So Upset...

czewwhat

Love and support!:flowerforyou: I was the girl whose mom committed suicide! I was the girl who wound up in a foster home, through no fault of my own. kids are stupid and cruel. as long as you know you are here in this site to get fit for yourself, not for the jerks who say mean things you will be alright. You must remember, being "fat" is temporary and you are fixing that, being "Ugly" is permanent! I am not talking the looks of these jerks, I am talking the insides. shake the dust off your shoes, they are not worth your tears. I just attended my 35th reunion, the mean girls were all divorced and unhappy. the cheerleaders were unable to afford to come to the reunion and the guys that spread rumors about me that were not true were all bald, pot bellied, and divorced from the mean girls! Lift yourself up to where you can be in your heart. You are the only one that can stop your success. don;t let that happen! We are all here for you.:flowerforyou: Get fabulous, get even and be successful. no employer looks for mean employees, the public won't tolerate it! Be happy!

AJCM

I feel as though everyone has said what I am thinking, but I still want to say that I am so sad that you had to go through this.....

Why do we mistreat each other?

You are a beautiful young woman, and those teens were saying mean things to you, because they feel so badly about themself. Just think - would you ever call out anything to someone minding their own business? They must have had NOTHING to do, and NOTHING to talk about, so they were mean to someone else to build themselves up. Remember that this has nothing to do with you, but it's about their insecurities. You, however, were caught in the cross fire.

The fact that you could still ride your bike on that extra lap is incredible - I don't know what I would have done - probably would have raced home and crumbled. I LOVE the fact that you rode another lap - AWESOME - you showed them that what they say doesn't matter. It's okay that you cried at home, we would all do that, but you were strong in a very hard situation!!! You are one strong chick!

In highschool, my friends were the "mean girls" - just ruthless b's - and I thank God that I go through highschool (by focusing on studying, and a nice boyfriend - leave the jerks behind), got to University, and never looked back.

Recently, one of those "mean girls" tried to contact me through a mutual friend, to join her for a drink. I told the mutual friend that I had zero desire to see this girl, and that I had no fond memories of her, and I just couldn't waste a minute of my life sharing a drink with her. You will have that moment, and it will feel good - not to be mean, but to assert yourself and know who you are (although it seems that you are already there!!!).

And it's true what everyone says - most of the "popular" kids aren't so hot 10 years later.

You will rise out of this, and all will be well.
Take good care, and keep your head up doing the extra lap....
:flowerforyou:

czewwhat

giving you a bump so that others can see and give more support! Rock that cello! and stay on that bike for one more lap! You go girl!

magglett

Hi there ... I just read through this thread and most of what I wanted to say has been said. But I want to send you my best of thoughts. I'm a sensative person too and it just takes a stupid insodent like this to send me over the edge but I've learned with age that I can't let others get to me. They are the one with the problem. They truly feel so bad about themselves that they strike out at people like you and me. You really are above them ... you just have to believe it. Keep up the good work. :flowerforyou: