Need support after miscarriage

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  • PunkyRachel
    PunkyRachel Posts: 1,959 Member
    You poor thang! :cry: *hugs* A miscarry is such a hard thing to deal with. I have had 6 little angels, I've never made it past my 1st trimester. The 1st 2 were the hardest, because I had told everyone, then had to turn around and tell everyone I lost them, I stopped telling anyone other than my hubby after that. After time, it is easy to talk about, you will go through the stages, I know I did. I had my sad stage, my hateful/jealous stage toward people I knew that were pregnant and having kids.(i even skipped a couple baby showers, I got invited too, just cause I was pissed God gave them a child and not me) Then my hopeful stage, but now I'm too the point I just say it's never gonna happen for me, and be happy with what I do have in life. Chin up, I won't say it gets better, but time does heal. :flowerforyou:
  • CourtneyHollinger
    CourtneyHollinger Posts: 57 Member
    Sending prayers to you and to your family and husband. I have watch and held a few of my friends hands as they have had miscarriages. Ok... so I sit here crying but they said if they could say one thing is that "They are Blessed!" bc NOT everyone has a chance to carry/conceive, but they know the baby is God's gift first and for most. I am sorry to talk bible when I don't know you but its they only way they have told me. One of them as found a new happiness with her step daughter and the other has 2 beautiful little girls. Both very close and dear to me. Rosalind (step daughter one) had her husband call to tell me to come over and I was 7 months pregnant at the time and she held my belly and whispered take the energy from her baby to give my baby extra support. Amazing and I cannot even explain the feeling that came over me at that time. I told her husband that I was not the one she needed to see, but she insisted bc God has control and even when we have no understanding he will show us in time for us to understand or to help someone else who is weaker than ourselves. Feel free to add me I am on everyday! But I hope you talk with your mom and sometimes bad things happen to good people bc others need more support. I am praying for your mom to reach out and support you but I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is with you and your husband.
  • Isaanne
    Isaanne Posts: 41 Member
    Glad you posted and reached out for support. So important to do this.

    I am sorry for your loss and like many others have had 2 miscarriages myself before having my two amazing kids. Took me a long time to get over the feelings and talking about it helped. And time.

    You are getting amazing advice on this thread and wonderful offers of support. Hang in there and be good to yourself.

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