Getting really upset

rbeatty63

Maybe it just takes awhile for your set weight to stabilize before your body will accept any more change. I am like that. I have to just deal with it in the interim and I don't like it, but I have a really slow metabolism. Hang in there and don't quit, we're all in there with you!

mattack

You need to know if your are gaining Lean muscle mass, which would be my first guess.

I would suggest a scale with a body fat % reader.

Then take your weight minus the inverse of your body fat percentage.

For instance I weigh 189lbs as of this morning.
189-(189*.0215) = 148.365 Lean Muscle

If you are indeed working out then you are most likely building muscle and losing fat. You want your lean muscle to stay the same and your weight to go down (in a perfect world) but if your weight is staying the same and your body fat % is dropping you are doing just that!

Congrats!

kantone999

I hit a plateau last summer that lasted 3 months! The best way to start losing again is to change up your routine.

This article was on MFP a little while ago that explains what's happening and how to change it. Wish I'd had this info last summer! Good luck!

The Most Dreaded Word In Weight Loss: Plateau

In the world of weight loss, metabolism is king. Everybody seems to know that a fast one is a good one. Yet, some confusion arises when confronted with the problem of who’s got a fast one, what causes a slow one, and what leads to a metabolism that just won’t do what you want it to do – burn fat!

Every day desperate pleas rain from those in the weight loss trenches begging for advice on how to get the scale moving again. Inevitably, someone is 35 or 40 pounds away from their goal weight, and for some reason, the weight has stopped coming off. Despite adhering to a strict exercise regimen and a 1200-1500 calorie-a-day diet, weight loss comes to a stand-still. Sometimes, the scale reveals a slight weight gain. For three weeks, the scale records no change. What happened? Why did it stop after such a long period of successful weight loss?
According to The Mayo Clinic, a plateau means the body has reached a state of equilibrium. The diet and exercise plan that has worked so successfully for the first round of weight loss must now change. The situation feels nothing short of infuriating. The work and sweat and willpower amount to nothing in the face of a plateau.
So what exactly needs to change? Just like all things with the human body, a one-size-fits-all solution is inappropriate. The Mayo Clinic suggests a further calorie cut or an increase in exercise. After all, weight loss happens when the body burns more than it consumes. Unfortunately, many people on calorie restricted diets exercise to their maximum capacity yet experience the plateau. Suggesting a further cut in calories or increasing exercise proves an irresponsible recommendation. Such a plan could lead to exhaustion, weight gain, decreased brain function, muscle consumption (ketosis), and inevitably, binging and burnout.
The trick to fat loss is maximizing the body’s potential to burn fat. This involves finding a balance between the three main elements of fitness: nutrient intake, cardiovascular work, and strength building. These three elements work together to supply muscles with glycogen (converted carbohydrates from the liver), build more pathways within the body to bring oxygen and nutrients to the muscles, and adapt the muscles to the stress of strength training by building more muscle fibers. Increased muscle mass consumes more fat. Cardiovascular work increases the body’s ability to endure longer periods of exercise more efficiently, making muscles more efficient fat burners. The human body can accomplish these two goals only when fed properly.
When one of these elements falls out of balance, the body adjusts to the change and adapts, as the body’s main goal is equilibrium. The goal in weight loss is to change that equilibrium point to a place of healthy weight and body fat, strong muscles, and healthy nutrient intake.
In my experience, the solution to ending a weight-loss plateau means modifying the most extreme measure of the current weight loss plan. What is the most extreme part of a plan? It’s the part of a plan that a dieter does too much or too little. It’s an extreme of too many or not enough calories, cardio work, or strength training.
For example, a relatively sedentary person initially gained weight by consuming more calories than they burned. The extra calories were stored as fat. Though counter to what we’ve been taught, their bodies actually adapted to the excess caloric intake by increasing the metabolism. Because of the extra weight, their body was forced to work harder to maintain normal body functions. Working hard uses more energy. Even with an increased metabolism, without exercise, their extra calories were stored. To take the weight back off, the first obvious solution is to identify the extreme. In this case, the extreme is excess calories, and the solution is to decrease calories. The body then adapts by lowering the metabolism to reach a balance with new, lower caloric intake. Because the process of lowering the metabolism is gradual, the body makes up the metabolic deficit with body fat. In short, the body begins consuming fat to fill energy needs in the face of minimal caloric intake. When the body has lowered the metabolism enough to accommodate the new caloric intake, the unsuspecting dieter reaches a plateau.
So, dear readers, if you’ve hit a plateau, what part of your fitness regimen needs a change? The following example is based on a real-life person on a weight loss journey as they hit a plateau.
