Serious bewb question, no pervs please

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Nicoleo1
Nicoleo1 Posts: 159 Member
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We have just opened up our pool / hot tub. (Spring has arrived in my neck of the woods -yay) On Friday we will have company for the weekend and the hot tub will be where we hang out for the evening. I don't have the time nor the inclination to go buy another bathing suit... but my two from last year are too big -gaping... and one I bought for the future fits better in the body but covers a wee (okay a LOT) bit less than I am used to.. I go for FULL bewb coverage, so will wearing something that is in no way porn-starish but still more revealing than usual make me look like I'm out of my mind / grasping / attention seeking / etc. ??????
This is a big change and I'm very nervous to present myself to our friends in a way that I have never done before. I'm considering skipping the hot tub and waiting for when it's just me and hubby...
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  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
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    Wear what you are comfortable with, by all means.

    And who knows, maybe your friends will appreciate the new, skimpier suits on you. :flowerforyou:
  • ket_the_jet
    ket_the_jet Posts: 1,257 Member
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    You didn't ask a question, but my recommendation for this scenario would be to buy a new bathing suit that makes you feel more comfortable.
    -wtk
  • Sp1nGoddess
    Sp1nGoddess Posts: 1,138 Member
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    If you are uncomfortable then don't do it, there's nothing worse than being self-conscious all night! Maybe wear a cover up or go ahead and buy a suit with a little more coverage for times like this.
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,305 Member
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    You didn't ask a question, but my recommendation for this scenario would be to buy a new bathing suit that makes you feel more comfortable.
    -wtk


    ^^ THIS
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
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    Why can't I post here!?!?!?!? So unfair!!!!!




    To answer in my opinion though, I think you'll probably spend a lot more time worrying about it than other folks will. You said yourself it's not indecent, so it'll be fine. The real question is how it will affect you. If it'll ruin your night, then you may want to consider getting a new suit. If not, then have fun rocking the dental floss (kidding)
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
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    No matter what your size, go out and get things that fit properly and look nice. You will always feel and look your very best if you do. And you will never have to worry about how you feel or what people think, of falling out or anything.
  • carriem73
    carriem73 Posts: 333 Member
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    wear the new top, but wear a tank top over it- there is no reason to miss your own party fun- just cover the puppies up a bit- you will be more comfortable eventually!

    Good for you for needing a smaller size!
  • Sherbog
    Sherbog Posts: 1,072 Member
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    When in doubt or questioning your comfort level you might want to wait. But I am the wrong person to ask. I feel more self conscious in a swimming suit that nude. So I never wear one.

    Shirley
    www.aanr.com
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
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    I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable
  • A_New_Horizon
    A_New_Horizon Posts: 1,555 Member
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    Do what feels most comfortable to you. If you don't feel comfortable being more uncovered than don't. I do agree with a poster above - you are probably more worried about it than your friends are. Good luck with your decision.
  • fzyfrog
    fzyfrog Posts: 456 Member
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    I'd take this more seriously if the word "bewb" wasn't used.
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
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  • trish1960
    trish1960 Posts: 39
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    When I'm with family I go with a one piece suit and shorts over it. If you only have a 2 pc - just wear a t-shirt over it. That's a pretty common cover when nothing else is available.
  • NaturalinCO
    NaturalinCO Posts: 164 Member
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    Without a doubt, do what you are comfortable with. If you aren't comfortable in the suit it will be VERY obvious. Maybe try it on for hubby and ask his opinion - but if YOU think you need more coverage, just go pick up something new. You'll be able to enjoy your friends WAY more if you're comfortable!
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
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    Why can't I post here!?!?!?!? So unfair!!!!!

    This is what I was thinking! This is discrimination! :laugh:
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
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    I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable

    Funny.. most guys would say no nekkid and turn those friends into "close" friends hahaha!
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
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    I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable

    Funny.. most guys would say no nekkid and turn those friends into "close" friends hahaha!

    Lol, she said no pervs, so I improvised!
  • littleworm23
    littleworm23 Posts: 341 Member
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    It's your pool/hot tub. Why can't you wear whatever suit is comfortable with a t-shirt over top?
  • TheReese1206
    TheReese1206 Posts: 238
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    Why not wear a tank top or something over it?
  • galegetsthin
    galegetsthin Posts: 1,352 Member
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    NO, but it is YOUR hot tub!!! you can wear what you want! A sports bra, a pair of pastys, nothing at all...... I would wear the one that is revealing. It is probably not as bad as you see it in your mind anyway.

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