Which is more you?

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  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Accomplishments. Never found women that were just a healthy weight to be OMFGURSOBEAUTIFUL - always preferred those that worked for a fit, athletic body.
  • kandyjo
    kandyjo Posts: 4,493 Member
    I like compliments no matter what :laugh:

    But I think I'm more... PROUD when I receive compliments on something I've worked hard for....
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    well I think I like both equally... but really what makes me feel the best is when I get a compliment on how I am as a person :)
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
    All of the above? Give me any genuine compliment, I'll take it.

    I guess maybe if I'd been working really hard at my job and my boss then complimented my eyes... I might be irritated. Other than that, I don't discriminate.
  • ladybg81
    ladybg81 Posts: 1,553 Member
    I'm greedy and crave attention....I WANT BOTH! :tongue: :laugh:

    This would be me!
  • _Tara_R
    _Tara_R Posts: 688 Member
    Something that I have worked for.
  • terri0527
    terri0527 Posts: 678 Member
    Something I have accomplished rather than something that just is and I had no control over. :drinker:
  • dia77
    dia77 Posts: 410 Member
    Do you feel better when you get praised for something that you've worked for and achieved, or something that is inherent to you?

    "I love your abs" vs. "You have beautiful eyes."

    Do you wish abs were like eyes and you either had 'em or you didn't?
    Both :)
  • jenbridges
    jenbridges Posts: 213 Member
    I don't care. A compliment is a compliment, and I appreciate it no matter what!
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    Always something I worked for, it's nice to have nice features, but I'd rather be noticed for my hard work.
  • GaidenJade
    GaidenJade Posts: 171
    Compliments make me uncomfortable but if I were forced to choose I'd say the one that I've worked the hardest for. To say you love my eyes is fine but to say I have amazing abs/legs/body whatever means a lot more to me because I've worked hard to achieve what I have and the work is paying off.

    Both instances make me uncomfortable and I never know how to respond. :blushing:

    Me too! Though I haven't gotten a compliment on my body yet, since I just started really being dedicated to changing it. But I think that the first time someone compliments my body I will most definitely be speechless. :blushing: :flowerforyou:
  • BigBrewski
    BigBrewski Posts: 922 Member
    I prefer compliments on my accomplishments. A lot of people say I look like Jon Lovitz ("yeah thats the ticket") and no I don't think that is a compliment but nobody every says things like hey you have nice moobs (good thing they are shrinking) or killer abs (they are in there somewhere) but I have had a few people say wow you have nice calfs or hey thats a sexy thigh muscle (yeah i dated that girl for a while) and I even had one girl tell me she thought I had sexy toes...wish i dated her LOL

    Just my 2 cents..
  • 7funnygirl7
    7funnygirl7 Posts: 1,176
    I think I would take a compliment better if it was for something that I couldnt change. You can have the hottest abs & an ugly face. If you have the prettiest face but a horrible stomach then you can fix that, you cant fix ugly.
    Ba ha ha ha ha. Love it!!
  • GaidenJade
    GaidenJade Posts: 171

    But when my husband compliments my chestal region, I say, "Thanks! I grew them, myself." :bigsmile: :blushing:



    LOL ^^^ love this. :drinker:
  • bobbalinks14
    bobbalinks14 Posts: 3 Member
    LOL! Thanks for making me laugh! Unfortunately mine are no competition!
    I'm more for a tit compliment. They are my best asset.

    i would win.. my moobs are superb..

    I shake my fist at you and your moobs, sir.


    sigh.. i get this alot..
  • poshcouture
    poshcouture Posts: 610
    I get compliments on my eyes all the time. I'd rather hear about something I've been working on

    This ^^
  • ninaquelinda
    ninaquelinda Posts: 136
    I don't care. A compliment is a compliment, and I appreciate it no matter what!

    ^^This... I appreciate any and every compliment, even the back handed ones lol
  • Pollywog39
    Pollywog39 Posts: 1,730 Member
    I just like to be praised, in general.............for all of my fabulous attributes, my inherent qualities, my outrageous intelligence, and my awesomeness.


    ..........just sayin'....................

    :smokin: :smokin: :smokin: :smokin:
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,249 Member
    If I work hard for anything I think it is more memorable...I have great features I love but I rarely focus on them do to wanted other areas to be Hot and Sexy....