broken heart, new start

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  • veduffey
    veduffey Posts: 73
    Men are like streetcars, if you miss one, there will be another one along in a few minutes. You can use this to your advantage, the best revenge is living well. By the time you lose the weight you want to and feel better about yourself, you may find that what you want in a man has changed as well, hang in there, I know a broken heart is painful. Victoria:flowerforyou:
  • clarabellesimmo82
    clarabellesimmo82 Posts: 16
    His loss, is now your loss, in pounds that is!!

    Do this for you, on your own and prove that you really don't need him at all :)
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    good for you for taking the first step in getting healthy!!!!

    as with anything, it has to be all for you. use him as your starting point, but at some point, you've gotta turn it into doing it for you. way to go, and kick the trash to the curb, and time to let your fabulous self shine!!!!!
  • StarvingDiva
    StarvingDiva Posts: 1,107 Member
    I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak.
    I think it's wonderful that you have chosen to take this time to really take care of yourself and set out to lose some weight and find a healthier you. I was laid off my job in August of last year after 9 years working for the company, I was pretty upset, but I too used it as my jumping off point and looking to make a better life for myself all around.

    Welcome aboard and feel free to add me.
  • bbaker172
    bbaker172 Posts: 93
    All of you that have been dumped during a low point in your life....just think, is his worthless *kitten* who you really want to be with anyway? If someone can ditch out of a relationship when you're at your worst...they are NOT worth being with you when you're at your best!!!!!!


    And remember....Karma's a bigger ***** than any of us could be....
  • elsinorepc
    elsinorepc Posts: 2
    Keep your head high. Things happen for a reason. You're so young. Think of positive things and one day you'll be with someone who loves and appreciates you and you'll never look back.

    My name is Patricia, and I would love to be your friend.
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    *(*(*hugs*)*)* Good for you for turning a sad situation around into something good for yourself. You are amazing. <3
  • caro1275
    caro1275 Posts: 198 Member
    Yessss!!!! I love hearing stories like that!!!! Good for you!!
    I know its a great feeling to make them feel like crap... I recently met up with an ex at a grocery store (right after I left a workout so was wearing muscle shirt and shorts) and her eyes blew up... It was great because she was rhe one that dumped me bc she told me I was fat and sloppy 4 years adter i had discovered her cheating on me... She wanted to talk to me but told her I had to go because my beautiful fit wife was waiting at home for me. I had the biggest smile as I walked away. Later that evening I recieved a text from her saying she was sry for what she had done to me but was glad i looked happy.... My answer " You dmnnnnnn right
  • caro1275
    caro1275 Posts: 198 Member
    I am so sorry this happened. But I can tell you from experience, that when you are working out, and want to give up, it can certainly be a damn good motivator! Please feel free to add me if you need some support :)
    C-
  • twilightlvr79
    twilightlvr79 Posts: 130 Member
    I understand. I have not been in a serious relationship in many years. Mostly because I lack confidence because of my weight. I go out with my friends and always end up feeling like the fat kid in the corner. I never get hit on and it has really done a number on my self esteem. I have finally decided to do something about because I am sick and tired of being alone. Feel free to add me as a friend and we can motivate each other to reach our goals.
  • jeffwagstaff
    jeffwagstaff Posts: 29
    Turn the page.. Your Pro-Active decision will turn out to be the best thing you've ever done. But not for "him", rather for Yourself..!

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