Will I ever feel like a sexual being again??

NeuroticVirgo

I think if you find the right man it will work out. Feeling comfortable and secure around your partner makes all the difference.

Lesa_Sass

Thanks guys I appreciate all the advice!! And I checked out the V thread and WOW!!! I think it might be coming back to me :blushing:

This just made me very happy. :flowerforyou:

And as far as other thing goes, I was so proud and thought I could do it all myself. One of the hardest things ever was admitting I needed help, once I did, it was one of the best things ever. I learned that I was not what he beat me down to believe I was and that it was not my fault, it was him and his insecurities that made him treat me that way. After all, if I was so bad, why did he want to stay with me? Try it out, give it a while too. At first I thought I knew more than she did, turns out, she really did know what she was doing. I also found that the longer I went, the more truth came out. I do not know if I was lying to her on purpose or lying to myself to protect me. All I know is, I am glad I reached out and got help, it is what enables me to have a happy healthy relationship today.