What's the deal with guys?

MandaPaigeSparkles88
MandaPaigeSparkles88 Posts: 1,289 Member
edited December 23 in Chit-Chat
Ok so I am gonna go on a rant, kinda annoyed at a particular guy. He has been messaging me for a while either on my cell phone or on facebook. (not gonna mention names). He asked if he could come down and see me yesterday too see me. I didn't lie to him I had a ton of things that I had to get done for college, so I told him that I couldn't see him today but that maybe when I have spare time we could hang out. Well I come to find out from a friend of mine that he has a girlfriend.

Ok rant time I don't want to be put in the situation to where I am the other woman. Been there, done that, and I have the t-shirt. I did this for a while after I got my divorce from my ex husband and to tell you the truth I don't like being the other woman. It sucks being the other woman cause the guy is only with you when it is convenient to them. I want a guy that wants one woman. I don't like to share my man and I would expect that he would have more respect for me not to put me in this situation.

Why do guys do this??? All opinions are appreciated!!!
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  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    Because they're only content with their current girlfriends, but want to see if there are better options for them????
  • tweakz20
    tweakz20 Posts: 152 Member
    We're men. We do what we want when we want to who we want, anytime, anywhere. Why? We're men.
  • MandaPaigeSparkles88
    MandaPaigeSparkles88 Posts: 1,289 Member
    I know it, just wish both men and women weren't so complicated!! lol
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    What does the t-shirt say?
  • LivetoRun07
    LivetoRun07 Posts: 183 Member
    Not all guys do it, there's just the occasional one that is stupid. Women can be just as bad. Best thing to do is tell him to get over himself, and move on and don't settle until you find exactly what you're looking for.
  • cubizzle
    cubizzle Posts: 900 Member
    Wait, women don't do this?
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Holy crap...you mean he did the same as women do? WTF!? It's a crime I tell you...a total crime.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Not all guys do it, there's just the occasional one that is stupid. Women can be just as bad. Best thing to do is tell him to get over himself, and move on and don't settle until you find exactly what you're looking for.
    +1
  • PShep17
    PShep17 Posts: 221 Member
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    So... it was OK for you to do it but not cool for him? A bit hypocritical, don't you think?
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Does the T say "I'm His Mistress" with an arrow?
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!

    -10. I'm revoking some of your Schrute Bucks.
  • LivetoRun07
    LivetoRun07 Posts: 183 Member
    Not all guys do it, there's just the occasional one that is stupid. Women can be just as bad. Best thing to do is tell him to get over himself, and move on and don't settle until you find exactly what you're looking for.
    +1

    Yay me =) lol
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.
  • hiker282
    hiker282 Posts: 983 Member
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!

    -10. I'm revoking some of your Schrute Bucks.

    Good thing I put all my stock in Stanley Nickles.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.

    The way you say sex organs is a complete turn on.
  • shellisugar
    shellisugar Posts: 120 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.

    This.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.

    The way you say sex organs is a complete turn on.


    Wanna do some other-woman stuff with me?
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.


    very much this.
  • PghBAMF
    PghBAMF Posts: 22
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!

    did you get a t-shirt when you visited BItter Town? hahaha jk
  • LovelyLifter
    LovelyLifter Posts: 560 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.


    very much this.

    agreed
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    maybe you should be a lesbian. women would never cheat. especially lesbians.
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!

    -10. I'm revoking some of your Schrute Bucks.

    What's the value of a Schrute Buck?
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Not all men do this - and women do this too. People are capable of being liars and cheats regardless of their sex organs.

    The way you say sex organs is a complete turn on.


    Wanna do some other-woman stuff with me?

    You know I do :blushing:
  • Pedal_Pusher
    Pedal_Pusher Posts: 1,166 Member
    You just gotta keep on keepin' on...............
  • xipow
    xipow Posts: 58
    Why do humans do this. Don't steriotype one group as being all the same. Men and women, do this.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Why do humans do this. Don't steriotype one group as being all the same. Men and women, do this.

    You're not even HUMAN! Damn animated characters telling us how to behave. SHEESH!
  • MandaPaigeSparkles88
    MandaPaigeSparkles88 Posts: 1,289 Member
    Wow I didn't think I would get this many responses lol. I know women are just as guilty of doing this as men are I totally completely understand that. I guess the fact that I didn't like is he wasn't honest with me. I appreciate all your opinions on this.

    And no I am gonna stick with men. Maybe I'll luck up and find a good one. Just don't be too harsh with me I was just venting.
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    They are all knobs. End of discussion!

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    LEVEL 5 Detected!

    Yes women can be *kitten* too!
  • Krushchev
    Krushchev Posts: 178 Member
    Does the T say "I'm His Mistress" with an arrow?

    It does now!
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