John made the decision to lose weight when the scale tipped 240 lbs. In an effort to get to a healthy weight of 180 lbs., he decided to go from a 3,700 calorie a day diet to a calorie-restricted diet of 1500 net calories, meaning that he would have 1500 “leftover” calories after he exercised. His body needed these "leftover" calories to perform normal body functions like breathing, digesting, and thinking. So, if he burned 700 calories on the treadmill, he would consume 2200 calories. He exercised 5 days a week and strength trained twice a week. He eliminated processed foods from his diet and consumed an abundance of fresh fruits, vegetables, beans, and lean proteins. He lost 38 pounds but still had about 20 to go. He's been losing weight steadily for about 7 months. Now, the scale hasn’t budged in three weeks. He’s tired and frustrated and feels like he’s working hard for nothing! He’s got no idea what to do!
To start identifying the extreme, let’s look at the three elements of John’s weight loss journey.
John engages in cardiovascular work 5 days a week. That’s great! His heart rate doesn’t exceed 85% of his maximum (220-your age), and he works out for about 45 minutes each time. John strength trains twice a week, so he’s building more muscle to burn fat, increase bone strength, improve posture, and maximize his efficiency in movement. Both of these activities serve to increase John’s metabolism. These are both reasonable amounts of work. Attempting to increase either may lead to burnout, exhaustion, injury, or even weight gain because John’s caloric intake is still restricted. His decreased calories are now keeping his metabolism lowered. To raise his metabolism without exhausting himself, he must consume more calories. In the same way that he raised his metabolism while gaining weight, he will now do the same thing and lose weight. Only this time, cardiovascular work and strength training will prevent his increased calories from being stored as fat. By increasing his calories, John gives his muscles more energy to consume fat. In a few weeks or months, when he reaches a plateau, signaling that he’s at equilibrium again, he’ll need to increase his calories again. By that time, he might have reached his “goal weight”, so this final increase may be to reach the number of calories he’ll need to maintain.
Note that John did not increase his exercise and his calories. He increased one only - caloric intake. He increased his calories from 1500 to 1800, still several hundred calories shy of his final number (go halfway down). He'll still be at a caloric deficit, and thus, will continue to lose weight. While increasing calories is terrifying to someone attempting to lose weight, consistent cardiovascular and strength training will prevent weight gain.
John may represent many dieters on restricted-calorie plans. Others’ extreme may be cardiovascular work. They may work out intensely upwards of 7-8 times per week, leaving the body precious little time to heal and repair. In that case, decreasing exercise and/or intensity a few times a week might be best, or again, increasing calories. Some may eat enough and only do cardiovascular work exclusively. For them, incorporating strength training into their regimen will push them from the plateau onto the losing path again. In all of these cases, water consumption is essential. Water mobilizes fat so that muscles can access it easily. Without water, blood pumps like sludge and causes your body to work less efficiently.
Here are some general guidelines to identifying the extreme in your weight loss plan. Modifying this extreme is the likely solution to further your weight loss.
You may need to consume more calories if:
• You exercise regularly (4+ times per week), strength train 2-3 times per week, and are on a calorie-restricted diet, but you do not consume the minimum calories plus most or all of the calories you burn through exercise
• You consume less than 1200 at least once a week
• You consume less than 1500 calories most days of the week
• You regularly consume fewer calories than your BMR (basal metabolic rate)
• You have headaches, lethargy, aches, and/or lack of concentration
You may need to change cardiovascular work if:
• You are mostly sedentary
• You engage in cardiovascular work fewer than 4 times per week
• Your cardiovascular workouts last shorter than 20 minutes
• Your heart rate does not remain in the 55-70% max. range at least two times per week
• Your heart rate does not remain in the 70-85% max. range at least three times per week
You may need to modify strength training if:
• You do not currently engage in strength training
• Your weights seem very light, thereby not stressing your muscles
• You have reached your goal weight, but still feel “flabby”
This article is not a comprehensive study in why we lose. The plateau is but one obstacle in the path to health. Weight loss takes tremendous willpower and strength. Those who accomplish the goal of changing their lives through increased health are true champions, and those in the midst of the battle are nothing short of warriors. While the fight gets confusing when what has been working suddenly stops, your body, your heart, your bones, and your muscles all work best when the excess weight is gone. You can work through this frustrating time by resetting your equilibrium point. As you review your caloric intake and reflect on your exercise regimen, you can now identify the caloric, cardiovascular, or strength extreme and make the change that will move you back onto the path of weight loss.

