Intimidating?

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  • BrienJD
    BrienJD Posts: 541 Member
    Two male, one female.

    I don't think it was that I offended anyone.

    From a male standpoint attractive women can be perceived as intimidating. Someone who has looks, smarts, self confidence and assertiveness are also treated derentially by either sex
  • prettylyzard
    prettylyzard Posts: 98 Member
    Maybe you just radiate inner strength! They're intimidated by your confidence!
  • misscristie
    misscristie Posts: 643 Member
    Take the 3 of them out, get them drunk and ask them WTH they were talking about. Had a co-worker tell me (while intoxicated) that he found me attractive and that intimidated him because he was shy and doesn't know how to talk to women. All this time, I just thought he was a prick!
  • kiminikimkim
    kiminikimkim Posts: 746 Member
    Spin this into a positive by taking it as a compliment!
  • quink77
    quink77 Posts: 87 Member
    I wonder what other attitudes I'm throwing off without realizing it.... Maybe I should surround myself with friends who will be brutally honest with me all the time.
  • charlesb22
    charlesb22 Posts: 110 Member
    I'm a very quiet shy person, and people often think (and are happy to tell me) that I'm stuck up and a *****...because I'm too nervous to talk to them! It makes it even harder to speak up.
  • JenAiMarres
    JenAiMarres Posts: 743 Member
    Take the 3 of them out, get them drunk and ask them WTH they were talking about. Had a co-worker tell me (while intoxicated) that he found me attractive and that intimidated him because he was shy and doesn't know how to talk to women. All this time, I just thought he was a prick!
    Haha!! Good idea!
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