question for the ladies be honest here?

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  • harley0269
    harley0269 Posts: 384 Member
    looks are nice, but thats not what keeps me coming back for more.
    what does looks matter if i would go blind tomorrow? i would hope he would feel the same.
    God forbid some horrific thing would happen & i would be scarred for life, i would hope he would stay with me not out of pity, but because he loved the beauty within me. because thats how i would love him.

    every man i was ever with was for different reasons. things that attracted me to him.
    like: the way i can get lost in his scent, the way his eyes light up when he's telling a story, his smile, the feel of his thighs as they are..., mostly how safe do i feel in his arms? how does he make me feel? i want to feel like a lady when im with him.
    would he protect me from a mouse to a burgler? will he hold my hand in public? am i more than a booty call. if my hair would fall out, would he be ashamed to be seen with me? or leave me?

    most of all, when he looks at me, does he see me? all of me? truely me? & not just what i look like on the outside?
    because thats what i would be looking for in him.

    pretty packages are nice. but they are worthless if there is nothing nice on the inside!
  • hennyben
    hennyben Posts: 313 Member
    Even though looks definitely come into that initial attraction, I think most girls would give an 'average' guy a chance. If not she's a just a b!tch so he's actually dodging a bullet
  • martin_chicago
    martin_chicago Posts: 263 Member
    well thanks:)
    i get that a lot but if i may ask where do you see the rock in me
    a lot of people even my family always tell me but when i look at myself
    i say are they crazy lol
    I just had to throw in, you aren't an average joe at all. You are quite cute....kind of a "Dwayne Johnson" look to you. :)
  • harley0269
    harley0269 Posts: 384 Member
    why do you think you are "just average"????:noway:
    you make it sound like you are nothing special. & thats not true!! NOBODY is JUST average!
    I've seen some of your posts before & although you seem to doubt yourself, I do see a very nice man.
    you are someone who is thoughtful of others. you show empathy & sincerity. you have a lot to offer & a lot of love to give.
    your smile is the light that will draw the moths to flame. your eyes are the windows to your soul. they are warm & kind.
    you have come a long way in this journey to get healthy. thats VERY admirable!
    don't be in a hurry to find any love. your love is worth the wait. it always is for the right one.
    beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
    when you find the special someone, you will see them in a whole new light. you will ask yourself what did i do to deserve someone this great? they are so out of my leaugue. & you know what? they will be asking themselves the same question too!
    "you will get as good as you give."

    so raise up your self-esteme! love yourself! because you have to have love to give love. & you have to give love to receive love.

    ps. you made the comment that women are hot with big tushies. i will have you know that ive always had my "bubble-butt" & have been ridiculed for it for YEARS!!!! (even as a child). im 46 now & ive FINALLY have a bf that fancys that! :blushing: so go figure!
    so you see, beauty IS in the eye of the beholder
  • martin_chicago
    martin_chicago Posts: 263 Member
    your right i do believe i go after the wrong type of females and i know i am wrong but idk
    A lot of this answer is going to depend on the type of woman you're talking to.
    Some shallow lovely ladies will probably ignore the "average joe" and be kinda rude..but I have a feeling that those girls are far and few between.

    Others however will probably see what you have to say and hear you out regardless of what the girl looks like. and I mean that because everyone has insecurities and so personally I think that most women would hear the "average joe" out.
  • aprildawn81
    aprildawn81 Posts: 668 Member
    well thanks:)
    i get that a lot but if i may ask where do you see the rock in me
    a lot of people even my family always tell me but when i look at myself
    i say are they crazy lol
    I just had to throw in, you aren't an average joe at all. You are quite cute....kind of a "Dwayne Johnson" look to you. :)

    All of your facial features, actually. :)
  • Beeteezie
    Beeteezie Posts: 35 Member
    Do you Mr. Average Joe give the woman that just walked with a flat behind but giving you the eye the time of the day?

    I was thinking the same question... Probably not

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