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stretch marks do they matter ladies to you in a guy?

Posts: 263 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
ladies if you saw a guy with a very nice body at the beach big shoulders
six pack and all but with stretch marks what would be taught?
if he approached would be interested or you can care less about looks

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  • Posts: 2,262 Member
    No stretch marks does not matter on a guy.......Wait until he see mines....Probably has nothing compared to what I have lol
  • I've heard it often said... "stretch marks are battle scars"... I couldn't agree more... they are proof to the world of where you were and where you are now. So no, they don't matter.
  • Posts: 506 Member
    stretch marks don't matter, I honestly probably wouldn't even notice it at all
  • Posts: 994 Member
    I wouldn't say anything because I have my share of them from having my daughter.
  • Posts: 3,343 Member
    No it wouldn't matter to me - my bf has them on his shoulders & lats.
  • Posts: 2,236 Member
    They do not matter to me - cant beat the ones I have. Battle scars from battles won and battles being fought.
  • Posts: 326 Member
    nope, they don't matter to me...my husband has a few and I have many after 2 kids so it is just a part of life I am pretty sure everyone has them in some form, even before kids I had some from growth spurts as a teenager....If you are self conscious of yours, I know bio oil helps immensely on their appearance and I used it during and after both pregnancies :)
  • Posts: 659 Member
    No stretch marks does not matter on a guy.......Wait until he see mines....Probably has nothing compared to what I have lol

    THIS!!
  • Posts: 751 Member
    :ohwell: Is this a trick question
  • Posts: 904 Member
    I really don't mind them on someone else, I have them and I know it couldn't really be helped (I have weak skin and hit a growth spurt, upwards when I was 19 so before I put on weight I had stretch marks from that) I do really hate my own and have thought about laser removal when I get to my goal weight.
  • Posts: 103 Member
    Nope, doesn't bother me at all.
    My husband is very tall (6ft 7) and he grew very quickly in his teens. This has lead to horizontal stretch marks on his back. I love him, the stretch marks are part of him therefore I love them too.

    If I did mind I'd be a hypocrit, aside from fluctuating weight I have a genetic condition which causes weakness in all connective tissue in my body. Yup that includes the skin, so I am pre-disposed to having stretch marks no matter what. Throw in a couple of pregnancies and weigh which has fluctuated from under 5st to over 14st in the past 15 years and I am covered in marks!
  • Posts: 1,421 Member
    Pretty sure most people have them in one place or another. I've got better ones, I'm sure.
  • Posts: 384 Member
    who DOESN'T have stretch marks????
    stretch marks are like ex's, everyone has some.

    the older you get, you will find, stuff like that just doesn't matter.
  • Seriously doesn't matter..Shows how far you've come!
  • Posts: 621 Member
    Not at all, my boyfriend has been at points where he's gained a little weight, and had some stretch marks. I doubt he even notices them since they are only on his legs really. He's joining me to lose weight though!
  • Posts: 1,340 Member
    I am MORE curious to know how much they matter to you guys when WE have them. I have lost a lot of weight. I am getting pretty hot. But I am SERIOUSLY stressing about the stretchmarks on my upper belly that will never go away. I want real honesty here........
  • Posts: 683
    Stretch marks- not going to be high on the list of things that matter.
    Scratch marks from your hobby of taming feral cats- Pass.
  • Posts: 542 Member
    I love them on my man. Honestly. They match mine. :)
  • Posts: 193 Member
    They do not matter at all.
  • Posts: 168
    No, they don't matter to us. at least no one that I know pays any attention to them
  • Posts: 145
    Women get stretch marks from numerous things... and we would hope a guy would look past them. So it wouldnt and shouldnt be any different if the Man has stretch marks.
  • Posts: 49 Member
    Most people understand stretch marks and for women that have had kids we have no room to judge anyone else who has them. Either way if its weight, kids, or just nature its not a big deal. It is usually a bigger deal to you than anyone else. I know this is true for me at least.
  • Posts: 1,593 Member
    Maybe I'm shallow.. but I'll be honest and say I find them to be a turn off. Not attractive at all.
  • Definitely doesn't bother me. I had stretch marks develop during puberty, before I became overweight or pregnant or any of the things that typically cause them. I accept them as part of life, on myself and on anyone else.
  • Posts: 20
    My husband has stretch marks and I love him just the way he is.
  • Posts: 301 Member
    I've heard it often said... "stretch marks are battle scars"... I couldn't agree more... they are proof to the world of where you were and where you are now. So no, they don't matter.

    ^^Agree.
  • Posts: 259 Member
    Doesn't matter. If anything it makes you more approachable knowing you are 'real' like the rest of us.
  • Posts: 263 Member
    no not at all lol
    i have them in my back and belly i hate it

    :ohwell: Is this a trick question
  • Posts: 1,987 Member
    i don't think stretch marks are a big deal either way, guy or girl *shrugs*
  • Posts: 43
    I have this thing where I sort of like them... a lot of times guys get stretch marks from building muscle too. Some of the ... darker skinned :) athletes I've been with in the past have had them... and I am totally totally ok with it. I'm pretty sure they're not even that noticeable on white guys! haha
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