See the article in it's original location here: http://fitnesswithnatalie.blogspot.com/2011/05/most-dreaded-word-in-weight-loss.html - She also links to BMI/BMR calculators in the text on her page.

marycmeadows

EAT MORE.
and eat BETTER FOOD.... too much processed crap - not enough real food. and not enough protein. you need to eat more. period. and you need to change the quality of food you're eating. You're watching what you eat, but you're not making good wholesome choices.

mzhokie

you should be netting 1200 calories with your exercise calories. Being too far under can make your body think it's starving. Even if all you do is add in more veggies, you will get some good nutrients to help your metabolism too. Try greek yogurt for some added protein and/or almonds for some good fats.

crudd123

I've been stuck for a year so don't complain! Just keep trying! That's what I'm doing!

Smuterella

I don't get the sodium thing, yes it makes you retain water but not fat. If you eat high sodium all the time you will still lose fat, just not that water weight.

Where I can see it mattering and making a difference is if you generally eat low sodium and then say, go out for a salty meal the night before weigh in - then you might suddenly retain water and the scale wouldn't budge.

sundancer1966

First, if you are working out, log it in. then start to eat more, and less processed food, more whole grains and veggies. It will take a little while for your body to adjust and to start burning calories. What you are doing now is putting yourself in starvation mode.

AmyRhubarb

I agree with those who say you need to eat more, and eat better! Log everything, even bites of your hubby's food, or even better, don't snitch his food! Do you log your exercise? I didn't see any earned exercise calories at the bottom of your diary. If you are exercising and not logging it, and only showing 900-1000 calories a day, your net cals for the day are probably REALLY low.

You should be netting at least 1200 per day, probably more. You gotta feed your body, especially if you are asking it to work hard with exercise. More protein rich foods, especially for breakfast!

Search around the forums - there are quite a few topics with people's info on having great success with eating more calories. Sounds counter-intuitive, I know, but it works.

psuLemon

You need to know if your are gaining Lean muscle mass, which would be my first guess.

I would suggest a scale with a body fat % reader.

Then take your weight minus the inverse of your body fat percentage.

For instance I weigh 189lbs as of this morning.
189-(189*.0215) = 148.365 Lean Muscle

If you are indeed working out then you are most likely building muscle and losing fat. You want your lean muscle to stay the same and your weight to go down (in a perfect world) but if your weight is staying the same and your body fat % is dropping you are doing just that!

Congrats!

Yea, it's practically impossible to gain lean muscle mass on a calorie deficit. It's even harder to do it on a very large calorie deficit. I will agree, that' it's very important to track body fat as compared to weight to ensure you aren't losing a lot of LBM while losing weight or working to minimize it to 10% lose.

BTW, I am a 200 lb man and i have been eating at a 20% deficit and I have only been able to maintain LBM. And unless you are talking noob gains, it's just highly unlikely.

sasab904

Looking at your log, try to eat a little more for breakfast. I have trainers tell me to eat more in the morning, a little less for lunch and protein, light carbs for dinner with a few snacks in between there. So with your banana in the morning, have a bowl of oatmeal a few hours laster if you don't like to eat a lot when you first get up. Or have a shake. I swear by my Chocolate Shakeology every morning. Mix some fruit in there and it is an instant breakfast. Send me a message if you would like to know more about Shakeology.

Good luck! Stay positive!

bcattoes

I dont eat fish or avacado. Im not going to eat stuff that tastes gross to lose weight that doesn't make.any sense and I don't see how people can eat nuts that would take up all of my calories. Im not saying I eat perfect but at 215 pounds I shouldn't have to be eating nothing but veggies to lose weight.

This is absolutely true. Even if you eat less calories than you should, if you are eating at a deficit you should be losing something regardless of food quality. You'll probably be healthier in the long run if you eat healthy food, but that's a different discussion. Eating very low calories for a long period may slow your metabolism, but it does not prevent weight loss, it just slows it some.

If you haven't already, I would suggest seeing a doctor to check for a metabolic, hormonal or other issue that could be preventing weight loss.

Articeluvsmemphis

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I dont eat fish or avacado. Im not going to eat stuff that tastes gross to lose weight that doesn't make.any sense and I don't see how people can eat nuts that would take up all of my calories. Im not saying I eat perfect but at 215 pounds I shouldn't have to be eating nothing but veggies to lose weight.
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Now that the formalities are out of the way here is the shortest version of what would otherwise be a long speech.

