whose doing it to catch someones eye

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  • PrettyKeli
    PrettyKeli Posts: 29
    Honestly op that is why you need to completely be doing it for yourself.

    If you are doing it for others, you give them complete control.

    Let's say you lose the weight and feel like you look perfect. If that person cheats on you or calls you fat, you will start questioning yourself, wanting to lose more weight etc.

    Confidence and self love attracts attention, not being slender.

    I've seen gorgeous women with perfect bodies walk in the street with their head down, bags in their eyes, a horrible expression on their face and their shoulders slumped. They look very unattractive

    You want to attract the right partner in your life, for your life. So take the time out to fall in love with yourself and make sure you are getting healthy for the right reasons to prevent problems in the future.
  • cryshelle247
    cryshelle247 Posts: 78 Member
    Honestly op that is why you need to completely be doing it for yourself.

    If you are doing it for others, you give them complete control.

    Let's say you lose the weight and feel like you look perfect. If that person cheats on you or calls you fat, you will start questioning yourself, wanting to lose more weight etc.

    Confidence and self love attracts attention, not being slender.

    I've seen gorgeous women with perfect bodies walk in the street with their head down, bags in their eyes, a horrible expression on their face and their shoulders slumped. They look very unattractive

    You want to attract the right partner in your life, for your life. So take the time out to fall in love with yourself and make sure you are getting healthy for the right reasons to prevent problems in the future.

    exactly i feel what you are saying i just feel a little like after all the hard work u did to put into looking good fit and healthy u deserve a little bit more respect and attention
  • DaGsGirl
    DaGsGirl Posts: 194
    I think we all are,just a little.... it Its always nice to have our spouses, or gf/bf's or someone else if youre single, think you are good looking and attractive. :flowerforyou:
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    I am doing this for my future child. My gynecologist was worried about my weight and wanted me to lose some so I will be at a healthy weight during pregnancy and told me "If you don't have motivation make your future baby your motivation." I walk every day on the trail rain or shine after that appointment :happy:
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    Part of the reason I did it was because I didn't want to be one of those fat and frumpy house wives. For as hard as my husband works so that I can stay home with the kids I should work just as hard on keeping up on myself for him. He would love me either way, and has, but I feel he deserves to have a fit wife :)
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    Part of the reason I did it was because I didn't want to be one of those fat and frumpy house wives. For as hard as my husband works so that I can stay home with the kids I should work just as hard on keeping up on myself for him. He would love me either way, and has, but I feel he deserves to have a fit wife :)

    Great answer! I agree with this too but about me :tongue:
  • LisaGamerGirl
    LisaGamerGirl Posts: 147
    my bf is working to be a personal trainer and he's also a photographer for attractive models. i'd damn well look good :(
  • YouAreTheShit
    YouAreTheShit Posts: 510 Member
    Me.

    I wanna be that girl everyone's eye turn to. I want guys to lust over me and girls to be jealous of me.

    Yeah, it's unlikely but whatever, lol. :P

    Hey FuneralDiner, I'm not sure that you're not pretty close to achieving that already... just sayin'. =D
  • BobbieLee1959
    BobbieLee1959 Posts: 605 Member
    Stuck with my someone...so no, not trying to catch his eye~~it has been an interesting journey and though I do not *WANT* to be noticed particularly...it has been fun when others of either sex, have commented on my tranformation (and I am really just getting a good start!)
  • shellii2k11
    shellii2k11 Posts: 1 Member
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  • Moonpix
    Moonpix Posts: 1
    I'm doing it to catch my own eye! Does that make sense?

    IT makes sense for me, I want to feel good and show it because that's what really catches people's eye, confidence. When you look like you own it people get a positive vibe from you and want to know you, id like to catch my own eye before anyone else's :happy:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I think we all are,just a little.... it Its always nice to have our spouses, or gf/bf's or someone else if youre single, think you are good looking and attractive. :flowerforyou:

    ^^^^Truth


    I want to be able to go to school and not just be "The old guy" even just a look here and there......But that isn't enough to keep me working at it each day. I work at this because it makes me feel better.

    I've been in shape and out of shape, and know how 'I' feel in shape....It's better. By a bunch.
  • annabellj
    annabellj Posts: 1,337 Member
    I am doing this because I was tired of not fitting into my clothes, being depressed because of it, not feeling like myself. In the end, I am getting waaaaaaaaaaay more attention than I prefer these days.men in general can really be a-holes.
    But it is great that I am wearing all the clothes in my closet, knowing that I can be around, healthy for my kids, husband, grandkids someday maybe.
    And there are a few people that push me to work even harder to get to goal so I can say, eff you! I am way hotter than you!
  • akaporn
    akaporn Posts: 231 Member
    I'm doing it mainly because I want to be healthy and performed better on the soccer pitch. My girlfriend loves me either way..

    BUT BUT BUT!

    It's much easier for our relationship these days. I no longer have to beg her for ... All I have to do is pretend that I forget to wear my sweatshirt when I go to bed.... I guess it could be one of my no scale victory!
  • cryshelle247
    cryshelle247 Posts: 78 Member
    Part of the reason I did it was because I didn't want to be one of those fat and frumpy house wives. For as hard as my husband works so that I can stay home with the kids I should work just as hard on keeping up on myself for him. He would love me either way, and has, but I feel he deserves to have a fit wife :)

    exactly i think these same thoughts

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