Could really use some advice

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  • AZDizzy
    AZDizzy Posts: 434 Member
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    I tend to take men at their word, so if one tells me they don't want to be in a relationship, I believe him and act accordingly. Adding in the large life-changes that come with the ex being pregnant, I'd be pushing the "next" button. Your mileage may vary.
  • brett1117
    brett1117 Posts: 208
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    SLOOOOOOOW DOWN!! it's only 4 weeks!!
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    As soon as thr baby comes he is gone
  • ComicBookGeekGirl
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    Walk away. He's knocked up a chick and is now running away and off to you. This is a boy, not a man. And in the end, you'll be no different than his last fling.

    Also, judge a man by his actions not his words.
    Yes! This!!
  • BVannillie
    BVannillie Posts: 140
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    I agree with getting the hell out. I know you like him so it's going to be tough, but really he doesn't seem to know what he's doing or what he wants. He'll probably just play you along and never commit and you'll be left heart-broken. Personally I would never date anyone who's just broken up with someone else, as it never ends well. Even if he was really into you and wanted a relationship his ex would probably ruin it. I say there are plenty of good men out there who know what they want and don't have emotional baggage that they plan on dumping on you.