wedding dress

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  • polly_lops
    polly_lops Posts: 35 Member
    She posted less than an hour ago...give her some time to reply people!!
  • As long as you enjoyed your day, who cares what you looked like. Looks are temporary and can be changed. If your husband or loved one said this to you, move on...they will always treat you like crap. I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE!
  • cazzamartinek
    cazzamartinek Posts: 123 Member
    this is so rude, she is obviously on here for support. maybe she feels like being dramatic because she is having a hard day.

    I agree; my comment was rude if she's just having a hard day. If that's the case, then I apologize. If she did do it just so the person who said it could read it, then my comments stand. That happens here, so it's not that far-fetched.

    i agree with this if it is just for drama effect then really ?? tell the person how they made you feel to their face it will make them feel worse than seeing this and if your having a bad day then i feel sad for you dont let some comments get you down , loose weight for you not a critical person
  • foxyforce
    foxyforce Posts: 3,078 Member
    she is looking for motivation, does it REALLY matter what her other intentions are.
  • TheAncientMariner
    TheAncientMariner Posts: 444 Member
    I'm certain you were beautiful on your day. The onus is on you to believe in yourself. Always remember:

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  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    Wow. Unless the comment was made by the other guy you were sleeping with, this comment is totally out of line
  • noirnatural
    noirnatural Posts: 310 Member
    this shi*t cray.


    ^^^First thing to pop in my head.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • cazkath96
    cazkath96 Posts: 60 Member
    hey guys sorry for late delay was just making tea. no not a family friend someone on facebook inboxed me saying it. they r friends with my hubby ex!! well it'll just give me motivation to lose :-D
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    hey guys sorry for late delay was just making tea. no not a family friend someone on facebook inboxed me saying it. they r friends with my hubby ex!! well it'll just give me motivation to lose :-D

    How horrible... Sure use it as motivation... I recommend you take a kickboxing class for your exercise so you can knock that ***** out!
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    hey guys sorry for late delay was just making tea. no not a family friend someone on facebook inboxed me saying it. they r friends with my hubby ex!! well it'll just give me motivation to lose :-D

    You message them back with every nasty word you know! And then a stern look to the husband for knowing such people.

    Seriously unload on whoever that is. Don't hold anything back.

    Let me know if you need help.
  • cazkath96
    cazkath96 Posts: 60 Member
    What I've heard from the person who said it was that "it was just their personal opinion" so they're free to be as rude as they like. :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: What's wrong sugar, talk to strangers...

    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    What I've heard from the person who said it was that "it was just their personal opinion" so they're free to be as rude as they like. :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: What's wrong sugar, talk to strangers...

    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.

    He was confuzzled... don't hold it against him... he's a nice guy!
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.

    It takes a long time to boil tea in your home.....anyway, sorry that your husband's ex has nutty friends. I'd block that person ASAP. Give us more info in the OP next time so we can help you unleash on the correct person!
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    you know what's good for that? carnage. srsly. unleash the carnage on that person. ... ... or is that just my ginger showing?
  • cazkath96
    cazkath96 Posts: 60 Member
    yeh sorry about the delay i wrote it as my son came in from school then had to put tea on then hubby came in from work etc
    i was just sharing to show how i was guna get motivated :smile:
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    Good attitude. I still think my heel strike idea has merit...but I'm not exactly what you would call 'mature'. Ignore the person and keep doing your thing.
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    What I've heard from the person who said it was that "it was just their personal opinion" so they're free to be as rude as they like. :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: What's wrong sugar, talk to strangers...

    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.

    Don't take what I said wrong, it's just my way. I wasn't fighting with you at all. And now that we know more I'd love to help in fact.

    I think you should let Maab and I prepare a "rough draft" of things that can be said to that person. Poor Patti is just too nice to go to the places the two of us would.
  • cazkath96
    cazkath96 Posts: 60 Member
    lol thanks :-)
  • cazkath96
    cazkath96 Posts: 60 Member
    :flowerforyou: just letting u all know im guna shoot guna go have a soak really achy after todays exercise bye guys
  • marz42
    marz42 Posts: 223 Member
    apparently i looked like a fat slut on my wedding day so thats motivation to get slim right!!
    Oh, wait....your husband is on here, too, so you posted this so he could see the replies you get??? I've seen that done before.


    And the "Gettin' to the bottom of it" award goes to...

    So we're guessing her husband said this? Wow. I hope we are wrong.

    To me it sounds more like something a grumpy older relative might say.
  • medaglia_06
    medaglia_06 Posts: 282 Member
    Well good for you for turning a negative into a positive.

    And I'm sure you were gorgeous on your wedding day!
  • kgprice11
    kgprice11 Posts: 749 Member
    You should post a wedding picture on here so we can judge you for ourselves and give you our own opinion
  • Pomoch325
    Pomoch325 Posts: 63 Member
    Jealousy mixed with rudeness. I'm sure you looked lovely.
  • polarsjewel
    polarsjewel Posts: 1,725 Member
    The only way a bride could look like a slut on her wedding day is if she was trying to dress for her Gypsy Wedding. Don't take some random stranger's words to heart.
  • that is horrible! i would never talk to that person again!
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Oh, look at your pic. Is that the "I like Turtles" kid?
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
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  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    What I've heard from the person who said it was that "it was just their personal opinion" so they're free to be as rude as they like. :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: What's wrong sugar, talk to strangers...

    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.

    Don't take what I said wrong, it's just my way. I wasn't fighting with you at all. And now that we know more I'd love to help in fact.

    I think you should let Maab and I prepare a "rough draft" of things that can be said to that person. Poor Patti is just too nice to go to the places the two of us would.

    i kind of adore that i'm automatically included in the scheming. it's like you KNOW me.
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    What I've heard from the person who said it was that "it was just their personal opinion" so they're free to be as rude as they like. :laugh:

    :flowerforyou: What's wrong sugar, talk to strangers...

    what r u on about? ive wrote this as my husbands (who isnt on here by the way!!) ex her friend inboxed me on facebook and i thought i'd share with u guys what was said and how it was guna motivate me..... geez why wud u turn this around!!!! youre obv lookimng for an argument. thanks.

    Don't take what I said wrong, it's just my way. I wasn't fighting with you at all. And now that we know more I'd love to help in fact.

    I think you should let Maab and I prepare a "rough draft" of things that can be said to that person. Poor Patti is just too nice to go to the places the two of us would.

    I think Patti has what I like to call "inside thoughts." Amirite? :wink:
  • MinkyMoo13
    MinkyMoo13 Posts: 354 Member
    hey guys sorry for late delay was just making tea. no not a family friend someone on facebook inboxed me saying it. they r friends with my hubby ex!! well it'll just give me motivation to lose :-D

    You know i think it's just pathetic! I mean how long ago were they dating for you to now be married to him! I once got called a chav as i have an arm bad style tattoo (one of many). I was so upset to the extent that i now what to change it!