Okay, I think this was a break up =\

kate_sunflower

I think the fact that it was all over text message makes it that much harder to communicate with the person. Even a phone conversation would've been better. Sorry it went down like that..

kate_sunflower

I want to comment, but I don't know if this is a serious post or not.... so confused O..o

pls tell me that is your real hair and moustache. If so. You pretty much own the interwebs today.

Hahahahahaha second that

erintheinspiration

CHICKS BE CRAZY.

I had a girl do that to me once. Then she texted me a month later and pretended like nothing happened.

DUDES BE CRAZY, TOO!

I had some guy tell me to *kitten* off b/c I didn't want to sleep with him and then a couple of months later he invited me to go to Vegas with him! Um, needless to say he had to find some other girl to take! LOL!

plushkitten

Aw, I'm sorry man.
I really hope you do find better, you deserve so much more! Anyone would be lucky to have you in their lives
Good luck<3

sharibob3

DELETE HER NUMBER!!!

TourThePast

Well I guess time to start flirting again hahaha

Nope time to stop flirting and start making friends with mature women which may lead to relationships, instead of silly girls that just want to play games.

lisag2007

Sounds like a break up to me....but with the way she did it....you are better off finding someone else. That showed no respect for you. Sorry.

Rdahl2

dude what did you do?

I was thinking the same thing to be honest.

SoCaliBeachGirl1

Usually when something like this happens. It's a blessing in disguise. Things fall apart so better things can fall together .

Brandicaloriecountess

Wow, is she 12? That's a pretty immature way to break up with someone.

LeanerBeef

Crack is whack.........

Miss♥Ivi

B!TCHES BE CRAZY.

Fixed :laugh: No seriously, if she didn't have the courtesy to call you and give an explanation as to what was going on and how she felt, she wasn't worth your time from the get! Congratulations!


BOO @ profanity sensor!

Pocket_Pixi

You really had to ask if it was a break up? She told you to stop contacting her and her family, I think its pretty clear that she wants nothing to do with you....

Dilfster

dude what did you do?

I was thinking the same thing to be honest.

me too

ElleOQuent

Yes, this is definitely a break-up

In all honesty, though, this seems pretty one sided. I'd be willing to bet that there is something you're not disclosing.

CoryIda

Yes, this is definitely a break-up

In all honesty, though, this seems pretty one sided. I'd be willing to bet that there is something you're not disclosing.

She's not only gorgeous, she's also brilliant.
What she said.

killagb

I think it just means you need to stalk her.

neverstray

Yes, this is definitely a break-up

In all honesty, though, this seems pretty one sided. I'd be willing to bet that there is something you're not disclosing.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

She's not just saying to never talk to her, she's also saying, "never talk to my family". That's strange. No one has ever said that to me. More to the story here.

infamousmk

I thought I recognized you!! She was posting all over the forums about how she wanted to date someone she was MFPs with .... well, if she deleted ALL of her accounts - -- like, she deactivated here, and deleted you from FB, and sent you a message to never contact her or her family again..... and then you came to MFP to make SURE it was a breakup... uhh... my gut response is that she was somehow freaked the eff out by you.

Do you like to wear a diaper or be told you're a bad boy? Or is is something more freaky ... like, you're in to yiffing or something?

SofaKingRad

Dude, you have to learn how to read women! They are very confusing creatures. This kind of message sent via text is CLEARLY a sign that she wants you to do the following (in no particular order):

1) Boil bunnies in her kitchen.
2) Follow her wherever she goes.
3) Ask her friends what she's up to, who she's hanging out with, what they talk about etc.
4) Text her 5 times a night, preferably between the hours of 1AM to 3AM.
5) E-mail her and text her pictures of your face. So she doesn't forget what you look like.
6) Leave her voicemails crying about how much you love her. Length of voicemails should be on the order of 3 to 5 minutes each.

MikesMuffin

She's not just saying to never talk to her, she's also saying, "never talk to my family". That's strange. No one has ever said that to me. More to the story here.

That was my first thought too. There are two sides to every story and it seems this is only half the picture.

sarahgilmore

Remember this is a 18-19 year old girl we're taking about. They're not exactly the most rational of creatures.

ilookthetype

All my break ups have been terrible like that... Why are people such cowards these days =\

You sound like the common denominator in these breakups.

Contrarian

I don't mean to be a voice of reason or anything, but if she has asked you never to contact her or her family ever again, shouldn't you KNOW that is a break up? I mean, there isn't much ambiguity there.

kennethmgreen

Didn't you post awhile back about meeting someone from MFP? You were going to meet someone from MFP and it was discussed in the forum, right? Is this the same woman?

I hope not. Because if it is, starting this thread might be a little like indirect stalking. You know, asking the question in a public forum that she also reads...

Since others have already pointed out the common denominator in all your relationships, I'll ask you about communication. I assume your comment: "All my break ups have been terrible like that... Why are people such cowards these days =\" was meant as bemoaning other people's unwillingness to be clear and direct with their communication. How many different ways can you interpret "don't ever contact me or my family again." ?

I don't know the details of what happened, but that seems pretty clear and direct to me. True, she did not explicitly say (or text) "I am now dumping you", but......

Wait a minute...

Is this just a thread to announce to MFP you are available?

soccer8s

keep your head up....you'll find someone way better!!!!!

CandaceyD

That sucks...definitely a break up. But to tell you to stay away from her family too...you weren't facebook stalking her family were you? Hope not because you seem nice. If all your relationships end this way, maybe it's time for a new type of relationship. Or just a new type of girl. Try dating someone you would never have dated before.

Nerdy_Rose

The only common denominator in all of your failed relationships is YOU.

cindy4mica

Wait, didn't she just post a thread about "meeting someone from MFP" and her concerns not too long ago? If so, then it sounds to me that once she met you in person, she wasn't interested and was a total coward about ending it. And I don't mean that in a bad way - sometimes the "illusion" of someone in his/her head is better than real life - once you take the mystery out of the equation, the attraction ceases to remain. But whatever her reasoning, it's pretty shi**y how she's handling it. I suppose her behavior is a testament to her maturity level and do you really want someone like that in your life?

BiscuitsNDavy

Same thing happened to me man. I treated her like a princess too. She was really immature though and it showed by how she refused to give any closure. I've vowed to never go for someone with such a drastic difference in maturity again. I feel for you man, but just be glad it wasn't a long relationship.