Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles

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  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member
    I'm massively curious how this thread would go flipping the coin on what women prefer?

    exactly lol.



    I blame women like the ones in this thread for the lack of real men these days.
    Several are suffering from manorexia, and feel that being scrawny with a 6 pack is the look women want.
  • pammypk1
    pammypk1 Posts: 83 Member
    I am lucky girl ..my bf has the perfect body ,he is lean with just the right amount of muscle not too bulky :)
  • k8lyn_235
    k8lyn_235 Posts: 507 Member
    If you'd asked me 13 years ago what my type was, I'd have said dark hair, pale, thin. Think Johnny Depp or Tommy Lee.

    Then I met a guy who was absolutely perfect for me in every way. And he was a chunky green eyed blonde. I realized that none of my preferences mattered one hill of beans when someone understood, respected, and cared about me (and me him) as much as this guy did.

    Individual chemistry trumps all.

    totally agree! my "type" before i met my current boyfriend was so different.. then i met him and he understands and respects me and i fell in love even though he didn't fit my "type."

    ETA:
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

    totally disagree with that. i don't like "muscley men" and i have been approached by some. the look just doesn't attract me. but i am the type to fall for personality, even if his appearance isn't something i'm initially attracted to.
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I like a man to have muscles, but I dislike the "ripped" look. I like a man that looks like he appreciates good food and drink but also is active and fit but doesn't look like he spends all day in a gym. I like some BF as long as there is muscle underneath.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I *love* to ogle the super muscly men on my FL (and on friends' FL) but in real life I am attracted to less muscle - lean and fit, but not skinny and not super buff. Actually, a little extra padding is ok too as long as they are physically active.
  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member
    this isn't manly.

    9_383842110_brad_pitt_in_bed_h180404_l.jpg

    this is what a man looks like:

    LeanJimWEndler-450x600.jpg



    I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    I like men. Period.

    If the personality is attractive,

    I have a very large... personality. :tongue:
  • MyFeistyEvolution
    MyFeistyEvolution Posts: 1,014 Member
    I like men. Period.

    If the personality is attractive,

    I have a very large... personality. :tongue:

    Indeed...you most certainly do. :wink:
  • EbbySoo
    EbbySoo Posts: 267 Member
    this isn't manly.

    9_383842110_brad_pitt_in_bed_h180404_l.jpg

    this is what a man looks like:

    LeanJimWEndler-450x600.jpg



    I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

    Haha, right on. I'm not into the waify "vampire" look. As long as a guy isn't a self involved douche bag and not morbidly obese, then it's all good really, but this skinny jeans wearing fad where guys diet to try to fit into things that look like my little sister should be wearing them is just ridiculous.
  • AmyM713
    AmyM713 Posts: 594 Member
    I like a healthy looking guy, looks are nice but besides attracting you to the outside what about things like sense of humor, sweet, caring, looks only last so long so if your young and buff or over weight its who you are on the inside.
  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member


    Haha, right on. I'm not into the waify "vampire" look. As long as a guy isn't a self involved douche bag and not morbidly obese, then it's all good really, but this skinny jeans wearing fad where guys diet to try to fit into things that look like my little sister should be wearing them is just ridiculous.

    thank you.
    if you're in your 20s and can wear skinny jeans, you aren't a man.
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member

    I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

    This is important to me.

    Not a fan of guys wearing my skinny jeans xD
  • atsteele
    atsteele Posts: 1,358 Member


    Haha, right on. I'm not into the waify "vampire" look. As long as a guy isn't a self involved douche bag and not morbidly obese, then it's all good really, but this skinny jeans wearing fad where guys diet to try to fit into things that look like my little sister should be wearing them is just ridiculous.

    thank you.
    if you're in your 20s and can wear skinny jeans, you aren't a man.

    If your a man and WANT to wear skinny jeans, you aren't a man. LOL ;P
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    I pretty much just like men. I not all that attracted to the extremes like really skinny, the non-natural body builders, or obese men, but on average, I like men.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    However, I also don't go around picking men based on if they could protect me or not. This isn't 1950. Not that mine couldn't, he could, nor do I think I could protect myself, I just don't plan on being attacked often enough that it would effect my choice in mate.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.
  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member
    Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.

    *posts pic of justin beiber.*



    checkmate

    no. that doesn't have a purpose. unless there is a very small hole that a real man can't fit into.
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    I don't like extremes (too fat or too skinny) Anything in between that is fine!
    I do have a preference for bigger/muscular guys though, like the ones who look like they could easily protect you. It's not a necessity to look like that, it's just a plus :happy:
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.

    *posts pic of justin beiber.*



    checkmate

    no. that doesn't have a purpose. unless there is a very small hole that a real man can't fit into.

    Don't tempt her. She'd totally bone the Beib.
  • Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.

    *posts pic of justin beiber.*



    checkmate

    no. that doesn't have a purpose. unless there is a very small hole that a real man can't fit into.


    Bahahaha!
  • EbbySoo
    EbbySoo Posts: 267 Member
    Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.

    *posts pic of justin beiber.*



    checkmate

    no. that doesn't have a purpose. unless there is a very small hole that a real man can't fit into.

    Don't tempt her. She'd totally bone the Beib.

    LOL Ewwww!!! Mental image of cradle robbing... dude still looks 12. -.- /gags.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    The Beibs just turned 18!!!! He needs a firm, guiding hand.
  • I LOVE chubby guys.
  • Every size and shape of man has his purpose. I like 'em all.

    *posts pic of justin beiber.*



    checkmate

    no. that doesn't have a purpose. unless there is a very small hole that a real man can't fit into.

    Don't tempt her. She'd totally bone the Beib.

    LOL Ewwww!!! Mental image of cradle robbing... dude still looks 12. -.- /gags.

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTejfYD3PVObpz6eWNEPT45RBfTxqr7oFc5khVddt7ofRDx45GU
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    this isn't manly.

    9_383842110_brad_pitt_in_bed_h180404_l.jpg

    this is what a man looks like:

    LeanJimWEndler-450x600.jpg



    I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

    Is that Jim Wendler? You just won the ****in' thread dude.
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    And "BAM" I am now confused on this subject :laugh:
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    I don't have, nor have ever had, a "type." I just don't like overweight men. If you're relatively fit, that's alright, if you've got a little chubs, that's cool too, if you've got big Popeye arms ain't no beef there either.
  • antoniosmooth
    antoniosmooth Posts: 299 Member
    Thread started in Chit Chat Fun and Games flipping the coin on the ladies
  • logicandlove
    logicandlove Posts: 191 Member
    I honestly don't mind, but once it gets to a certain point — like when you veins are all popping boys — it gets kind of scary. But this is what I have, and I'm more than happy with it <3
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  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    I honestly don't mind, but once it gets to a certain point — like when you veins are all popping boys — it gets kind of scary. But this is what I have, and I'm more than happy with it <3
    DSC08484.jpg?t=1303361312

    D'aww he's so cute.
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