Few things wrong with this statement. Yes, you want to lose weight, this is established.
Now, you HAVE to establish NEW habits that will get you to a place you are currently NOT at.
Notice I said HABITS, as in you won't be dumping these as soon as you lose the weight b/c they are apart of your lifestyle and if you do dump them, you will gain the weight back.
Let's try drinking enough water for starters. Your body has a huge % of water, replenish it with h20, simple.
Fish, there are WAY too many kinds to blanket statement not liking it. Please do try some different kinds.
NUTS are beyond awesome. Healthy fats and protein/carb balance is great.
But to wrap this up you seem to be under the impression that just b/c you're 215 pounds and eating a very small amount the weight should come off:grumble: {NOT THE CASE} Food is not the enemy, abusing the food is. This means you have to eat enough food to lose weight. Not only for weight loss, but for health, fruits/veggies and a good amount is the way to go. I am guilty of not getting enough in, but they are worth eating every day. Educate yourself on what foods are really good for you. The diet industry has skewed our realities and demonized some of the best foods around, EGGS, NUTS, BANANAS, ETC. all good whole foods, all significantly cheaper and superior in nutrition compared to prepared food.

This is a snapshot lecture, hope some of the rambling helps.

Meaganandcheese

It's really easy to get sucked into the convenience of prepared meals, especially those touted for diets, but I personally don't think they are helpful in the long-run.

I make a lot of my own frozen meals, because you can't beat the convenience of them. Since I cook for just my husband and I, we always have a lot of leftovers, and I almost always freeze them for later. It has really helped - it's less expensive and a lot healthier, and I know exactly what I'm eating.

mallory3411

I agree with most of the other posters here.

1) Track your sodium. With what you are eating you are consuming a TON of sodium. Track that and than find ways to lower it. Best thing is less processed foods (frozen, canned, dried, etc).

2) Drink more water. I'm not sure if you aren't tracking it or aren't drinking it as your diary says no water.

3) Eat less processed foods. There is far too many calories, sodium, etc for the actual nutrition you get from them.

4) Make your own meals. You can make the same things you buy frozen for cheaper and MUCh healthier. Pick a day during the week when you are off work and don't have a lot to do. Spend the day in the kitchen. You can make your own frozen meals if the frozen dinner is easy for you. Make a big batch of salad and put in the fridge. Take bits each day. Make extra food when you cook and eat that the next day.

5) Track everything! Every little bite adds up and could be what is hurting you. Yes it's hard but if it's too hard for you to do you won't be successful. Either you're in it for the long run or not. Weight loss isn't easy and it will take time.

6) Measure everything! Kitchen scale, measuring spoons, measuring cups, etc. That way you will know exactly what you are eating in a day. Yes, it takes time but other wise you aren't committing to the journey 100%.

7) Eat more! 1200 is not enough for most of the population. Eating less won't make you lose more or make you lose faster. In the long run it will hurt you and your body. You need to fuel your body for it to work properly.

8) Healthy food doesn't have to taste bad. It can taste amazing! Experiment. Try different things. What you didn't like a few years ago you might like now.

9) Pay attention to portion sizes. Those small cartons of milk you can buy in the stores are actually TWO servings. Some little bags of chips are two servings for the bag. A portion size of veggies dip is usually two TBSP. Not a whole lot. That can change the actual amount you are eating.

10) Use the nutrional information on the foods you have and are eating. Ifyou have the package find the exact nutritional information match in the database or input it yourself. MFP has members from all over the world and food has different things in them and different nutriontional values.

LordBezoar

Ok....I am going to give you the same speech I give every one else. I looked at your food journal. You are not eating enough and what you are eating is a lot of processed crap. Yes, you do eat some veggies but you also eat a lot of processed food and you are starving your body. That is why you are not losing weight. Plain and simple. Start adding things like avocados, nuts/seeds, salmon, dark leafy greens, fresh fruit, ect. Instead of buying dip for your veg make your own. make some guacamole to go with them.

I dont eat fish or avacado. Im not going to eat stuff that tastes gross to lose weight that doesn't make.any sense and I don't see how people can eat nuts that would take up all of my calories. Im not saying I eat perfect but at 215 pounds I shouldn't have to be eating nothing but veggies to lose weight.

