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Guys vs Ladies
tinabell153
Posts: 292 Member
So, my boyfriend said to me the other day that girls don't have to work hard to be sexy. They just need to not shove food in their face and have big boobs. He said guys on the other hand have to work out and get chiseled to be sexy.
His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.
I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?
This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?
I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.
His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.
I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?
This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?
I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.
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So, my boyfriend said to me the other day that girls don't have to work hard to be sexy. They just need to not shove food in their face and have big boobs. He said guys on the other hand have to work out and get chiseled to be sexy.
His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.
I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?
This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?
I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.
True ...End thread...
Women just have to have a pulse
Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..0 -
Hmmm. I think we're all doing it wrong then0
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So, my boyfriend said to me the other day that girls don't have to work hard to be sexy. They just need to not shove food in their face and have big boobs. He said guys on the other hand have to work out and get chiseled to be sexy.
His reasoning for bringing up this conversation was that he saw it on a video game forum.
I say this is NONSENSE! Girls have to work hard to be fit! And not all of us are big breasted so does that mean we aren't SEXY?
This really made me mad and he couldn't understand why I was so upset. What do you guys and gals think?
I'm thinking my bf is shallow. Even though he is with me and I have small boobs and am in no way close to model body type.
True ...End thread...
Women just have to have a pulse
Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..
After viewing the posts of my male friends, I believe girls only need a pulse. But guys don't have to be sexy either. I am proof that women do sometimes even marry short round men....sometimes twice. LOL0 -
Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.0
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True ...End thread...
Women just have to have a pulse
Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..
OK OK..I kid...but seriously......
Women rule the world....he should have said that...
If there were no women...men would not work...we would just build stuff and break stuff and play dumb games...
but because there are women...we have to work our buts off to be wanted!
Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...0 -
Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.
this is where you are wrong my friend...Men and women think looks matter...
if that's the case you would enjoy sleeping with any guy that appeases you mentally...0 -
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Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
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I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.0 -
True ...End thread...
Women just have to have a pulse
Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..
OK OK..I kid...but seriously......
Women rule the world....he should have said that...
If there were no women...men would not work...we would just build stuff and break stuff and play dumb games...
but because there are women...we have to work our buts off to be wanted!
Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
OMG Merc I think my panties fell down
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I don't know if him saying that would bother me too much. Maybe it would, but people talk out their @ss all the time. Don't take it as his big Truth.0
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Ok...but you're dating this guy????????0
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It's all personal opinion on what that person finds sexy, that's all you can really say. If we all found one thing sexy there would be a lot more single people in the world.0
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Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
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I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.
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Oh she is in charge of something that runs a man life. True dat!!0 -
Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.
this is where you are wrong my friend...Men and women think looks matter...
if that's the case you would enjoy sleeping with any guy that appeases you mentally...
My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol0 -
Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
I see your point. But honestly, both parties in a relationship determine if they want to be together. It's not like it's a woman in charge of the man's life.
Actually a woman CAN control a man's life....Just gotta know how to control said man...but I digress...
Men value personality as much as women do...we just don't speak on it like that....
It's just not well.....MANLY?0 -
Ok...but you're dating this guy????????
I know right? He can really tick me off sometimes.0 -
True ...End thread...
Women just have to have a pulse
Men have to either look rockstar ish, be paid, or have serious serious personality making her laugh..
OK OK..I kid...but seriously......
Women rule the world....he should have said that...
If there were no women...men would not work...we would just build stuff and break stuff and play dumb games...
but because there are women...we have to work our buts off to be wanted!
Seriously..men do not choose the Woman...The woman allows who can choose her...
OMG Merc I think my panties fell down:flowerforyou:
Pull them back up before he gets another thread locked!0 -
My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol
Must be the BBC.0 -
It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.0 -
Personally, I don't think looks should matter that much. But men are obsessed with butts and boobs.
this is where you are wrong my friend...Men and women think looks matter...
if that's the case you would enjoy sleeping with any guy that appeases you mentally...
My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol
Right....but you just said you find him attractive!
That's what you are attracted too...nothing wrong with that....*pencils in unibrow*
But yea...there are trade offs in relationships...
What's wrong with him thinking you are an awesome catch...
You probably the finest chick he has been with...maybe? no?
either way...if you start bugging out and treating him wrong and your personality starts to suck...
watch him change his tune0 -
My boyfriend is overweight and has zits all over his face and a unibrow when he doesn't tame it. I still love him though and I find him attractive in his own geeky way. lol
Must be the BBC.
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It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.
Totally agree
A Man's body is gross...WTF0 -
It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.
I guess so. But it really just made me mad that his ideal woman has a 20 inch waist and a DD cup. Especially when my waist is more like 30 and A cup.0 -
It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.
Totally agree
A Man's body is gross...WTF
I have to agree. A man's body is gross. LOL0 -
It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.
I guess so. But it really just made me mad that his ideal woman has a 20 inch waist and a DD cup. Especially when my waist is more like 30 and A cup.
tina...you are searching for validation....I can see this coming a mile away....
doesn't matter your waist or cup size...you are simply hot to your man...
learn to embrace your hotness...0 -
It's much easier for women to be sexy, because women just are sexy.
I work hard to be sexy in the eyes of myself, which is not as easy as being sexy in the eyes of a man.
...makes sense in my brain.
Totally agree
A Man's body is gross...WTF
I have to agree. A man's body is gross. LOL
whoa..there little missy...not my body!0 -
I don't agree with your BF.... I think that looks have little at all to do with a guy ( or a woman for that matter) to be considered sexy. Sexiness is an attitude and confidence thing. Nothing is more sexy to me in a man than quick wit and humor...end of story.0
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An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?
We all know the answer.0 -
An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?
We all know the answer.
The clown! He gets the girl every time!0 -
An ok looking guy and an ok looking female go into a bar. Who has a better chance of going home with someone?
We all know the answer.
Yep.. I could just go ask some rando off the street. If a guy did that he would get arrested.0 -
I'm 5'10" and 38/26/37 with a 38" inseam. I feel considerably less than sexy about 90% of the time and rarely get any attention IRL.
My ex husband was 5'5", 200 lbs, with major patches of back hair (and back-ne) and big ol' hobbit feet.
He was still good looking.
Sexy is as much about confidence as it is about actual appearance.0
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