Dating question for GUYS

Tiggerrick

My ex asked me out. Totally refreshing to get an "I'm interested in you" from the begining.
(the ex part was for a totally different reason)

twanthe1

I wouldn't mind - nothing wrong with a woman taking that first step.

DMZ_1

How would you feel, if a woman slipped you a note, asking you out?

EDIT-

* Something like: "coffee sometime? ###-####"
* we do not work together, he comes to my place of employment

I'd be open to it if I found her attractive. Carpe Diem!

Ephena

I would tread carefully since you work with him.

I had a guy at work who was frequently coming into my office on his breaks to get a piece of candy from the bowl I keep in my office and he'd chit chat with me. I didn't think anything of it until out of the blue he invited me out for drink. I just didn't see it coming, I tried to play it off while not blowing him off and told him he was welcome to join me and my friends when we go out to our favorite bar every other Friday. A couple weeks later he pressed again, this time offering to take me out to dinner, it was really uncomfortable. Made more so by the fact that he got my cell number off my business card and was trying to chat me up via text as well. I finally told him I didn't want to mix work and fun. He backed off somewhat but then said he was just being friendly and turned it into me not being mature enough to be his friend. WTF!? Then he's asking if I have single friends and still chatting me up via text. It's kinds frustrating to be honest.

Don't get me wrong, this is just one bad experience for me. The guy I'm dating right now didn't have the guts to approach me and ask me to dance. If I hadn't made the move, nothing would have happened. I think a note is actually a pretty decent way to approach the guy, it leaves it up to him to decide what happens next and you'll have your answer either way without confusion or reading anything into it.

craig1970

oooo smooth, pretty stoked n would probably strut round like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever for the rest of the day

Glad to see it's not just me who does that

afv417

I did it!

Now to play the waiting game...

La_Amazona

I did it!

Now to play the waiting game...

Brave girl!!!!
I have my fingers crossed for you!! :bigsmile:

afv417

I did it!

Now to play the waiting game...

We spoke for 2 hours last night and planning to go out Saturday... thanks everyone!!

mhotch

I was dying to know , but didn't want to ask. I am glad for you. Let me know how it turns out.

afv417

So we hung out for a couple of months until I found out his wife (who he was "separated" from and lived in a different state) actually does live at home and he talks to a third person too. Gotta love my luck...

kimber0607

In in my late 30's and was so tempted ot do this today
I saw someone at work....so didnt feel it was right to go up and start conversation.....but walked away chicken..LOL

kimber0607

So we hung out for a couple of months until I found out his wife (who he was "separated" from and lived in a different state) actually does live at home and he talks to a third person too. Gotta love my luck...

JERK

Jeff92se

So we hung out for a couple of months until I found out his wife (who he was "separated" from and lived in a different state) actually does live at home and he talks to a third person too. Gotta love my luck...

I guess you two never went back to "his" place right? Man that sucks. Dude needs to take care of his own business before starting in on someone else's.

afv417

So we hung out for a couple of months until I found out his wife (who he was "separated" from and lived in a different state) actually does live at home and he talks to a third person too. Gotta love my luck...

I guess you two never went back to "his" place right? Man that sucks. Dude needs to take care of his own business before starting in on someone else's.

He conveniently lived 1.5 hrs away.

awadm

Like a second-grader

This is great :laugh: I'll be sure to use this whenever asking a guy out!