You aren't eating (or at least logging) anywhere near you calories, you could totally get some nuts and veggies in there. As for the fish, I am willing to bet that you haven't tried every type of fish or even every way to prepare the fish that you have tried. I struggled with this a lot in the past. I wouldn't eat certain things--Salad, fish, broccoli, and much, much more--because my family is very set in how they prepare and eat those things and, honestly, it is generally gross. When I married my wife, it took her years to convince me to try a lot of things again. Turns out, I really like them--if they are prepared some ways, but not others.

Keep in mind that MFP has already built in a Calorie deficit for you. You need to get closer to your calories each day. And if you are exercising, you really need to make sure that you are eating those too.

For other advice, you definitely need to make sure you get your water in each day.

The moral of the story is that losing weight is a lifestyle change, not something that you will do and then drop once you hit your goal weight.

minimaggie

Everyone one has basically told you the same thing, eat more and eat better, I'm going to tell you what my trainer told me a week and a half ago...

1. Try to keep your carbs to around 100g per day, when you exercise, up your protein.
2. DO NOT EAT SIMPLE CARBS AFTER 4PM.

I did this and broke a 5 week plateau and lost 3 lbs when I weighed in and my weigh in day fell on the day that my TOM showed up (so I know there was some water weight in there!!!)

I am on a 1200 calorie base plan and I eat my calories back. I usually drink 2 protein shakes a day to get my calories up where I need them.

If you want to look at my diary you can add me. We are all here for the same reason, to be healthy, you want to lose the weight the right way because, and this is my new favorite quote:

SKINNY GIRLS LOOK GOOD IN CLOTHES, FIT GIRLS LOOK GOOD NAKED

I want to look good naked!!!!!

betholiver

bump

Pankakefacebetch

You don't have to eat fish or avocado if you don't like them. Nor do you have to live on diet frozen meals - they are loaded with bad-for-you stuff that could be hindering your progress.

You likely need to eat more - and better too. It seems counter-intuitive, but bumping up your net intake to 1200-1300 might be just the boost your body needs. Why aren't you eating the same things as your husband/family? A little tweaking and portion control makes real food (foods you LIKE) within reason for your daily diet.

Make sure you're getting enough protein and water too, especially if you're active!

Because my husband is 6 foot 4 and 180 pounds. He lives on pizza rolls, fast food, and burritos and its just me, him, and my daughter who eats baby food. That's why we don't eat meals together. And I drink tons of water like 10 to 12 glasses a day I just don't log my water.

Pankakefacebetch

Instead of berating you as in prior posts which doesn't make any sense to me, I will tell you this. Reduce your sodium intake. I too thought eating frozen dinners was a good way to go. Eat a lot of fresh fruits, veggies and lean proteins. Eat only things that you enjoy. Adding certain nuts, like walnuts and almonds are a good source of protein, just watch the amount you take in. Log everything. Keep walking!!!!!:happy:

Thank you and everyone keeps talking about my frozen meals but I don't normally eat.them I have been for like a week now bc my grill its out of gas and I can't afford to fill it now.

Pankakefacebetch

You need to know if your are gaining Lean muscle mass, which would be my first guess.

I would suggest a scale with a body fat % reader.

Then take your weight minus the inverse of your body fat percentage.

For instance I weigh 189lbs as of this morning.
189-(189*.0215) = 148.365 Lean Muscle

If you are indeed working out then you are most likely building muscle and losing fat. You want your lean muscle to stay the same and your weight to go down (in a perfect world) but if your weight is staying the same and your body fat % is dropping you are doing just that!

Congrats!

I bought a.really expensive weight watchers scale but the body fat % always changes I even bought a new battery

ellenrobinson1954

I feel your pain. I am in the same boat but can honestly tell you to not give up. keep watching what you eat
and excercising, drink your water and you WILL see results. If you weren,t doing this you would
weigh more , be unfit and not as healthy as you are now becoming. Don't undo all the good you have done,
you can get through this. Best of Luck.!

LJC44

To Do:
Eat more
Eat veggies, fruit, grains (pair food correctly)
Maybe up the exercise
Drink alot of water (also green tea)
BE PATIENT - alot of weight may fall off at once. That is what happened to me!

LJC44

P.S. Don't use salt or eat salty foods (everyone is giving you the same advice I know, but it's true)

Pankakefacebetch

I agree with those who say you need to eat more, and eat better! Log everything, even bites of your hubby's food, or even better, don't snitch his food! Do you log your exercise? I didn't see any earned exercise calories at the bottom of your diary. If you are exercising and not logging it, and only showing 900-1000 calories a day, your net cals for the day are probably REALLY low.

