is it easiert the first time you break up when it

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  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    sorry . . . what?
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    The blindside is harder.
  • Glowbee
    Glowbee Posts: 68 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    Tried it with my ex many times...we were on and off for 2 years....it wasn't easy.
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    The second was easier, as we each moved away from the area. A fresh start with the knowledge that going back wasn't an option. There's freedom in that, even when it's painful.
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    Neither
  • ExplorinLauren
    ExplorinLauren Posts: 991 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.



    While this is completely appropriate for this thread :laugh: :drinker:
    I wouldn't say it doesn't solve ANYTHING. lol ....
  • BarbWhite09
    BarbWhite09 Posts: 1,128 Member
    Problems?
  • ExplorinLauren
    ExplorinLauren Posts: 991 Member
    sorry . . . what?


    And, I 2nd this notion. :laugh:
  • KiwiKim25
    KiwiKim25 Posts: 61 Member
    Blindside is harder at first, but doesn't prolong the emotional turmoil like the off and on and off and on...

    (based on personal experience with both...)
  • RocketsGirl
    RocketsGirl Posts: 339 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.

    I don't think that comment was called for. Rude much?
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.

    Um, no. That wasn't the question, was it?
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I probably wouldn't have given him the second chance, but I would imagine the blindside would be slightly worse.


    Love you, beautiful! Hope it all works out.



    ETA: to the person who said "drinking doesn't help," you can just keep your mouth shut.
  • DieVixen
    DieVixen Posts: 790 Member
    let me take a shot re read and answer........
  • dollipop
    dollipop Posts: 379 Member
    The blindside sucks balls. I'm stuck somewhere between option 1 & 2. This also sucks balls. FML
    And *hugs* hope everything is ok?
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    They both friggin hurt like hell. The blindside has an added "shock" factor that the second chance doesn't have, but the second chance has a finality that the blindside doesn't. I'm so sorry you're having to experience the difference in the two, xoxo.
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
    The blindside is harder to get over and puts all the pain from the moment it happens and afterwards. Biggest problem I have is in not knowing why. Not that there has to be a logical reason, but it would have helped me to know where I went wrong. The other option is easier to gain closure and move on, but it's a slow build of the pain and anger up to the point of ending it. Both suck. I've been on the receiving end of both and the acting end of the second. Neither is easy to deal with.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.

    I don't think that comment was called for. Rude much?

    Come on, it was hilarious!
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.

    I don't think that comment was called for. Rude much?

    Come on, it was hilarious!




    Instead of a :facepalm: how about an elbow to your choppers. No, it wasn't hilarious you sick piece of s**t.

    U mad? It's serious when people start e-elbowing each others choppers. :laugh:
  • tadpole242
    tadpole242 Posts: 507 Member
    well, drinking doesn't solve the problem, regardless.
    You know of course that his/her icon(avatar) is just some image snatched off the net, it is not him/her. You did know that? right... lol

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