Breasts or fat??

InnerFatGirl

I'd prefer slim with smallish boobs. It's more about the shape of the body than the boobs for me, although I don't really like a flat chest.

By the way, I'm straight, but I notice women *shrugs*

blonde71

I lost some up top when I lost some body fat. Not happy about it. But I figure at least I'm healthy now. FWIW, even at higher body fat levels, my tata's were nothing to write home about, lol.

Darkskinned88

Boobs > Everything (except bacon) lol

ironanimal

I prefer smaller breasts. I don't like saggy, hangy boobs. So small and perky or silicone filled please

BeautyFromPain

Even when I was 90lbs at 13 years old (yes 13) I had DD's. I was skin and bones.

So no, breasts are not necessarily complete fat.

harlanJEN

Those aren 't the only 2 options.

How about a lean, strong woman with big breasts? They do exist.

mphlab

I am fat with relatively big breasts but instead of feeling sexy I feel matronly so I say go for healthy not hagard, I just saw a " success" story where the person looked best in the during photo so do not get too thin - it is not attractive or healthy! When you get close ask for opinions on if you need to lose more.

Look at www.mybodygallery.com to see what people look like at your weight & height.. It is easier to see on others than yourself!

rmartin72

Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

I would want you to be heathly and comfortable with your weight and fit. If you have small breasts and your heathly is fine with me. You have to be your self and do what makes you happy frist!!

Laces_0ut

to me thin/healthy/fit with small breasts is a million times more attractive than fat with large breasts.

chrissilini

Put it in perspective. I've been 'bigger' bodied for a long time. And had small boobs. I always wished they were bigger because they seemed small in comparison to the rest of my body. Well, I got my wish. Unfortunately it was because I had a bilateral mastectomy because I had breast cancer. I'd take my originals over these silicone things any day.

Just saying, be happy with what you've got. There are far worse things.

coalboilermanBryan

Honestly it depends on the man...I my self love skinny, and could care less about breasts big or small.....I would rather have the thin legs, and flat belly and nice butt.....with long hair. Other friends of mine don't care about the belly, they want the big boobs...So your question does not really have an answer.

MFPBrandy

I've lost 25 lbs, and I'm pretty sure it all came from my *kitten*. Baby got no back.

izzie_Preston

i prefer boobs that are doing their job feeding bambinos

unknownjae

Healthy woman is preferable to large breasts, small breasts or even any breasts at all. Healthy and happy beats everything.

bergsangel

I think both can be beautiful. Me personally, i just wanted to say I'm thin, had nice full breasts before I had and nursed 3 babies, and then had small, sad, empty ones. They made me feel less attractive. Now, they are big and fake and I love them again. Loved them more after nursing one child with implants for 14 months. I think it's really sad that people have to be so rude on here (women). Jealousy is a very ugly thing.

meshashesha2012

nevermind

jadedone

Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

Hmmm, I dislike the inference that to have large breasts is unhealthy and if you are healthy your breasts will be small. Breasts are extremely individual and many healthy weight women have large breasts. I certainly did. I've also seen many very heavy women who seemed to have small breasts. It depends on your body type.

The bottom line is, the most unhealthy thing is to obssess about a single body part. If the shrinkage makes you self-conscious, then buy a padded bra. That's what they make them for.

Exactly. I don't know where this incessant belief comes from that big boobs = big weight.

Bobby_Clerici

I much prefer thinner, healthy women with small, firm breasts....
Just an opinion.
To each his own :drinker:

Christine1110

I lost my weight there last...I still am a 36 DDD. I was hoping they would be a little smaller, but I can buy my bras at the store, and not mail order now!!

domdog

Ok, here's the thing- I gained weight after having my kids *and I nursed them both* so now that I have lost it again, my breasts are small and not-so-firm. I wish they were more perky, but that is an unrealistic expectation. My husband loves me and seems ok with what I have. The more important fact is that I have a genetic propensity for high cholesterol. My weight loss caused my overall level to come down A LOT. I am a healthier woman on the inside because of it.

je551caDan13ls

::headdesk::

You know there are millions of users on here, so when you ask "what is more attractive" you are going to get a million answers. How about what do YOU find attractive in yourself and go with that?

Love this^^^^^^

RacerX_14

Those aren 't the only 2 options.

How about a lean, strong woman with big breasts? They do exist.

YES!!! ^^^^ This ^^^^^

ESVABelle

Looking in the mirror and loving what you see.

LadyofLight08

Thankfully mine are still intact.

WonderKP

Fat breasts. Boom!

so you prefer heavy women?

You've never seen a skinny girl with big boobs?

<--- hehe..? jk I don't call myself "skinny"...

WonderKP

I lost my weight there last...I still am a 36 DDD. I was hoping they would be a little smaller, but I can buy my bras at the store, and not mail order now!!

oooh! good for you!! I hope I can say that one day...

charelg

What a topic! I think most men want nice size boobs and small waist with a little curve. Unfortunately ya can't tell your weight where to go, so I say smaller is better then flabbier...

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Let me ask, I noticed that when I lose weight, the breasts are the first to go.

What looks and feels better and is more attractive, heavy women with big breasts? Or thinner, healthy women with small breasts?

Seem I can't win either way....any opinions?

Hmmm, I dislike the inference that to have large breasts is unhealthy and if you are healthy your breasts will be small. Breasts are extremely individual and many healthy weight women have large breasts. I certainly did. I've also seen many very heavy women who seemed to have small breasts. It depends on your body type.

The bottom line is, the most unhealthy thing is to obssess about a single body part. If the shrinkage makes you self-conscious, then buy a padded bra. That's what they make them for.

Exactly. I don't know where this incessant belief comes from that big boobs = big weight.

They are NOT saying that big boobs equals big or unhealthy women. She is simply describing how her OWN body works, which is the same way MY body works. If I lose weight, my boobs are the first to go. They don't come back until I am about twenty-five pounds heavier than my ideal weight. Yes, women come in all shapes and sizes, some who are perfectly fit and healthy and with big boobs. However, for the author of the original post and myself, we don't have that option (short of surgery). My only two choices are thinner (healthy weight) and flat-chested or heavy and curvy. For women whose bodies work like ours, we have to be a little unhealthy in order to get to a "grown-up" bra size.

For me personally, if I have to choose between being a little overweight with some boob versus athletic and *barely* a handful, I choose athletic and healthy.

Rosa1213

I have very small breasts to begin with, and have lost a little bit of fat from them.
Yes, I'm upset about it, but I'd rather look hot all over, except for that one part, than have big breasts, but look very unhealthy everywhere else.