day and be able to have a loving family!

    this ^ I dont even know why, im 21 i dont need to be worrying about it, but i always do
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    I know right .. im 19, but it still bothers me because of the "what if"
  • Bradozzz85
    Bradozzz85 Posts: 46
    Crashing and wrecking my car again. I did it 4 weeks ago. I now drive 2mph with the hazard lights on
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