Single ladies (single girls AND girls in relationships).

JessLove31

Do you all ever catch yourself looking at wedding stuff online and start planning a little in your head? A lot of my friends say they do or did, but I want to see if that's true everywhere. I just like looking at the rings, the dresses, the cakes, and the honeymoons (the fun and important things). I could just be crazy though.

Il_DaniD_lI

My boyfriend hasn't proposed yet but when I fly back to see my mom this Summer I'm picking out our wedding venue. lol

hesn92

no lol. I just want to elope though.

LorinaLynn

I eloped, married 10 years, wouldnt' change a thing, but I still get a little bit of wedding fever if someone I know is getting married or I watch wedding tv shows.

I was *thisclose* to planning a vow renewal, but decided to just have a kickass Halloween party instead.

autumnk921

Not me....Not sure why either....I am 37 and never been married...Came close a couple of times though - way in the past....I am pretty sure that I am more like a man b/c I have issues with commitment I think...Not sure what is wrong with me b/c I am not like most girls/women who love all of the wedding stuff - never have been - Maybe that is why I have also never been married. I am not opposed to maybe getting married someday but I would just go to the Justice of the Peace or something like that.

BIGJIMMYU

My boyfriend hasn't proposed yet but when I fly back to see my mom this Summer I'm picking out our wedding venue. lol

Well, it's like this....men love being married, we really do. We just hate the process of getting married. Women seem to love all the planning and ceremony etcetera, but if any one topic seems to last longer than a football game we lose interest in it very quickly. Marriage yes by all means. My wife is my best friend and I would never want another. But truthfully, I could have done without the headache of planning, the ceremony, the enormous expense. MOST men would just as soon hit a J.O.P, a good party with friends and family,(with no drawn out speeches and long sit down meal), then off to a good expensive lengthy honeymoon trip. Ahhh...It's nice to have a penis and be immature until we die. By the way, if any men answer and say they absolutely love planning weddings and ceremony I would wager they are gay or lying on here for some attention....keeping it real!

lizard053

My sister just got married last summer, so I've had a bit of the wedding bug! We've been talking for years about what we'd do, but I haven't set any definite plans. LOL!

I even designed my engagement ring. Not that he's asked... :laugh:

jiigglybutt

My boyfriend said he never wants to get married. I don't want to get married YET but I do eventually. We're still young so i know he may or may not change his mind but I find myself looking at wedding stuff very often

Ohjeezitskim

Yeah.. I'm guilty lol

HelloSweetie4

I'll be married four years this summer and I still window shop wedding stuff. Hehe I also window shop baby stuff, even though we aren't going to start trying for another year. I think its just a girl's mentality....

songbyrdsweet

Nah, marriage is kind of scary to me, so I try not to think about it yet...:embarassed:

BlackStarlight

Ive never really been one of those girls that gets wedding fever. Having said that I can feel myself getting caught up in the flood as this year alot of my friends are getting married and I do think of what I would want having said that, I cant picture it lol. My friends wedding last weekend was beautiful though and we had a great time. Maybe one day that will be me... Not holding my beath though. You have to actually commit to someone first... There is my problem lol xx

HeidiMightyRawr

I wouldn't say "planning" as we're not engaged yet. I look at wedding stuff if it's there though, I think about it fairly often, and if I walk past a wedding dress shop I'll have a look (did this just the other day with my bf) "ooh I like that one" etc etc

mznisaelaine

I have done that before a little... This is embarrassing but I use to watch different marriage proposals alot on YouTube. Lol

hesn92

My boyfriend hasn't proposed yet but when I fly back to see my mom this Summer I'm picking out our wedding venue. lol

Well, it's like this....men love being married, we really do. We just hate the process of getting married. Women seem to love all the planning and ceremony etcetera, but if any one topic seems to last longer than a football game we lose interest in it very quickly. Marriage yes by all means. My wife is my best friend and I would never want another. But truthfully, I could have done without the headache of planning, the ceremony, the enormous expense. MOST men would just as soon hit a J.O.P, a good party with friends and family,(with no drawn out speeches and long sit down meal), then off to a good expensive lengthy honeymoon trip. Ahhh...It's nice to have a penis and be immature until we die. By the way, if any men answer and say they absolutely love planning weddings and ceremony I would wager they are gay or lying on here for some attention....keeping it real!

I feel the same way about weddings and I am a woman. I don't understand why getting married has to be like putting on a show. I want to just go somewhere and get it done and maybe have a reception later on to celebrate.

pudadough

I do, but it doesn't match what I'd really do if it were me. I think if I ever did get married, it would be a very small affair with just my parents. I've even thought it might be romantic to do a justice of the peace situation.

I admit that I have a Pinterest wedding board. I think I just like looking at the creative design aspect of it, though. I could never stomach the idea of spending a ridiculous amount on one day.

christine24t

I'm single and I have a wedding song picked out and the colors of dresses I want!

ThisisMiss

I am kind of engaged (we've been in separate countries for over a year now due to visa complications so he proposed over Skype). I knew we'd get married ever since we first met, but I've been planning my wedding long before that. I've even contacted people about getting my dress custom-made.

annafonte

i do want to get married but i dont really look online or think about the wedding too much. although, i have thought about the colours of my wedding though but thats about it, oh, and what kind of wedding dress

ZugTheMegasaurus

I've never cared about getting married. Come to think of it, I don't know anything about my own parents' wedding and haven't actually ever seen pictures (despite the fact they were married nearly 30 years and just got divorced last year). My parents actually were kind of anti-me-getting-married; it was always, "you can do whatever you want with your life, do something amazing." Even now, my boyfriend and I have been together nine years, and while we consider it a given that we'll sign the papers at some point, neither of us wants the whole wedding thing. We figure we'll sign the papers at the courthouse and have a bit of a party for family and friends (probably at home).

I guess I just don't get why it's such a big deal. It seems like such a tiny part of what will be (at least you hope) a lifelong relationship.

maygans

I like looking at engagement rings, and I want to get married on the beach (his parents house/ the house he grew up in is literally across the street from the beach!). That's about as far as I've gone with that. I know the very few select people I absolutely 100% want to be there when I get married, but other than that I really don't care about it much. I don't swoon over dresses or anything like that. I know that I wouldn't want to spend tons of money on a lavish ceremony though, it seems kind of like a waste to me... I would rather put that money towards buying a house!