Single ladies (single girls AND girls in relationships).

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  • lawmama_
    lawmama_ Posts: 103 Member
    Do you all ever catch yourself looking at wedding stuff online and start planning a little in your head? A lot of my friends say they do or did, but I want to see if that's true everywhere. I just like looking at the rings, the dresses, the cakes, and the honeymoons (the fun and important things). I could just be crazy though.

    NO! i am engaged and i HATE everything about wedding planning. OMG i had to hire a planner. it's too stressful! i want to feel like a guest at my own wedding and not have to worry about anything at all!

    But...as anti-wedding hysteria as I am, I did buy my dress at the blow-out sale at Kleinfeld Bridal in NYC. I did not put all the hype into it like everyone else did, I just showed up, walked in, bought the 2nd dress I tried on, and left. LOL! Maybe I don't think the place is all that special because I am from NYC. It is just like any other store. I met all the people on Say Yes to the Dress, too. The dress is pretty, I am looking forward to wearing it on my wedding day. My mom picked it out.
  • lawmama_
    lawmama_ Posts: 103 Member
    My friends have called me out on not wanting to. When they pull out wedding magazines or when we're shopping and they stop to look at rings, I tend to walk away. If I end up getting married, I really don't want to think about that stuff until I'm engaged. I have friends my age who have already planned every single detail of their ceremony and some even planned the date (despite being single). That really creeps me out.

    RIGHT! I always thought that looking at wedding stuff ahead of time was just a way to completely JINX it! And no way did I want to jinx my chances of getting married. I mean, I'm a complicated person, I needed all the luck I could get to find someone to marry me hahahaha
  • lawmama_
    lawmama_ Posts: 103 Member
    My boyfriend said he never wants to get married. I don't want to get married YET but I do eventually. We're still young so i know he may or may not change his mind :) but I find myself looking at wedding stuff very often :tongue:

    He's never gonna marry you. Break it off now! Don't wait around for someone who's already told you he's not interested. He won't change his mind, guys never do!
  • iwantahealthierme13
    iwantahealthierme13 Posts: 337 Member
    No, never have. Except when I was engaged back in 2008-2009 but we broke up so I have some idea what I would like if I get married but I don't even know if that's what I want anymore. Marriage kinda scared me when I was engaged because I felt like since I couldn't have kids with my ex, there was nothing else to look forward to except death. :P

    I don't want any biological kids ever (which is good because I'm 29 and I don't have any yet) I might adopt if possible but even so, marriage felt like the end of freedom.

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