"Help! I Hate my Husband!"

infamousmk

I didn't read it all, because really, if you truly come to feel hate or malice toward your partner, you're no longer in a good marriage, you're in one that is destined to keep you down and miserable. Instead of staying married and 'working through the hate' ... how about you get divorced and find someone you really CAN and WANT to spend your life with?


I thought I loved my first husband ... the good times were great, the bad times were REALLY REALLY BAD. I thought ups and downs that severe were just part of marriage. Then I met my current fiancee. We don't always agree, or see eye-to-eye, but there are never moments of hatred. I never get so angry or hurt that I want to sit in my driveway sobbing. (There were definitely moments in my first marriage where I *DID* sit in my driveway sobbing!) ... Divorce was scary, being single was both scary and life-changing, and the one thing I chose for myself is that I would never feel hate for someone like I did my ex again.


Life is too short.