hypothetically...

paulaGetshealthy
paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
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pretend you're a 32 year old hot Italian/Spanish dude at the bar I went to last night. We speak. We hit it off. Then I tell you I'm only 22 years old. Are you still into me?

If so, why the **** haven't you called?! It's been 13.4 hours and 33 seconds! I saw you watching TV; don't tell me you're too ****ing busy!!!
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  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,345 Member
    LMFAO
  • fraser112
    fraser112 Posts: 405
    It's been 13.4 hours and 33 seconds! I saw you watching TV; don't tell me you're too ****ing busy!!!

    theres your answer
  • ChristineMarie89
    ChristineMarie89 Posts: 1,079 Member
    mayby it wasnt about your age lol && cuz guys r idiots
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    Okay I was kidding about the second part, but I actually kind of want an answer to the first part...

    and I don't mind that he hasn't called. But as soon as I told him my age, he said, "oh. you're REALLY young."
  • GuruOnAMountain
    GuruOnAMountain Posts: 489 Member
    You saw him watching TV? I hope he happens to live near you or something and you're not stalking him! Lol.

    Don't sweat the small stuff, gurlie. It could be that:
    1. He is going to call you but is trying to play it cool and act all uninterested instead of looking over-keen.
    2. It could be that the age difference put him off.
    3. It could be that he was at the bar chatting and having fun but then when he came home he thought better of it.

    AT LEAST he was a decent guy about it and didn't try to get his leg over you for the night and then never called you again. If he calls, awesome.....if he doesn't, then he obviously isn't worth sweating over. Chillax girl! :)
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,345 Member
    pretend you're a 32 year old hot Italian/Spanish dude at the bar I went to last night. We speak. We hit it off. Then I tell you I'm only 22 years old. Are you still into me?

    If so, why the **** haven't you called?! It's been 13.4 hours and 33 seconds! I saw you watching TV; don't tell me you're too ****ing busy!!!

    Its only been It's been 13.4 hours and 33 seconds! Well shiit!

    Well he might be turned off on your age depending on where hes at in life and how he feels about younger women.
    As for calling you... U ever heard of the 3 day rule?!
  • tinksmommy2006
    tinksmommy2006 Posts: 575
    LMAO I think that is exactly what goes through every womens mind at some point when it comes to men/dating/calling....We want you to call 5 effing seconds before we give you our number!
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Probably believes in the 3 day rule. That or he actually is busy.
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    Dating rule on age: Current age x 1/2 + 7 = Maximum difference in age acceptable; so, you're OK
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
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  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    You're legal.....I wouldn't sweat it. Either he's busy or just not into you.....you'll know which in a few days.
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    perhaps as he walked off I should have screamed, "but I don't have a gag reflex! I DONT HAVE A GAG REFLEX!"
  • DaBossLady24
    DaBossLady24 Posts: 556 Member
    why don't you just hit him up and say hi? :huh:
  • JadeRabbit08
    JadeRabbit08 Posts: 551 Member
    Probably believes in the 3 day rule. That or he actually is busy.

    Probably with his wife and kids that he accidently forgot to mention.
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    Oh, I told him I don't mind about his wife and 4 kids and golden retriever and white picket fence
  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
    Lol, give him a few days! X
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    He is probably gay and was just being nice by talking to you
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    He is probably gay and was just being nice by talking to you

    y'know I didn't realize I was THAT pathetically ugly.
  • shayol3029
    shayol3029 Posts: 3
    perhaps as he walked off I should have screamed, "but I don't have a gag reflex! I DONT HAVE A GAG REFLEX!"


    LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!
  • Sox90716
    Sox90716 Posts: 976 Member
    perhaps as he walked off I should have screamed, "but I don't have a gag reflex! I DONT HAVE A GAG REFLEX!"

    This ^. You would have had him at this!
  • karenwill2
    karenwill2 Posts: 604 Member
    whether he is in to you or not, the standard rule is to wait 2 days minimum before calling to not appear desperate. Or that is what us 30 somethings learned anyways.
  • iwantahealthierme13
    iwantahealthierme13 Posts: 337 Member
    If he says "wow, you're REALLY young" then he thinks you're too young for him.
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    pretend you're a 32 year old hot Italian/Spanish dude at the bar I went to last night. We speak. We hit it off. Then I tell you I'm only 22 years old. Are you still into me?

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  • kelif5959
    kelif5959 Posts: 202
    perhaps as he walked off I should have screamed, "but I don't have a gag reflex! I DONT HAVE A GAG REFLEX!"

    ^^LMAO^^ Totally would've worked! You'd be trying to shove his *kitten* out the door by now.........:laugh:
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    He is probably gay and was just being nice by talking to you

    y'know I didn't realize I was THAT pathetically ugly.

    I was jk, who knows....He probably is like most guys and is more into the NFL draft/Hockey this weekend.
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    How sad is it that whether he calls isn't as important to me as the fact that his buddy owns a restaurant and said that my girlfriends and I could go have a free meal and drinks anytime. THAT's what I really want.
  • 0AnorexicBitch0
    0AnorexicBitch0 Posts: 5
    Just because you think your hot doesn't mean there is something between you two. Whatever happened to brains and personality? Your immaturity probably puts him off..not to mention you sound kind of stalkerish. Lay low and play things cool. Guys aren't into obsessive girls.
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    What seems cool and OK at a bar at night....is sometimes different in the light of day. Happens all the time, don't take it personal. If he's into you he'll call you and soon. If you don't hear from him after a day or two it's time to move and not question why.
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    Just because you think your hot doesn't mean there is something between you two. Whatever happened to brains and personality? Your immaturity probably puts him off..not to mention you sound kind of stalkerish. Lay low and play things cool. Guys aren't into obsessive girls.

    OMG you don't understand humor. I shall pray for you.
  • dane11235813
    dane11235813 Posts: 682 Member
    Probably believes in the 3 day rule. That or he actually is busy.

    Barney: Jesus waited THREE days to come back to life. It was perfect! If he had only waited ONE day, a lot of people wouldn't have even heard he died.
    They'd be all, "Hey Jesus, what up?" and Jesus would probably be like, "What up? I DIED yesterday!" and they'd be all, "Uhh, you look pretty alive to me, dude..." and then Jesus would have to explain how he was resurrected, and how it was a miracle, and the dude'd be like "Uhh okay, whatever you say, bro..."
    And he's not gonna come back on a SATURDAY. Everybody's busy, doing chores, workin' the loom, trimmin' the beard, NO. He waited the perfect number of days, THREE. Plus it's SUNDAY, so everyone's in church already, and they're all in there like "Oh no, Jesus is DEAD", and then BAM!
    He bursts in the back door, runnin' up the aisle, everyone's totally psyched, and FYI, that's when he invented the high five. That's why we wait three days to call a woman, because that's how long Jesus wants us to wait.... True story

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