Question for the guys...

Carl01

Thanks everyone for your responses. I put up a new picture on here, which is me 11 lbs lighter than the first one...still doesn't look any different though. I feel gross. I don't like looking at myself, so I guess it kind of makes me feel better knowing that all guys aren't completely shallow....my husband thinks I'm fat, which is why I'm pushing to lose the weight.

I stand by my previous statement.

2kidsandadonut

Weight doesn't matter as much as how you feel about yourself. I've always been a big girl but I've never had a problem with finding someone (more of a problem figuring out which one I wanted) It's all about attitude. If you think your worth it others will too! I was a very hefty girl when I married my husband and I still have to beat girls back with a stick to stay away from him. (He's got a 12 pack to die for) He's wasn't into big girls but I was like a terrier I wouldn't let go until he figured out he loved me! And now he worships the ground I walk on. Honey you look great I would kill to be 185 right now! If someone truly loves you it doesn't matter what you weigh!

NessasMommy081311

Wow...everyone is really making me feel better. I did not start this fishing for compliments, but the ones that I have gotten have made me smile. My husband hasn't come out and said I was fat, (mainly because he knows I could kick his *kitten* lol) but I can tell he thinks it in the way he acts...and watches/looks at way thinner girls in ways he never looks at me. But this post is really because I am curious to see what guys are really attracted to...And maybe other women like me will feel a little better about themselves as well.

Lee510

Keep doing what you're doing and you'll get to where you want to be. The weight didn't get put on at once and it won't come off that way. I checked your profile pics and you look great. You just need to get a new baseball team!:laugh:

Guajardo73

I think it really depends on each women and how there body holds their weight! I have seen plenty of woman that are skinny with boobs but they look as if the need to put on weight! But then ive seen bigger women that have great curves and ithink they are hot as hell! I love the fact that my wife has curves not overweight by any means! She is 5' 10" 175lbs. And here body fits her curves extremely well! I guess it just verys if a women's curves spots there body!

NessasMommy081311

I think it really depends on each women and how there body holds their weight! I have seen plenty of woman that are skinny with boobs but they look as if the need to put on weight! But then ive seen bigger women that have great curves and ithink they are hot as hell! I love the fact that my wife has curves not overweight by any means! She is 5' 10" 175lbs. And here body fits her curves extremely well! I guess it just verys if a women's curves spots there body!

Awww...it's nice to see a man publicly and proudly compliment his wife. She is lucky to have you.

_Ben

Skinny girls personally. Im not a boob guy, so that is a major factor

stewartcarden

I prefer feminine and there is no exact height/weight/figure definition of that.

Good save!
Having spoke with the majority of my friends over many years about such things ( could just be a scottish thing here though) we would all much prefer girls to have a bit of bum and boob while still being physically fit.

We dont ask much do we ;p

But then physical features arent everything and its all relative to the girl in question. Gotta feel something for them too i guess

Matt_Wild

1 in 2 people have cheated. No one intends to, it happens. I don't plan to but I think everyone is lying to themselves if they say 100% not the case. I bet a large number of people on this thread have already cheated!

TheRoadDog

I've always been attracted to curvy busty women, but it's not a prerequisite to a sucessful relationship.

JDviant

I'm partial to a wide variety of women, but a pair of large breasts will usually always catch my eye. And at least 75% of the time, if a gal has big natural boobs they've got a little extra fat in a few other places too.

blittle2

Body size doesn't matter much to me. My ex would never believe me when i said she was beautiful even though she was a little overweight. It bugged me she wouldn't accept what I said. i like smaller breast size.

I say its how you carry yourself, be confident in who you are and it will make you beautiful from the inside out. That's what attracts me.

liftingbro

I don't like skinny and obese is OK to a point.

Some women look very good that would considered obese. I tend to like curves, big hips, big boobs, smaller waist though not thin.