You should be netting at least 1200 per day, probably more. You gotta feed your body, especially if you are asking it to work hard with exercise. More protein rich foods, especially for breakfast!

Search around the forums - there are quite a few topics with people's info on having great success with eating more calories. Sounds counter-intuitive, I know, but it works.

No I don't exercise besides walking unless you count chasing a 1 year old around all day. I don't.get time to exercise

LJC44

I agree with those who say you need to eat more, and eat better! Log everything, even bites of your hubby's food, or even better, don't snitch his food! Do you log your exercise? I didn't see any earned exercise calories at the bottom of your diary. If you are exercising and not logging it, and only showing 900-1000 calories a day, your net cals for the day are probably REALLY low.

You should be netting at least 1200 per day, probably more. You gotta feed your body, especially if you are asking it to work hard with exercise. More protein rich foods, especially for breakfast!

Search around the forums - there are quite a few topics with people's info on having great success with eating more calories. Sounds counter-intuitive, I know, but it works.

No I don't exercise besides walking unless you count chasing a 1 year old around all day. I don't.get time to exercise

Buy free weights and use them at home!

Yloa

I also recommend shaking up the exercies. When I hit a wall, i started doing spin classes and lost three pounds in that first week. i

runderhi

I looked at your food diary and it looks like you are eating alot of frozen dinners for dinner.

Those Frozen dinners look like they have alot of carbs (50+) and they are loaded with sodium. You might want to think about dumping those and having a meal with a lean meat and some veggies.

I would up your calories to 1,400, drink more water and try to stay away from the carbs and sodium at night. You also might want to try a new type of cardio for a few weeks. Perhaps do some interval training where you walk for a minute than jog for a minute. Shake things up.

Also, take a week off from the scale, don't let it frustrate you. In a week you will see progress!

The good news is that you are down over 20 pounds already so congrats, don't get frustrated.

This is really solid advice above - to add to that if your food can go off quickly that is the best kind to eat - stay with mostly fresh produce and stay away from processed foods.

Pankakefacebetch

Ok....I am going to give you the same speech I give every one else. I looked at your food journal. You are not eating enough and what you are eating is a lot of processed crap. Yes, you do eat some veggies but you also eat a lot of processed food and you are starving your body. That is why you are not losing weight. Plain and simple. Start adding things like avocados, nuts/seeds, salmon, dark leafy greens, fresh fruit, ect. Instead of buying dip for your veg make your own. make some guacamole to go with them.

I dont eat fish or avacado. Im not going to eat stuff that tastes gross to lose weight that doesn't make.any sense and I don't see how people can eat nuts that would take up all of my calories. Im not saying I eat perfect but at 215 pounds I shouldn't have to be eating nothing but veggies to lose weight.

You aren't eating (or at least logging) anywhere near you calories, you could totally get some nuts and veggies in there. As for the fish, I am willing to bet that you haven't tried every type of fish or even every way to prepare the fish that you have tried. I struggled with this a lot in the past. I wouldn't eat certain things--Salad, fish, broccoli, and much, much more--because my family is very set in how they prepare and eat those things and, honestly, it is generally gross. When I married my wife, it took her years to convince me to try a lot of things again. Turns out, I really like them--if they are prepared some ways, but not others.

Keep in mind that MFP has already built in a Calorie deficit for you. You need to get closer to your calories each day. And if you are exercising, you really need to make sure that you are eating those too.

For other advice, you definitely need to make sure you get your water in each day.

The moral of the story is that losing weight is a lifestyle change, not something that you will do and then drop once you hit your goal weight.

I may not have tried every kind but I have tried a lot my husband loves fish I hate it

BrunetteRunner87

I don't think you are doing too bad! Any changes you made are still good changes. From my personal experience, I would say eat less frozen dinners. I know it's hard. I used to eat 1-2 per day because I'm not a good cook and I'm never home with the time too cook. But I realized how much sodium is in them and that freezing food takes out a lot of good nutrients.

Now I cook a crock pot meal at the beginning of the week and eat it throughout the week. It's so easy, a lot of the recipes are just dump and go! I can say I feel a lot better than I used to when I ate lean cuisine all the time, and frankly as bad of a cook I am, it even tastes better than Lean Cuisine!

I see you like the lender's onion bagels... I used to eat those every day for breakfast before school as a kid! I love them :-) (Not quite healthy but I still eat them once in a while)