Which is more you?

sktllmdrhmz

Do you feel better when you get praised for something that you've worked for and achieved, or something that is inherent to you?

"I love your abs" vs. "You have beautiful eyes."

Do you wish abs were like eyes and you either had 'em or you didn't?

ashmarie484

I think I would take a compliment better if it was for something that I couldnt change. You can have the hottest abs & an ugly face. If you have the prettiest face but a horrible stomach then you can fix that, you cant fix ugly.

swt0pie

" I love your abs" most definitely :P

Mercenary1914

Accomplishments over Inheritance

Jennicia

I'm greedy and crave attention....I WANT BOTH! :laugh:

JustJennie1

Compliments make me uncomfortable but if I were forced to choose I'd say the one that I've worked the hardest for. To say you love my eyes is fine but to say I have amazing abs/legs/body whatever means a lot more to me because I've worked hard to achieve what I have and the work is paying off.

Both instances make me uncomfortable and I never know how to respond. :blushing:

holly1283

The eyes have it!

Meisterberger

I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

megmay2591

I probably feel better about things that I've achieved or accomplished. Working hard and getting something makes me feel good about myself, but when others compliment my success it makes me feel even better. But I do love being praised about something inherent, who doesn't?
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AmberJslimsAWAY

I get compliments on my eyes all the time. I'd rather hear about something I've been working on

cspong

I think definitely something Ive worked for.

thebaconbeast

Do you feel better when you get praised for something that you've worked for and achieved, or something that is inherent to you?

"I love your abs" vs. "You have beautiful eyes."

Do you wish abs were like eyes and you either had 'em or you didn't?

I've had both and didn't seem any different , but I think for most they would appreciate it more for the thing they had to work for.

kgprice11

Compliments on my body figure

TaintedVampyre

Definitely achievements. Although, I' cursed with a pigmentation to one of my eyebrows which has turned it white, and has been like this since I was 14... Then I'd say inheritance because it's quite unique.

Allie_71

Good question David

I think for me personally it's what I need validation on. I *know* that I'm a nice person, and I *know* that I'm intelligent. But if someone compliments me physically I still have that deep seated reaction of punching them and running away or dismissing it.

It makes me uncomfortable but it's also good to hear. But I guess I'd rather hear a compliment on something that I have control over. Like how strong I look or how far I've come. Rather than than something that I've just become used to about myself. i.e. hair.

:flowerforyou:

DarthCeltic

I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

i would win.. my moobs are superb..

infamousmk

I'd rather be told I'm funny or smart than anything about my body. Even abs.

morganhccstudent724

Both please



But really...

Accomplishments. Something I worked for...

Meisterberger

I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

i would win.. my moobs are superb..

I shake my fist at you and your moobs, sir.

bluegrasschica

I get compliments on my eyes all the time. It'd be nice to get some on things l worked hard for .

smileylittleorange

i'll take what I can get i'm not in the slightest bit fussy especially when it comes to compliments because I hardly get any especially from my husband who has had the compliment reducing brain surgery it seems (plays whiny tune on teeny tiny violin)

Cliffslosinit

I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

Let's just break out the ol' early creeper FR right now!!

Cliffslosinit

Accomplishments....the inheritance thing is cause daddy did mommy

redcat17

I would much rather be praised for something I worked for than something genetic. Genes are just the luck of the draw, and the competitiveness in me much prefers getting complimented for something I worked hard building.

DarthCeltic

I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

i would win.. my moobs are superb..

I shake my fist at you and your moobs, sir.

sigh.. i get this alot..

littlepinkhearts

I don't take compliments well, no matter what they pertain to. Having said that, I think i'd probably prefer being complimented on something i've worked hard for.

WifeNMama

Accomplishment.



But when my husband compliments my chestal region, I say, "Thanks! I grew them, myself." :bigsmile: :blushing:

HauteP1nk

Both are great...but accomplishment.

TheRoadDog

I've learned to say "Thank You" when I am complimented.

sktllmdrhmz

I figured this would be the reaction of most. I'm waiting for the outliers. They interest me.

Bronx_Montgomery

Something I have worked hard for.