Are you a hugger?

JJinWI
JJinWI Posts: 197 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
I am not. Never have been, never will. Have a social event coming up this weekend where there will be some hugs. Ugggh. I'm just not a hugger. Is something wrong with me? :tongue:

Anyone else anti-hug?
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  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    I am so a hugger.
  • Sh1tsRainbows
    Sh1tsRainbows Posts: 1,227 Member
    I LOVE HUGS!!!! but i think i put off a "dont touch me vibe" so people dont usually try to hug me.. :cry:
  • ruggedBear
    ruggedBear Posts: 294
    I am a hugger and so is my dog!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I am not a hugger at social events like you're describing. I like hugs when they come from close friends and family only. Hugging someone I don't know very well or don't have a close personal relationship with is just weird to me.
  • fiveferrels
    fiveferrels Posts: 397 Member
    definitely not a hugger
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
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  • Poetic_
    Poetic_ Posts: 269 Member
    Not really, I don't even hug family for the most part. A Hello or Goodbye is enough, I don't need a hug every time...heh

    Only people I regularly hug are my mom and niece.
  • JJinWI
    JJinWI Posts: 197 Member
    "Hugging someone I don't know very well or don't have a close personal relationship with is just weird to me.
    Amen sister!

    :laugh: Gupton: Loved the cartoon! I needed a good laugh. Rough morning!
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    I don't mind hugging... if I know the person.
    Stranger hugging is not something I am comfortable with.
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
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    i want to squeeze Gir!
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    Not a hugger at all.
  • CourteneyLove
    CourteneyLove Posts: 246 Member
    I am so a hugger.

    this.. and a major cuddler.
  • ForeverSparkleandShine
    ForeverSparkleandShine Posts: 17
    I used to not be a hugger, but up until a few years ago, I love to give and receive hugs! Hugs are the best free gift you can possibly ever give. :)
  • clydethecat
    clydethecat Posts: 1,087 Member
    i'm happy to hug someone i know and love, but a stranger, no, never. way too intimate..

    i dont even like shaking a strangers hand.. i dig bowing like they do in japan..
  • leynak
    leynak Posts: 963 Member
    Not a hugger at all. The only people that I like to hug are my kids & my fiance.

    I usually try to avoid hugs from anyone, even family. With the exception of my Grandma. I just usually tense up & get all awkward. Yeah, I don't know, my social skills aren't the greatest. :smile:


    * And as far as strangers- shaking hands is as far as I'll go. I've got a problem with personal space- stay outta my bubble :wink:
  • 1WorkoutAtATime
    1WorkoutAtATime Posts: 719
    non hugger..
  • kbw414
    kbw414 Posts: 194
    I'll accept hugs from someone I don't know super well, but I am not a hug instigator.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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  • onedayillbamilf
    onedayillbamilf Posts: 662 Member
    It depends on the person. When it's people I know, or close friends, I LOVE hugs. I'm a snuggly hugger. When it's people I just met for the first time and they go in for a hug, I give a half hug while thinking "Ummm....why the F are you touching me?"
  • getfitdiva
    getfitdiva Posts: 1,148 Member
    LMAO!!! I'm a hugger if I know you. If I don't know you I don't want to hug you!

    Just like when I was pregnant . . . I don't want strangers touching my belly. Yeah we in the same elevator you still a stranger!!!
  • stenochick0417
    stenochick0417 Posts: 124 Member
    Not a hugger at all. The only people that I like to hug are my kids & my fiance.

    I usually try to avoid hugs from anyone, even family. With the exception of my Grandma. I just usually tense up & get all awkward. Yeah, I don't know, my social skills aren't the greatest. :smile:


    * And as far as strangers- shaking hands is as far as I'll go. I've got a problem with personal space- stay outta my bubble :wink:

    ^THIS!
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    Lover...not a fighter :flowerforyou:
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
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  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    I'm a total touch-me-not. The only people I care to hug are my husband, kids, and a couple of really close friends. And maybe my grandma, but only because she's awesome.
  • Spinelli2288
    Spinelli2288 Posts: 188 Member
    I have never been a real touchy person, not even with family. My mother and sister are insane huggers, they hug EVERYONE. I hug when I have to so I'm not an a-hole but I don't go out of my way to hug. Even boyfriends, up until my current boyfriend I wasn't a hugger, but he changed me. lol I love to hug my boyfriend, and his son. I've always loved hugging my god children, little cousins, friends kids and what not. The way I see it, little kid hugs are awesome because they mean it with all of their little hearts. It seems to me like most hugs are just out of habit.
  • megz4987
    megz4987 Posts: 1,008 Member
    Total hugger here.
    People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    Total hugger here.
    People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.

    lol me too
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    yes and no.

    I like to hug my friends.

    but there is a guy at work whom I've been freinds with (work only) for like 15 years. When he hugs me, he squeexes his chest against mine a little too tight ... and holds it there for a little too long.
  • Maximus0005
    Maximus0005 Posts: 85 Member
    I am a hugger. I have experienced them all...

    The normal hug
    The mutual one arm over the shoulder one around the waist hug
    The bear hug
    The lingering hug
    The slow rub on the back hug
    The fast rub on the back hug
    The shoulders in, rear end out hug
    The hug where your heads are around each others arms

    and of course

    The double pat on the back bro hug
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    Im such a huge hugger........especially when im hugging woman smaller then me....im like a bear RAWR
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