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Guys vs Ladies

Posts: 292 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
So, my boyfriend said to me the other day that girls don't have to work hard to be sexy. They just need to not shove food in their face and have big boobs. He said guys on the other hand have to work out and get chiseled to be sexy.

His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.

I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?

This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?

I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.

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  • Posts: 1,087 Member
    So, my boyfriend said to me the other day that girls don't have to work hard to be sexy. They just need to not shove food in their face and have big boobs. He said guys on the other hand have to work out and get chiseled to be sexy.

    His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.

    I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?

    This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?

    I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.

    True ...End thread...

    Women just have to have a pulse

    Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..
  • Posts: 3,450 Member
    Hmmm. I think we're all doing it wrong then
  • Posts: 823 Member

    True ...End thread...

    Women just have to have a pulse

    Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..

    After viewing the posts of my male friends, I believe girls only need a pulse. But guys don't have to be sexy either. I am proof that women do sometimes even marry short round men....sometimes twice. LOL
  • Posts: 292 Member
    Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.
  • Posts: 1,087 Member
    True ...End thread...

    Women just have to have a pulse

    Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..

    OK OK..I kid...but seriously......

    Women rule the world....he should have said that...

    If there were no women...men would not work...we would just build stuff and break stuff and play dumb games...

    but because there are women...we have to work our buts off to be wanted!

    Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
  • Posts: 1,087 Member
    Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.

    this is where you are wrong my friend...Men and women think looks matter...

    if that's the case you would enjoy sleeping with any guy that appeases you mentally...
  • Posts: 292 Member
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    Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
    [/quote]

    I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.
  • Posts: 5,044 Member

    OK OK..I kid...but seriously......

    Women rule the world....he should have said that...

    If there were no women...men would not work...we would just build stuff and break stuff and play dumb games...

    but because there are women...we have to work our buts off to be wanted!

    Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...

    OMG Merc I think my panties fell down:cry::flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 34,463 Member
    I don't know if him saying that would bother me too much. Maybe it would, but people talk out their @ss all the time. Don't take it as his big Truth.
  • Posts: 1,374 Member
    Ok...but you're dating this guy????????
  • Posts: 1,377 Member
    It's all personal opinion on what that person finds sexy, that's all you can really say. If we all found one thing sexy there would be a lot more single people in the world.
  • Posts: 5,044 Member

    Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
    [/quote]

    I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.
    [/quote]

    Oh she is in charge of something that runs a man life. True dat!!
  • Posts: 292 Member

    this is where you are wrong my friend...Men and women think looks matter...

    if that's the case you would enjoy sleeping with any guy that appeases you mentally...

    My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol
  • Posts: 1,087 Member

    Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...

    I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.

    Actually a woman CAN control a man's life....Just gotta know how to control said man...but I digress...

    Men value personality as much as women do...we just don't speak on it like that....

    It's just not well.....MANLY?
  • Posts: 292 Member
    Ok...but you're dating this guy????????

    I know right? He can really tick me off sometimes.
  • Posts: 823 Member

    OMG Merc I think my panties fell down:cry::flowerforyou:

    Pull them back up before he gets another thread locked!
  • Posts: 1,799 Member
    My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol

    Must be the BBC.
  • Posts: 1,593 Member
    It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.

    I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.

    ...makes sense in my brain.
  • Posts: 1,087 Member

    My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol

    Right....but you just said you find him attractive!

    That's what you are attracted too...nothing wrong with that....*pencils in unibrow*


    But yea...there are trade offs in relationships...

    What's wrong with him thinking you are an awesome catch...

    You probably the finest chick he has been with...maybe? no?

    either way...if you start bugging out and treating him wrong and your personality starts to suck...

    watch him change his tune
  • Posts: 292 Member

    Must be the BBC.

    LOL
  • Posts: 1,087 Member
    It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.

    I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.

    ...makes sense in my brain.

    Totally agree

    A Man's body is gross...WTF
  • Posts: 292 Member
    It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.

    I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.

    ...makes sense in my brain.

    I guess so. But it really just made me mad that his ideal woman has a 20 inch waist and a DD cup. Especially when my waist is more like 30 and A cup.
  • Posts: 292 Member

    Totally agree

    A Man's body is gross...WTF

    I have to agree. A man's body is gross. LOL
  • Posts: 1,087 Member

    I guess so. But it really just made me mad that his ideal woman has a 20 inch waist and a DD cup. Especially when my waist is more like 30 and A cup.

    tina...you are searching for validation....I can see this coming a mile away....

    doesn't matter your waist or cup size...you are simply hot to your man...

    learn to embrace your hotness...
  • Posts: 1,087 Member

    I have to agree. A man's body is gross. LOL

    whoa..there little missy...not my body!
  • Posts: 771
    I don't agree with your BF.... I think that looks have little at all to do with a guy ( or a woman for that matter) to be considered sexy. Sexiness is an attitude and confidence thing. Nothing is more sexy to me in a man than quick wit and humor...end of story.
  • Posts: 2,132 Member
    An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?

    We all know the answer.
  • Posts: 823 Member
    An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?

    We all know the answer.

    The clown! He gets the girl every time!
  • Posts: 1,593 Member
    An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?

    We all know the answer.

    Yep.. I could just go ask some rando off the street. If a guy did that he would get arrested.
  • Posts: 7,870 Member
    I'm 5'10" and 38/26/37 with a 38" inseam. I feel considerably less than sexy about 90% of the time and rarely get any attention IRL.

    My ex husband was 5'5", 200 lbs, with major patches of back hair (and back-ne) and big ol' hobbit feet.
    He was still good looking.

    Sexy is as much about confidence as it is about actual appearance.
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