Ladies: Do you weigh more than your S.O.?

Mandypt

uh yeah :grumble:

me too girl

Fayve

Fortunately, no. That's actually something I always have in the back of my head as motivation to stop gaining weight (having a hard time at it lately). He's about half a foot taller than me, and about 15-20 lbs heavier. So... as far as BMI goes, yes. Purely numbers? Nope!

getfitmama22

My man is a Mix Martial Arts fighter. Like if you know what the UFC is. That is what he does. He has like 5% body weight. I had a baby just 6 months ago and im trying to get back into shape.

Weezieishness

Yeah, I weigh more than my boyfriend, by probably about 20 kg, not sure because he never weighs himself. But he's only slightly taller than me, and his whole family are naturally very skinny, so I figure it's to be expected.

Mandypt

I got 70 lbs more than him... oddly, it doesn't show that much.. I look like i only weigh about 40 more than him.

BerryH

I have weighed more than my SO of the moment for about 20 years - even when I was super skinny I was married to an even skinnier bloke! However, my current squeeze has done me a favour and met me half-way, so we're both 12 stone now, having approached it from different directions

Elf_Princess1210

Even at my heaviest my S.O. outweighed me by 36 lbs. He is also 6'4 and built like a brick sh**house. He is now 68 lbs heavier than I am at the moment and the gap continues to grow. Ideally he should outweigh me by 200 lbs but since he wants me curvy I'm going for 145 lbs as my ultimate goal.

lisa28115

ME TOO!!!:embarassed:

lisa28115

OMG, Yes I do. He isn't very tall, 5ft 9 1/2" (I'm not allowed to forget about the 1/2!) and weighs about 154, but that's probably all muscle. (Even his butt is hard!)

I weigh 215lbs so A LOT more than him. when I first met him I weighed 133lbs, so a HUGE difference. He knows I have to lose weigh but thinks it's about 28lbs, little does he know. (I'm told I don't look how heavy I am - I think people are just trying to be nice!)

Bedroom activity is the worse - I used to be more of a show off but now it's lights out and under the duvet! Very romantic and sexy! Not!

Need to get back to where I used to be. x



I FEEL YOUR PAIN....

londanfudd4eva

yes i weigh 168 and he weighs what i want to weigh 140! he has actually gained a little because he has always been slim.:happy: but im not worried im on my way back down.

Alachofra15

Have never weighed more but I think we were pretty close when we first started dating. Maybe 12lbs apart then - but I've lost a few and he's gained a few in muscle - so we're now about 22lbs apart

InstantSunshine

No S.O. for me, but I'm joined on my weight-loss mission by my boss at work, who's taller than me by a long way and has a stocky build.

He gets excited and likes to tell me his current weight, as he's happy to have lost. I keep my trap shut as I weigh about a stone more than he does at any given time and just don't want all the comments - you know: "But you can't weigh that much! I'm so much taller than you!" etc...

It's just so embarrassing. I don't mind telling him if I've lost 2lbs, but I won't give him any current figures. I just evade the question - he must have noticed. I'm probably doing more harm than good; I'm sure that by being evasive, it's only drawing attention to it and he's now thinking "My god, she must be a real salad dodger!"

sandown12

yes my guys 5ft 10 weights 154lbs and im 5ft 2 and weigh 229lbs hes very slim and eats v high calories but hes a construction worker

leika79

i brought some new scales yesterday and was shocked that i weighed 28lb more than my other half :sad: .....even with his beer belly! i have now upped my game and its given me all the motivation i need to reach my goal!!!!!

katloaf

I do, by about 10kg. But he is terribly underweight due to a medical disorder and also constantly forgets to eat, so it's OK - I have no desire to be that skinny.

SLT01

Yes I do, but he loves me just the way I am. I just want to wear his clothes, lol!!

brighteyesxluv

yes he is 5'7 and 147 and last weight in i was 5'6 and 148.8..yayy im catching up!! before he would be 140 and i was about 153...i was embarrased cuz in my family thats like not acceptable to weigh more than your SO, but...im gonna be skinnier soon enough

Jayneoh

my partner is the exact same weight as me! *sob!!!*

katkins3

I am 5'2" and weigh 180 pounds, but my husband is 5'10" and weighs 141 pounds. This doesn't seem to bother him, but bugs the snivers out of me. My goal is to see 130, but I don't want to go below 10% body fat, (which he is and it has causes him medical problems).

Lilmelollipop

Yes, and I probably always will be... he is both smaller than me in height and is a lot smaller frame wise as well. Realistically, I could possibly weigh the same as him (a good year down the line) if I really stuck to my healthy eating past my initial target, but I haven't yet decided whether i'm going to go that far yet!

jesusislove1526

Yes, I do by 30 pounds right now, but not for long!

Noki1024

Unfortunately I do weigh more than him by about 30 pounds....but won't be like that for long!

sgm73

Yep--but not for long! I'm 13 pounds heavier.

speedycakes

Nope, he's got about 100 pounds on me.

Flissbo

I used to but now I am 2 stone lighter than him :-))) I've shrunk, he hasn't!! Will even let him pick me up now haha!!

justle

when i first started losing weight - yes at 220lbs i weighed the same as my husband.

he then gained some (and is now 227 after losing 14lbs yay!) and i'm now down to 166lbs only 21lbs from goal !

CynthiaS

not when we got married but after a few years......I out weigh him by 5lbs ugh

zlem

not anymore - but I was the heavier one for a few years!
Now we're both losing weight, at pretty much the same rate - he's constantly 5kg heavier tho we've both lost 12kg each since early December.
So no slacking off for me! can't let him pass me haha.

itsanot

Not only am I heavier then him by about 150 pounds I'm also 2 inches taller! He is naturally a thin person with a high metabolism! Only once have I seen him at 155 lbs but that was after being flat on his back for 21 days in the hospital(broken leg, 5 surgeries later). Took him less then a month to be back down to about 132 pounds. He was a 27 inch waist when we met he wears a 32 now!

DQMD

Nope he is about 50 lbs heavier than I am. When I am at my goal weight of 130-135 it will be more. He wants to get down to 200. He is 6"4...I am 5"5. We have decided that I can wear 6" heels and still not be as tall as him. His 14 year old daughter is taller than me.