I feel like the guys are wildly ignored

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  • drewbird911
    drewbird911 Posts: 117 Member
    "This is clearly because it's just easier for guys to lose weight... right? "
    I do think this is the case in many instants.
    My lovely wife hits me everything I announce my scale victories, but is otherwise she is very supportive.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    YAY BOYS!!! And gents.... and men, and douche bags
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    YAY BOYS!!! And gents.... and men, and douche bags

    you are awesome..that is all
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    YAY BOYS!!! And gents.... and men, and douche bags

    Thanks for including me at the end there. :flowerforyou:
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I don't agree. Some of the longest threads on here have been in response to (very attractive) men's success stories.
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    I don't know the numbers but I feel a truth to what you are saying, soon I will probably be posting before and after pics when my 3rd year since starting passes.
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    I try to support men wherever possible - I'm all for men being in great shape!

    But I do find that they don't post under Success or Support nearly as often as the women, perhaps because women have been trained to be more selfconscious and need more reassurance about their appearance, whereas men are more likely to accept themselves as they are - or maybe just to not ask for others' opinions.

    Let the before/after pic posting begin!
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    YAY BOYS!!! And gents.... and men, and douche bags

    Thanks for including me at the end there. :flowerforyou:

    I didn't want any "what about___?!" messages, so I covered all my bases. You're so very welcome.... Douche bag...
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I don't agree. Some of the longest threads on here have been in response to (very attractive) men's success stories.

    Orrrrrr, penis pictures.... jus sayin
  • TheUnwritten
    TheUnwritten Posts: 158 Member
    It don't mind me none I've been ignored almost my whole life so I always kept to myself but since I joined MFP I actually opened up a little and posted some pictures that many in my family never seen.
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    It don't mind me none I've been ignored almost my whole life so I always kept to myself but since I joined MFP I actually opened up a little and posted some pictures that many in my family never seen.

    I've seen your pictures and love the transformation - your effort has really paid off and I will gladly provide support when needed.
  • prestonmay
    prestonmay Posts: 107 Member
    I noticed that.....So I just make comments... and do not POST OEM things.... Sometimes when a man post pics... Its taken the wrong way... esp by their spouse..... I would love to do before and after,,,, But I would get a mouthful later
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    I love my MFP friends!
  • rpphillip
    rpphillip Posts: 230 Member
    As one of these "guys" I disagree. I get loads of support. I think the main issue is that interactions on this site really are dependent on give and take. I think typically guys interact less on here. There are many reasons for this. It is hard to tell a girl she looks good without it coming off as creepy (especially as a married man). And giving bro love is often just awkward. But for us guys that really do make an effort to comment as much as possible, our friends (male or female) seem to reciprocate that encouragement.

    This is right , Think some guys just don't inter act or brag as much as the girls do! :huh: just saying.
  • reb6672
    reb6672 Posts: 21
    :bigsmile:
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